Dekhrekh Ke Niyam, January 2019

U Lakshye Jisse Hum Long ke Dekhrekh Me Badlaao Aai

Jabki dekhrekh ke etna dher lakshye hai, hum long ke dekhrekh ke koshish chaahi dusar ke madad kare ke ichcha se ubhro taaki woh khud apna samarpan paaye aur Uddhaarkarta ki tarah bane.

Jab hum long dusar ke, Uddhaarkarta ke rakam pyaar karega, hum long maangega u long ke Unke hi rakam madad kare. Achcha Charwaaha hone ke naate, Woh hi sab se asli uddharan hai arthpurn dekhrekh ka.

Uske rakam apan dekhrekh kare me, i yaad kare ke zaroori hai ki Uske pyaar kare, aage badhawe, sewa kare, aur ashish de ke koshisho ke ek mahaan lakshye raha na ki sirf abhi la zaroorat pura kare ke. U to zaroor se janta raha u long ke sab roz ke zaroorat aur u long ke abhi ke kasht pe daya karta raha. Isliye U changaai dees, khaana khawaais, maaf karis, aur sikhaais. Lekin U mangta raha khali aaj ke pyaas mitaae se zyaada kare (dekhiye John 4:13–14). U mangta raha Uske aas paas ke logh Uske raah pe chalo (dekhiye Luke 18:22; John 21:22), Uske jaano (dekhiye John 10:14; Doctrine and Covenants 132:22–24), aur apan divye sambhaona haasil karo (dekhiye Matthew 5:48). Yahi aaj bhi sach hai (dekhiye Doctrine and Covenants 67:13).

Anginit tarah se hum long sakta dusar ke madad kareh, lekin hum long ke dekhrekh ke antim lakshye hai dusar long ke madad karna Uddhaarkarta ke jaano aur Uske rakam bano, hum long u din tak pahunche ke liye kaam karega jab hum long ke apan padosi ke sikhawe ke nahi padi Prabhu ke jaane ke liye kyunki hum sab Uske jaanega (dekhiye Jeremiah 31:34).

Uddhaarkarta ke Dhyaan Khali Abhi ke Zaroorat Pe Nahi Raha

Kuch log bahut takleef se apan dost joh lakwa seh bimaar theh ke Ishu ke paas changaai ke liye laais. Ant me Uddhaarkarta u admi ke changaai dees, lekin Uske ichcha raha u admi ke uske paap se chama karo (dekhiye Luke 5:18–26).
Jab kuch log Uddhaarkarta ke paas ek aurat ke laais jon adultry me pakdaais raha, jab U uske ninda nahi karis aur U aurat ke sharirik dand se bach geis raha. Lekin U mangta raha u aurat ke dhaarmik rup se bhi bachawe, uske batais “jaao, aur ab phir kabhi paap nahi karna” (dekhiye John 8:2–11).
Mary aur Martha Ishu ke khabar bhejais ki U aae ke Apan dost, Lazarus, ke changaai de. Ishu, jon ki dher dafe kitno ko changaai dees raha, Lazarus tak pahunche meh deri kar dees ki uske maut hoige. Ishu janta raha pariwaar konchi chahata raha, lekin Lazarus ke mare huwon se uthaawe meh, U Apan divyeta meh U long ke gawahi mazboot karis raha (dekhiye John 11:21–27).

Aap i list me aur kaun uddharan jodhe sakta hai?

Hum Kya Kar Sakte Hai?

Agar hum long ke lakshye hai dusar ke madad karna Uddhaarkarta ke rakam bane meh, isi seh hum long ke dekhrekh kare ke tarika badli. Kuch tarike diye gaye hai i gyaan sake hum long ke dekhrekh ke koshish kareh meh raah dikhaae.

Iraada 1: Sewa ke sambandh Uddhaarkarta se Jodho

Hum long ke sab achchaai kare la koshish sahi rahe hai, lekin hum long sakta maoka khoje apan sewa ke badhawe ke uske Uddhaarkarta se jodhe se. Jaise ki, agar aap jon pariwaar ke dekhrekh karta u beemaar hai, ek samay ke bhojan saait madad kari, lekin saral pyaar dikhaae se i rakam uske dugna kare sakta agar aap Uddhaarkarta ke pyaar, unke liye, ki gawahi dega. Aap jab angna me kaam karke madad dega to u long ke achcha lagi, lekin saait zyaada arthpurn rahi jab ek pristhud ashirvaad bhi de maangega.

Elder Neil L. Andersen Barah Devduton ke Korum ko sikhaais: “Ek achche dil ka insaan kisi ko taaya banane me madad kar sakta hai, ek saath-rehne waale ko daactar ke paas le jaa sakta hai, kisi udaas insaan ke saath bhojan kar sakta hai, ya muskura ke aur hello bol sakta hai kisi ke din ko ujwal karne ke liye.

“Par pehle niyam ko nibhaane waala apne aap hi in sewa ke zaroori kaarye meh kuch zyaada karega.”¹

Iraada 2: Vachanbadh Raste pe Dhyaan do

Jab pehla dafa Girjaghar ke Pradhaan, Pradhaan Russell M. Nelson sadasye long se baat karis, u bolis, “Vachanbadh rasta par raho.” Vachan banane aur nibhaae se “darwaza khulega har ek dhaarmik ashirvaad aur saobhaagye ke paaye ke maoka mili.”²

Antim-din Sant hone ke naate, hum long baptisma liya, confirm hoya, aur Pavitra Aatma ke uphaar paaya. Kaabil purush sadasye ke pristhud mile. Hum long apan endowment aur hamesha pariwaar ke saath bandhane ke liye mandir jaata. I sab bachawe la dharamvidhi aur usse milte julte vachan zaroori hai hamein Unki tarah banane ke liye taaki hum Unke saath rahe sake.

Hum long sakta ek zaroori bhumika nibhaae dusar long ke madad kare se u rasta pe jahan u long apan vachan nibhaae paaye aur bhavishye ke vachan banae ke tayyaari kare.³ Aap kaise sakta apan sewa dewe la insaan ya pariwaar long ke madad kare agla dharamvidhi paaye ke? Iske matlab sake howe ek pita ke madad karna apan beti ke baptisma dewaae ke, agle vachan ke ashirvaad ke baare me samjhana, ya unhe tarike batana kaise sekramant lete samay wo arthpurn anubhav paaye vachano ko phir se dohrane me.

Iraada 3: Amantrit aur Protsaahit Karo

Jab sahi lage, aap jinke parwaah karta unse baat karo u long ke badlao pe aur zyaada Maseeh ke rakam bane ke koshish ke baare me. U long ke batao tum u-long me kon achchaai dekhta aur pasand karta hai. Pata lagao kahan u long soche u long sake sudhre aur aap kaise sakta madad kare pe baat karo. (Jinse aap dekhrekh karta ke sange salaah mashora kare pe aur jaankari ke liye dekhiye “U Long ke Jarurat Pe Salaah Do,” Liahona, Sept. 2018, 6–9.)

Daro nahi u long ke amantrit kare ke Uddhaarkarta ke raah pe chale ke aur Uske maoka do u long ke madad kare ke apan divye sambhaaona paawe ke. I nimantran sake jiwan-badle la rehwe, jab aap u long par bharosa dikhaega aur Uspar apan biswaas.

Che Tarika Jisse Hum Long Sakta Dusar Long ke Madad kare Maseeh ke or Badhe meh.

Niche diye gaye kuch sujhaao hai dusar long ke sahayta kare ke jiwan me badlaao laawe ke aur vachanbadhta ke rasta pe safalta paawe me. (Dekhiye Preach My Gospel, chapter 11, aur iraado ke liye.)

Sheya Karo. Vishvasaniye aur nidar raho jab batata hai kaise Uddhaarkarta aapke madad karis jab aap koshish karta raha Uske nazdeek jaawe ke susamachaar ke siddhaant ke paalan kare me, mushkilon ke bawajood.
Vaada kiye ashirvaadein Logon ko ek vajah chahiye badalne ke liye jisme zaada damm hai na badalne ke vajah ke milaan me. Kuch kare ke piche kaun se ashirvaad hai se shaktishaali prerna mil sakti hai (dekhiye Doctrine and Covenants 130:20–21).
Amantrit karo. Ek susamachaar siddhaant par rahene se ek sachcha gawahi mile hai (dekhiye John 7:17) aur gehra badlaao ki or le jaata hai.⁴ Lagbhag har ek milan me sake ek saral nimantran rehwe kuch kare ke jisse u long ke madad mili pragati kare ke.
Sange mil ke yojna banao. Konchi chaahi u long ke liye ho jisse u long badle me apan jimwari safalta se pura kare paai? Aap kaise madad kare sakta? Is samay ke daoraan kya kuch hone waala hai?
Sahara Do. Jab sahayta karna chaaho, logon ka ek sahayta dene ka network banao jo us insaan ko prerit rakhe aur safalta tak pahunchaae. Hum sab ko ek prashansa karne waala chahiye.
Nigraani rakhe. Lagataar pragati pe baate karo. Banae huwe yojna pe dhyaan do par zaroorat padne pe usme sudhaar laao. Dhiraj rakho, lage raho aur protsaahan dete raho. Badlaao aane me samay lag sakta hai.

Kaarye Kare ke Nimantran

Kuch tarike socho jisse aapke dekhrekh karne ki koshish—dono chote aur badhe—dusar ke madad kare sake u long ke badlaao ke gehra kare me aur Uddhaarkarta ki tarah bane me.