Dekhrekh Ke Niyam, June 2019

Dekhrekh Hai Dusro ko dekh bhaal karna Uddhaarkarta ke rakam

Ishu ne Apan zyaada samay u long ke saath bitaya jon alag maana jaata raha; Usne unke pavitra sambhavi ko jaana.

Hum long ke koshish Uddhaarkarta ke rakam dekhrekh kare me, hum long ke shayad batae jaae koi ke dekhrekh karo jon humlog ke rakam nahi rahi. Isse hum long ke maoka mile sikhe aur badhe ke.

Sanskriti, siksha, jaati, aarthik-vyavastha, umar, pichle ya abhi ke vartao, ya aur alag bhinntaaen asaan kar dewe hai bina kisi ko jaane seh pahele unpar nirnay karne ko. I rakam ke pehle-se-nirnay karna dil meh pakshapaat ka mukhye kaaran hai, aur Uddhaarkarta ne iske khilaaf chetaoni di hai (dekhiye 1 Samuel 16:7; John 7:24).

Kya hum un bhinntaaon ko bhool ke aur doosar long ke Uddhaarkarta ke rakam samjhe? Kaun rakam se hum doosar ke pyaar kare ke sikhe, u long ke jo kuch bhi hai aur u long jon kutch ban sakeh hai?

Samajhna aur Pyaar Jataana

Baaibal dhani jawaan aadmi ka jaana-maana kahani batata hai jisne pucha tha kaise anant jiwan woh paa sakta hai: “Tab Ishu uske samjhis aur pyaar jataais, aur usse bolis, Tujh me ek baat ki kami hai: jaa, jo kuch tera hai, use bech kar, aur kangaalo ko de, aur tujhe swarg me dhan milega: aur aakar krus utha, aur mere piche ho le” (Mark 10:21).

Jab Elder S. Mark Palmer jo Sattar ke hai ne kuch saalo baad is skripcha ko padha, uske i kahani ke alag pehlu achanak dikhaai dees.

“‘Tab Ishu uske samjhis aur useh pyaar jatais.’

“Jab hum i shabd ko suna, hamaar mann me ek jhalak aais ki hum long ke Prabhu rukis aur i jawaan admi ke samjhe ke koshish karis. Samajhna—jaise ki gehri soch se uske aatma me jhaakna, uske achchaai ko pehchaanna aur uske sambhaona ko bhi, saath hi saath me uske sabse badi zaroorat ko samajhna.

“Phir yeh saadharan shabd—Ishu ne useh pyaar jataya. U bahut dher pyaar aur daya mehsoos karis i achcha jawaan admi ke liye, aur yahi pyaar ke kaaran aur yahi pyaar se ,Ishu usse kuch aur bhi maangis. Hum dekhe saka kaise raha hoi i admi ke liye jab u etna zyaada pyaar se chha gais raha u samay jab ki tab uske kuch bataya ge kare ke jon etna kathin hai jaise apan sab kuch becho aur gareeb me baat do. …

“[Hum apne aap se pucha] ‘Kaise hum sakta Masih-jaisa pyaar se bhar jaaye taaki [dusar long] sake Parmeshwar ke pyaar hamaar zariye mehsoos kare aur itcha kare badle ke?’ Hum kaise sakta [apan aas-paas ke log ke] samjhe wahi rakam se jaise Prabhu u dhani jawaan admi ke samjhis raha, u long ke jo sach me kaun hai aur u long kiya ban sake wahi rakam samjho, aur nahi ki khali u long jon cheez kare ya nahi kare hai? Hum kaise sakta aur zyaada Uddhaarkarta ke rakam bane?”¹

Dusar ke Samjhe ke Seekho

Dusar ke Uddhaarkarta jaise samjhe se bahut ashirvaad mile hai. Yahan pe kuch sujhaao hai jon hum long ke madat kari i kaam me jaise humlog koshish karega is lakshye paaye ke.

Unse Pehchaan Badhaao
Koshish karo sab koi ke achcha se jaane ke. I maan lo ki rishte banane me samay aur sachchi koshish lagti hai. (Madad ke liye dekhiye August 2018 ka Ministering Principles ka lekh “Building Meaningful Relationships.”)
Apne Aap ke Parkho
Dhyaan do aap kaisan nirnay banata hoi chaahe jaan-boojh ke ya anjaane me. Dhyaan do ki aap dusar ke baare me kaun rakam anumaan lagata hai aur koshish karo samjhe ke kaahe aap u rakam u long ke baare me mehsoos karta.
Koi Nirnay Na Lein
Yeh pehchaanna zaroori hai ki paristhitiyon se ek insaan ka mol nahin jaana jaata. Apne aap ko unke jagah pe rakhiye aur sochiye ki aap kya chaahenge kaise koi aapko samjhe agar aap wahi paristhitiyon me hote. Kisi ke chunaaoti aur vartao ko kisi ke aantarik mulya aur divye sambhaona se alag kare se hum long ke madat mili uske Uddhaarkarta ke nazar se samjhe ke.
Praathna Karo Ki Unse Pyaar Sakta Kare
Praathna karo niyamit taur se unka naam le ke aur dheeraj ke liye taaki ek sachcha dosti banae sako. Praathnasheel dhang se dekho kaise aap unke sewa karta hai. Kya aap jo karta aur jo unhe satchhme zaroori hai me koi fark hai?

Ishu alag alag rakam ke insaan ke sange Apan samay bitaais: dhani long, gareeb long, netaa long, aur aam admi long. Woh aksar doosar log dwara galat nirnay ka sikaar hota raha jab u llog uske gareebta aur mamuli parishthiti ko dekhta raha. “Jab hum uske dekhega, koi aisan sundarta nahi thi jisse hum usko chaah sakte. … Uski grahana ki gayi thi, aur uske hum ne unkosammaanit nahi kiya tha” (Isaiah 53:2–3).

Masih-jaisa Drishti

Ek bahan yeh kahani batati hai ek padosi ko Masih-jaise nazar se samajhne ki.

“Julia (jiska naam kuch aur hai) hamaar nazdeek rehti thi aur shayad uska koi dost nahi tha. Woh hamesha chintit aur gusse me lagti thi. Uske bawajood, hum mangta raha uske dost bane. Khali ek kabhi kabhi la dost nahi, par ek sachcha dost. Jab bhi hum uske dekhta raha usse baat karta raha aur u jo bhi cheez karta raha usme dilchaspi dikhata raha. Aaste se, hamaar aur usme dosti ke rishta badh ge raha, jisse hamaar hidhay me bahut khush hoya.

“Ek din, hum giya Julia ke mile aur usse puche kaahe u girja nahi mangta raha aawe.

“Hum seekha ki yahan nazdeek me uske koi pariwaar ya rishtedaar nahi rehta raha. Uske ek bhaai, jon kahi door rehwe hai, usse khali saal me ek hi baar baat kare. Jab hum suna u kaise apan pariwaar aur Girja ke baare me apan kadwaahat, gussa, aur niraasha hamme batate jaawe, hum ek aisan daya aur pyaar ke ehsaas mila i bahan ke liye jon bahut taakatwar raha. Hum uske peeda aur niraasha mehsoos kare paaya. Hum jaan paaya ki uske jiwan ketna akelapan raha. Ayse lagta raha ki hamaar piche koi dhire se bole: ‘Hum bhi usse pyaar karta hai. Uske pyaar aur aadar karo.’

“Hum bhaeth ke sunte raha jab tak uske paas kuch aur bole ke nahi bacha. Hum uske liye pyaar aur daya mehsoos kara. Yeh ek bahan hai jon kabhi nahi jaanis kaise lage koi ke pyaar paao. Achanak se hum uske aur achcha se samajh liya. Hum uske dhanyevaad diya hamme uske mile ke maoka dewe ke liye, aur usse vida liya apan pura pyaar aur aadar se gale laga ke. U kabhi nahi jaan paai u ek milan se hamaar uppar ketna asar bhe raha. Swarg ke Pita hamaar aankhi khol dees raha aur hamme sikhaais raha ki hammar me dher daya ke saath pyaar kare ke chamta raha. Hum faesla kar liya hai ki hum khali uske dost nahi rahega balki uske pariwaar bhi banega.

I ek pavitra baat hai ki koi ke jiwan ke bhaag bane sako. Praathna, dheeraj, aur Aatma se madad leke, hum long sakta seeke aysa kareh ke aur bhi zyaada Masih-jaisa drishti se.