Once upon a time, a father was about to leave for an evening bishopric meeting.

His four-year-old daughter stepped in front of him wearing pajamas and holding a copy of Book of Mormon Stories.

“Why do you have to go to a meeting?” she asked.

“Because I’m a counselor in the bishopric,” he answered.

“But you’re my dad,” his daughter protested. He knelt in front of her.

“Sweetheart,” he said, “I know you want me to read

to you and help you go to sleep. But tonight I need to help the bishop.” His daughter replied, “Doesn’t the bishop have a dad to help him go to sleep?”

We are eternally grateful for the countless members who serve diligently in the Church of Jesus Christ every day.

Your sacrifice is truly sacred, but as this girl seemed to understand, there is something equally sacred,

something irreplaceable, about a parent nurturing a child.

It reflects the pattern of heaven.

Our Father in Heaven, our Divine Parent,

surely rejoices when His children are taught and nurtured by their parents

on Earth. Parents, thank you for everything you are doing to raise your children, to raise your children. And children, thank you for everything you are doing to raise your parents. Because as every parent knows, we often learn as much from our children about faith, hope, and charity as they learn from us.

Have you ever thought about the tremendous risk our Father in Heaven takes each time He sends

a child to Earth? These are His spirit sons and daughters.

They have limitless potential.

They are destined to become glorious beings of goodness, grace, and truth. And yet they come to Earth completely helpless, barely able to do anything besides cry for help.

The memory of their time in God’s presence is veiled over, along with the knowledge of who they really are and who they can become.

They form their understanding of life, love,

God, and His plan based on what they observe from the people around them, especially their parents,

who honestly are still trying to figure things out for themselves.

God has given parents the “sacred duty to rear their children in love and righteousness, to provide for their physical and spiritual needs, and to teach them to ... observe the commandments of God.”

That's enough to keep even the best parents awake at night.

My message to all parents is this: The Lord loves you. He is with you. He

stands beside you. He is your strength in guiding your children to make righteous choices. Accept this privilege and responsibility courageously and joyfully. Don't delegate this source of heavenly blessings to anyone else. Within the framework of gospel values and principles,

you are the ones to guide your child in the details of daily decisions.

Help your child build faith in Jesus Christ, to love His gospel and His church, to prepare for a lifetime of righteous choices. In fact, that is God's plan for parents.

Satan will oppose you, distract you, try to discourage you.

But every child has received the light of Christ as a direct line to heaven,

and the Savior will help you, guide you, and encourage you. Seek His help.

Inquire of the Lord! Just as Jesus Christ is the strength of youth,

Jesus Christ is also the strength of parents. Sometimes we might wonder if someone else might be better qualified to guide and teach our children. But no matter how inadequate you may feel,

you have something that uniquely qualifies you—your love for your child.

A parent's love for a child is one of the strongest forces in the universe. It’s one of a few things on this Earth that can truly be eternal. Now, perhaps you feel that your relationship with your child is less than ideal. That's where the Savior's power comes in.

He heals the sick, and He can heal relationships.

He multiplies bread and fish, and He can multiply the love and the joy in your home.

Your love for your children creates a rich environment for teaching truth and building faith. Make your home a house of prayer, learning, and faith—

a house of joyful experiences, a place of belonging, a house of God. And “pray unto the Father with all the energy of heart.

that [you] may be filled with [His] love which he [bestows] upon ... followers of his Son, Jesus Christ.” Another strength you have as a parent is the opportunity for daily ongoing influence.

Peers, teachers, and media influencers come and go,

but you can be the most constant, steady influence in your child’s life.

Your efforts may seem small compared to the loud voices your children hear in the world.

At times it may feel that you are not accomplishing much.

But remember that “by small means the Lord [can] bring about great things.”

One home evening, one gospel conversation, or one good example may not change your child’s life in a moment any more than one drop of rain causes

a plant immediately to grow.

But the consistency of small and simple things day after day,

nourishes your children much better than an occasional flood.

That is the Lord's way. He speaks to you and your child with a still small voice, not a voice of thunder.

He healed Naaman not through “some great thing,” but through the simple, repeated act of washing. The children of Israel enjoyed the feast of quail in the wilderness, but what kept them alive was the small and simple miracle of manna—

their daily bread. Brothers and sisters, daily bread is best prepared and served at home.

Faith and testimony are best fostered in normal and natural ways, one bite at a time, in small and simple moments in the constant flow of daily living. Every moment is a teaching moment.

Every word and action can be a guide for making choices.

You may not see the immediate effects of your efforts, but don't give up.

“All things must come to pass in their time,” The Lord said. “Wherefore, be not weary in well doing, for [you] are laying the foundation of a great work.”

What work could be greater than helping God's precious children learn who

they really are and build their faith in Jesus Christ,

His gospel, and His church?

Jesus Christ will bless and magnify your consistent efforts.

Another powerful way the Lord supports parents is through the gift

of personal revelation. God is eager to pour out His Spirit to guide parents. As you are prayerful and sensitive to the Spirit,

He will warn you of hidden dangers.

He will reveal your children’s gifts, their strengths, and unspoken concerns.

God will help you see your children as He sees them—

beyond their outward appearance and into their hearts.

With God's help, you can learn to know your children in a pure and heavenly way. I invite you to accept God's offer to guide your family by personal revelation. Seek His guidance in your prayers.

Perhaps the most important help Jesus Christ offers to parents is the mighty change of heart. It’s a miracle every one of us needs. Now, for a moment, imagine this situation. You are at church listening to a talk about families.

The speaker describes a perfect home and an even more perfect family.

Husband and wife never quarrel.

Children only stop reading their scriptures when it's time to do homework. And the music of “Love One Another” is playing in the background. Before the speaker gets to the part about everyone joining in to cheerfully clean the bathroom,

you are already thinking “My family is hopeless.”

Now, my dear brothers and sisters, relax.

Everyone in the congregation is thinking the same thing.

The fact is, all parents worry about being not good enough.

Fortunately, there is a divine source of help for parents. It is Jesus Christ.

He is the source of our mighty change of heart.

As you open your heart to the Savior and His teachings, He will show you your weakness.

If you trust Jesus Christ with a humble heart,

He will make weak things become strong. He is the God of miracles.

Does that mean you and your family will be picture perfect? No.

But you will get better. Through the Savior’s grace,

little by little, you’ll develop more of the attributes parents need:

love for God and His children, patience, selflessness, faith in Christ, and courage to make righteous choices.

Our effort to build faith in Jesus Christ is home-centered,

focused on the individual, and it is Church-supported.

Besides the sacred scriptures and the words of prophets, the Savior's Church offers many resources to help parents and children make righteous choices.

“For the Strength of Youth: A Guide for Making Choices” does not give you a list of dos or don'ts. It teaches eternal truths to help make choices centered on the life and teachings of Jesus Christ.

Read it with your children. Let them talk about it.

Help them to have these eternal and divine truths guide their choices.

FSY conferences are another wonderful resource. I hope every youth will attend.

I invite young single adults to join these conferences as mentors and counselors. I invite parents to build on the spiritual momentum their youth bring home from FSY conferences.

Children and youth in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints have

teachers, advisers, and mentors.

Often you enter a young person's life at a crucial moment to build and support faith and testimony. Some of you are single adults. Some never had children of your own. Your joyful service to God’s children is sacred in God’s eyes.

My dear friends, my dear brothers and sisters,

Building faith in a child is somewhat like helping a flower grow.

You cannot tug on the stem to make it taller.

You cannot pry open the bud to get it to blossom sooner, and you cannot neglect the flower and expect it to grow or flourish spontaneously.

What you can and must do for the rising generation is provide rich,

nourishing soil with access to flowing heavenly water.

Remove weeds and anything that would block heavenly sunlight.

Create the best possible conditions for growth.

Patiently allow the rising generation to make inspired choices

and let God work His miracle.

The result will be more beautiful and more stunning and more joyful than anything you could accomplish just by yourself.

In Heavenly Father’s plan, family relationships are meant to be eternal.

This is why, as a parent, you never give up, even if you are not proud of how things went in the past. With Jesus Christ,

the Master Healer and Savior, there can always be a new beginning.

He always gives hope. Jesus Christ is the strength of families.

Jesus Christ is the strength of youth. And Jesus Christ is the strength of parents.

Of this I testify in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.