This presentation was given at the BYU Women’s Conference on May 4, 2023.

Sister, Michelle D. Craig was called as the First Counselor in the Young Women General Presidency.

Sister Craig was serving as a member of the Young Women and Relief Society organizations, as well as gospel doctrine teacher in Sunday School.

Sister Craig served a mission in the Dominican Republic Santo Domingo Mission.

She received a bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education from Brigham Young University.

Sister Craig and her husband, E. Boyd Craig,

have three children and six grandchildren.

We are delighted to hear Sister Craig's message today.

Oh, sisters, it is so good to be back together.

And Sister Craven and I are so grateful for this opportunity that we've had to prepare. It's a topic that we feel deeply.

We have this door in between our offices, and every now and then one of us just opens the door and just says, “Oh,

this is hard. It’s wonderful.” But anyway, thank you for your teaching.

Well, this topic of “Notwithstanding My Weakness” is dear to my heart.

And on my way to the recycling bin a number of months ago, I was thumbing through a magazine that had come in the mail, and I saw a page that literally stopped me in my tracks.

It was an image of a painting by Caitlin Connolly entitled “Holding Holy Things; Sister of Jared.”

I tore the page out of the magazine, and through tear-filled eyes, I thought about how often I feel like the woman depicted in this painting,

bringing my meager offerings, my rocks to the Lord, and asking for a miracle, asking for His light and His hand in my life.

My offerings have become holy things as I have climbed high mountains and have sought to have my rough places made smooth,

notwithstanding my weaknesses.

At times we feel overwhelmed with the demands of our circumstances. Too many children are not enough.

Maybe it's our marital status or a calling that demands more time and energy than we have, or perhaps feeling underutilized.

Bodies, minds, and relationships that need healing.

Financial stress that feels weighty. The list could go on and on and on.

You know, because you have your own list.

Yet we get out of bed every day and we want to bring the Lord our very best,

ordinary offerings. We bring our 16 small stones and we ask for miracles.

Well, I would like to share some principles from this story and others found in scripture about small stones,

light, faith in Jesus Christ, grace, and miracles—

principles that help give me perspective when I find myself coming up short again and again and again.

Like Sister Craven mentioned, there is a difference between weakness and sin.

Many of us are familiar with the scripture found in Ether 12:27 “And if men come unto me I will show unto them their weakness.

I give unto men weakness that they may be humble.”

Weakness in this verse is singular, not plural.

Weakness is a condition of mortality. It can help us experience how very much we need the Lord. Elder Richard G. Scott

taught that, “The Lord sees weakness differently than He does rebellion. Whereas the Lord warns that unrepented rebellion will bring punishment, when the Lord speaks of weaknesses, it is always with mercy.”

Close quote. We should never question that in His mercy, the Lord is ready, willing, and so anxious to help us overcome our weaknesses.

Recognizing our weakness is a catalyst to change. Back to Ether. In Ether 12:37 the Lord says to Moroni, “Because thou hast seen thy weakness, thou shalt be made strong.”

He’s not offering to change Moroni’s weakness, but to change Moroni because Moroni recognized his weakness and shortcomings. Those who do not see weakness simply do not progress.

This awareness is a blessing. It keeps us humble and turning to the Savior.

It was after Peter had been invited to launch out into the deep and let down his nets after a long night of fishing and nothing to show for it that the miracle occurred: so many fish that the boats began to sink.

Peter fell at the feet of Jesus and cried out, “I am a sinful man, oh Lord!” He certainly recognized and acknowledged weakness in that moment.

His words and subsequent actions show us that the closer we get to Jesus Christ,

we become aware of our weakness and we desire His help in becoming more like Him.

President Ezra Taft Benson taught that, “Men and women who turn their lives over to God will discover that He can make a lot more out of their lives than they can.”

This is what happened to Peter and the other disciples.

Jesus helped them realize they could do more than catch fish.

They could become, with His help, fishers of men.

As we recognize our weakness, desire to change, rely on Jesus Christ,

our very natures can change.

We, too, can experience the promise found in 2 Nephi 3:13:

“Out of weakness, he shall be made strong.” Discontent can be divine.

I have spoken before of divine discontent.

Calls to action from prophets, seers, revelators, or from the Holy Ghost,

along with our innate sense that we can do and be more, sometimes create within us what Elder Neal A. Maxwell called divine discontent. Divine discontent comes when we compare what we are with what we have the power to become. Each of us, if we're honest, feels that gap.

We yearn for greater personal capacity. We want to do more and be more.

We have these feelings because we are daughters and sons of God,

born with the light of Christ. Yet we live in a fallen world.

These feelings can be a blessing because they can propel us to action and greater discipleship.

But Satan knows this as well, and he would have us see our weakness as a sign of failure. He would have us wallow in despair and discouragement, focusing on everything that we are not, lacking in capacity, looks, finances, personality, health, talent, you name it.

Okay, We all come up short in something, don't we?

Our discontent can become destructive when we listen to those voices and believe the messages that Satan bombards us with.

Or it can become divine when it turns us to Jesus Christ with humility.

One of my earliest memories is coming face to face with my shortcomings.

I remember starting kindergarten with the goal to be perfect;

to never, ever, ever make a mistake all through school. Ever.

So I remember the very first day, and we were sitting at our little table and we got a worksheet.

This is my very first chance to do something perfectly.

And there were two columns of pictures on the paper, for example, like Goldilocks on one side and three bears on the other, and we were to draw matching lines.

Well, I took my time, but I wasn't quite sure I had done it right.

And then we had recess and out in the kindergarten courtyard,

some of us compared notes. And to my horror, I realized I had made a mistake.

I had done something wrong on my very first worksheet, on my very first day of school. So I ran and hid.

I ran outside of the kindergarten courtyard and the bell rang for recess and everybody went in. But I stayed in my hiding spot.

It wasn't long before the teacher came out. I heard her calling my name. She found me, talked me off the edge, assured me that all was not lost. I was going to be okay. So fast forward a few years to my baptism day and I had a goal. Can you guess what it was? I was going to be perfect.

Like, never make a mistake, ever.

So—and I was pretty good for an hour or two,

and then I can't exactly remember what happened. But I do remember being outside with a lot of family, and I got mad at one of my brothers, and I probably said something unkind.

I don't remember the words, but I remember so well the sinking feeling that came when I realized I had sinned. It had only been a few hours and I'd already blown it.

So what did I do? This is a pattern. I ran and hid. I did. I hid behind a tree. But this time nobody came looking for me.

And after a long time, I realized I had to come out of my hiding place.

Okay, sisters. The message to run and hide comes directly from Satan's playbook.

We see this pattern in scripture and we see it in the temple.

We are taught the Lord's solution to mistakes and sin in those very same places. Faith is a principle of action, sisters, and the Lord loves effort. Back to the account of the brother of Jared.

He had a problem and he took that problem to the Lord.

The barges he had built to cross the ocean had no light.

“Behold, O Lord, wilt thou suffer that we shall cross this great water in darkness?” After crying unto the Lord in prayer,

the brother of Jared did not go home and wait for an angel to deliver the solution. He went to work. As disciples of Jesus Christ,

we must remember that it is not meet that the Lord should command in all things. Like the brother of Jared, we must carefully evaluate those things in our life that we need to start doing, stop doing, and continue doing.

There will not be a one-size-fits-all answer to most of our needs.

The same words given to the brother of Jared

as he was instructed to build those barges, go to work and build

apply to each one of us. We aren’t in the business of building barges, but we are in the business of building up people and building up testimonies as we invite others to come to Jesus Christ.

Take your plans to the Lord in prayer.

This will require faith and effort on your part.

Living as a disciple of Jesus Christ requires work.

And as He did with the stone offerings of the brother of Jared,

I know that the Lord will touch your efforts as you seek His assistance.

The brother of Jared showed us how faith is exercised by moving our feet. President Harold B. Lee taught, quote, “If you want the blessing,

don't just kneel down and pray about it.

Prepare yourselves in every conceivable way you can in order to make yourselves worthy to receive the blessing you seek.” Close quote.

The brother of Jared climbed up a mountain,

a mountain of exceeding height, to find some stones. And he didn’t take the first rocks he found,

but rather he “did molten out of a rock sixteen small stones, and they were white and clear, even as transparent glass.”

He did everything he could on his own, and then he took it to the Lord. To turn the rock into smooth, clear stones, he had to subject it to a great heat,

a refining process that could be compared to life.

As we trust God, strive to live the commandments,

make and keep sacred covenants, and serve others

the rough edges become smooth.

We become like those stones presented to the Lord by the brother of Jared. Stones that were meager, ordinary offerings—

they were set aflame with enduring light when touched one by one by the Lord. Another account I love in the scriptures is that of Enoch.

Enoch had received a call from the Lord that overwhelmed him.

“Why is it that I have found favor in thy sight and am but a lad, and all the people hate me; for I am slow of speech; wherefore am I thy servant?”

The Lord’s advice: “Open thy mouth and it shall be filled. And I will give thee utterance.” How many of us feel similar to Enoch

at times? We’re called by the Lord to do something that’s hard.

Sometimes that hard is just because we live in a fallen world.

Sometimes we feel that's what is being asked of us is beyond our abilities and capabilities. Perhaps we want to run and hide. More than once I have cried out to the Lord with my lack.

How can my rocks, my five loaves and fishes, possibly be enough for what is being asked of me? Sisters, all of us come up short.

We simply don't have enough time, patience, energy, brainpower, or capacity. But we don’t see any suggestion that Enoch doubted the promise given by the Lord.

He simply went to work with obedience and faith. President Thomas S. Monson taught,

“Remember that this work is not yours and mine alone. It is the Lord’s work,

and when we are on the Lord’s errand, we’re entitled to the Lord’s help.

Remember that whom the Lord calls, the Lord qualifies.”

Another principle is that power to convert a weakness to a strength is possible through the grace of Jesus Christ.

Enoch’s story reveals the amazing power of God’s grace, power that each one of us can experience to some degree as we just move forward with faith in Him.

“As Enoch spake forth the words of God, the people trembled and could not stand in his presence.”

“So great was the faith of Enoch that... he spake the word of the Lord and the earth trembled, and the mountains fled, even according to his command; and the rivers of water were turned out of their course; ... and all nations feared greatly, so powerful was the word of Enoch, and so great was the power of the language which God had given him.”

All of this from a lad who was slow of speech.

The grace of Jesus Christ transforms and protects.

When Adam and Eve were found naked in the Garden of Eden,

the Lord made coats of skins to cover them.

These coats can symbolize the covering we can experience because the Lamb of God, Jesus Christ, atoned for our sins and our shortcomings, our weakness. The Hebrew word for atonement is Kafar.

It literally means to cover or a covering.

The temple garment is a covering that I carry out of the temple with me,

a physical representation of Jesus Christ, His atoning sacrifice, His grace, and my covenant relationship with Him.

It is a gift and I love wearing them.

I bear testimony that the verse found in Philippians 4:13, which is the youth theme this year,

is true: “I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.”

The power to convert a weakness to a strength, to accomplish those things that we’ve been asked to do is made possible through the grace of Jesus Christ. Sisters, miracles can come from our meager offerings.

The story of 16 small stones is a story that teaches us that our Savior can do anything and bring His light into the most unexpected places in the most unexpected ways. He can do extraordinary things with a rock.

So on those days when you feel ordinary,

when you feel like maybe your best isn't good enough,

remember that God isn't asking for any of us to be perfect before blessing us,

before blessing our imperfect efforts.

What He requires from us is our hearts and a willing mind.

What He is asking from us is that we just do all that we can.

We offer our loaves and our fishes, our rocks, and we give them willingly to Jesus Christ.

He magnifies and touches our offerings and they become enough and despair.

I love this quote from Elder Lawrence E. Corbridge.

“For those of us who feel wanting when it comes to talents and gifts,

it is encouraging to know that [the Savior’s invitation to ’let your light so shine before men’] is not to dazzle others with who we are or what we know.

Rather, ... our light is the light of the world, our Savior Jesus Christ, reflected in us as we simply strive to do as He did. That’s it.

The Lord tells us to follow Him and not be ashamed or unwilling to stand out. Do not be ashamed to hold up His light.

Do not be afraid to shine. Do not worry about the outcome.”

President James E. Faust taught, “Occasionally ... you are too hard on yourselves.

You think that if your offering is not quite perfect, it is not acceptable.

I tell you, however, that if you've done your best, which you usually do,

your humble offering, whatever it may be,

will be acceptable and pleasing to the Lord,” close quote.

And finally, sisters, a witness comes after the trial of our faith.

The brother of Jared faced a trial of faith, and the witness he received was twofold.

The desired blessing came, the stones were touched and they were filled with light.

But even more important was what happened in the process.

As the Lord touched the stones, the brother of Jared saw the finger of the Lord.

And because of his great faith, the Lord showed Himself to the brother of Jared saying, “Behold, I am He who was prepared from the foundation of the world to redeem my people. Behold, I am Jesus Christ.”

When we trust God and allow Him to prevail in our lives,

the end result will be better than we possibly could imagine.

When the brother of Jared climbed the mountain and presented his best effort, his 16 stones,

I don't think he was expecting to see Jesus Christ. But he did.

Notwithstanding our weakness.

Like the brother of Jared,

the most important miracle we can experience is the knowledge that Jesus Christ lives,

that His light can shine in our lives and in the lives of those we serve.

Sisters. I bear testimony that He is the light of the world,

our bright morning star, our advocate, and our shepherd.

And I say these things in His holy name, the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

This presentation was given at the BYU Women’s Conference on May 4, 2023.