How do I hold a discussion about suicide with members of my ward?
Leaders may see a need to hold a discussion about suicide awareness and prevention with members of their ward. These discussions should be sensitive and caring, age-appropriate, and in harmony with Church teachings. Be careful when holding a discussion to avoid language that could cause someone to relive intense pain.
Leaders are encouraged to use Church resources and trusted professional resources. If you have not been trained in suicide prevention, you are encouraged to invite a professional from your community who understands the Church’s perspective on suicide. These professionals are trained to lead safe, effective discussions about suicide prevention and intervention and to assist in ongoing support efforts. They are also trained in how to adapt discussions for different age groups, including children and youth. LDS Family Services (where available), your area office, or local emergency medical services can help identify resources in your area.
Church and Community Resources
(Some of the resources listed below are not created, maintained, or controlled by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. While these materials are intended to serve as additional resources, the Church does not endorse any content that is not in keeping with its doctrines and teachings.)
- “Listen to Learn,” President Russell M. Nelson, Ensign, May 1991, 22–25
- “Taking Time to Talk and Listen,” Rosemary M. Wixom, Ensign, Apr. 2012, 10–13; or Liahona, Apr. 2012, 34–37
- “Parents and Children: Listening, Learning, and Loving,” Elder M. Russell Ballard, New Era, Feb. 2011, 2–7
- “Hope Squad Training,” Hope Squad
- “How to Talk to a 9–13-Year-Old Child about a Suicide Attempt in Your Family,” U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs
- “Preventing Suicide: How to Start a Survivors’ Group,” World Health Organization
- “Training Program: Facilitating a Suicide Bereavement Support Group,” American Foundation for Suicide Prevention