When you don’t agree with Church policy, try this.

The Church is always growing and evolving. So, while gospel truths remain the same, Church policies and programs can sometimes change.¹

If those changes rub you the wrong way at first, don’t panic! Many people are naturally averse to any change. Feeling unsure doesn’t make you a bad disciple. Here are four ideas for moving forward:

1. Pray for confirmation. One of the Holy Ghost’s main jobs is to help us know when something is true and inspired. We can pray to receive an independent witness of what our leaders have taught.
2. Explore the topic. Dive into scriptures and talks. If the subject isn’t directly addressed, read about broader topics like revelation and prophets.
3. Try acting on it. The Savior taught that we can know if a teaching is true by following it and seeing what happens (see John 7:17). Plant the seed and see what grows.
4. Hold on to what you do know. When a doubt pops up, you don’t have to throw away everything you already know is true. Nurture the testimony you have. Be patient. Trust that answers will come when the time is right.²

Notes

1. For example, God has commanded all His children to be baptized. But where baptisms are performed and who can officially witness that ordinance have changed over time.
2. For more help, see “Grappling with Unanswered Gospel Questions” from the January 2021 Liahona.