Dekhrekh Ke Niyam, June 2018
Paanch Cheez Achcha Sune La Long Kare Hai
Asal me sunne se aap ke madad mili Uddhaarkarta ke rakam dusron ke aatmik aur saansaarik zarooraton ke pura kare me.
Elder Jeffrey R. Holland jon Barah Devduton ke Korum ke hai bolis raha: “Saait ke baat bole se jaada zaroori howe hai sunna. … Agar hum long pyaar se sunega, hum long ke soche ke nahi padi konchi bole ke chaahi. U hum long ke diya jaai—Aatma ke taraf se.”1
Sunna ek hunar hai jon hum long seekhe sakta hai. Sune se dusar long ke kostin hum long ke pyaar dikhaawe hai, mazboot rishte bane hai, aur Aatma ke amantrit kare hai hum long ke ashish dewe ke sab jaane laa uphaar mile ke dusar long ke zaroorato ke samjhe me madad kare ke liye.2 Yahan pe paanch tarika hai jisse hum long sudhaare sakta kaise sune ke hai.
1.U Long Ke Samay Do
Dher jan ke samay chahiye taaki u long sake kuch bole se pehle apan vichaar ikattha kare. U long ke samay do kuch bole se pehle aur baad me soche ke kostin(dekhiye James 1:19). Aise to nahi ki kaahe ki u long baat kare ke khalaas kar dis u long zaroorat la sab cheez bol dis hai. Khamoshi se daro nahi (dekhiye Job 2:11–3:1 aur Alma 18:14–16).
2.Dhyaan Deo
Koi ke bole se tez hum long sochta hai. Anjaam tay kare la behkaawa pe kaabu paao ya pura baat ke sune bina hi jawaab soche lagna (dekhiye Proverbs 18:13). Ya phir, samjhe ke iraada se suno. Aap ke jawaab behtar rahi kyunki uske zyaada samajhdaari se bataya ge hai.
3.Saral Karo
Waisan sawaal puche se daro nahi jisse tum jon cheez nahi samjha raha aur saral hoi jaaye. (dekhiye Mark 9:32). Saral kare se galatfehmi kamti howe hai aur i dikhaawe ki aap u baat me dilchaspi rakhta hai.
4.Sochiye
Apne shabd me batao aap konchi suna aur kaise aap sehmat hai dusra ke ehsaas se. Isse u long jaane paawe agar u long ke samjha ge hai aur u long ke maoka mile saral kare ke.
5.Dhoondo Kaise Ek Jaisa Ho
Aap saait sab baat nahi maanega, lekin kuch had tak samajh lega bina apan khud ke ehsaas ke galat tehraae. Sehmat rahe se betaabi aur bachaao ke ehsaas ke shaant kare me madad mili (dekhiye Matthew 5:25).
Pradhaan Russell M. Nelson sikhaais ki hum long ke chaahi “sikho sune ke kostin, aur suno ek dusre se sikhe ke kostin.”3 Sab se seekhe ke kostin jab aap sunega, aap u long ke zaroorat samjhe aur prerna sune ke behtar jagah pe rahega ki kaise aap sakta apan nazdeek la long ke dekhbhaal Uddhaarkarta ke rakam kare.
Sune ke Matlab Hai Pyaar
Elder Holland ke ek kahani, sune ke shakti dikhaawe hai:
“Mera dost Troy Russell apan saamaan dhoe la lorry dhire se garaaj me se nikaalis. … Uske laga ki piche la taaya koi cheez ke uppar chadhis. … U bhaire niklis aur dekhis uske nao-saal-ke-ladka, Austen, siment pe muh niche ke taraf kare leta hai. … Austen nahi raha.
“Na sowe paata raha, na shaanti milta raha, Troy ke shaant karna mushkil raha. … Par u peeda bhara samay me aais … John Manning. …
“Sach me humme to nahi pata John aur uske jawaan saathi kab kab Russell long ke ghare ge. … Humme pata hai ki pichle spring ke mausam me Bhaai Manning jab jhuk ke Troy Russell ke draaivway pe ghate la u durghatna se aise uthaais jaise u khud Austen ke uthaata raha hoi. U bhaai … ke rakam jon susamachaar ke kaaran use banna tha, John Troy Russell ke pristhud dekhbhaal aur dhyaan rakhna apan uppar le lis raha. U i rakam bol ke suru karis, ‘Troy, Austen maange aap apan paer pe phir jiye ke seekho—jaao baasketbol khelo—tab hum aap ke sab roj 5.15 a.m. yahan milega. Redi rehna. …’
“‘Hum nahi mangta raha jaawe,’ Troy humme baad me batais, ‘kyunki hum sab taaim apan sange Austen ke leke jaata raha. … Par John bolte raha, aur hum chal diya. Laute ke pehle hi roj se, hum long baat kara—ya jaada hum bola aur John sunis. Suru me mushkil raha, lekin taaim beette beette hum jaan paaya ki hamme hamaar taaqat [John Manning] ke rup me mil ge raha, jon humse pyaar karta raha aur humme sunta raha jab tak hum phir se jiye ke nahin seekha.’”4
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