Dekhrekh Ke Niyam, August 2019

Kya Mai Kisi Ko BADALNE ME Madad Kar Sakta Hoon?

Haan. Lekin aapke bhumika saait aap jonchi socha raha usse alag rahi.

Hum long waise banaya gaya raha ki hum long sakega badle. Apan divye sambhaona ke or badhna hi hum long ke maransheel anubhav ke lakshye hai. Dekhrekh kare ke hum long ke antim lakshye hai dusar long ke madad karna Masih ke jaisa aur Uske upasthiti me jaawe ke liye zaroori badlaao karna. Lekin u long ke chunne ke shakti ke kaaran, hum long ke bhumika u long ke madad kare me kuch rukawat hai.

Yahan pe Uddhaarkarta ke diye 7 shaktishaali paath hai ki kaise hum long dusar long ke sehyog de sakta, ki u long apan badle ke koshish me aur zyaada Uddhaarkarta ke rakam ban paayi.

Badlaao ke Amantrit kare se Daro Nahi

Uddhaarkarta darta nahi raha dusar long ke amantrit kare me ki u long puraana rasta chodh de aur Uske shiksha apnaai. U Peter aur James ke amantrit karis ki weh apan kaam chodhe aur “manushyon ke machwaare ban jaae” (Mark 1:17). Jon aurat vaybhichaar(adultery) me pakdaais raha U Uske amantrit karis “jaa, aur fir paap na karna” (John 8:11). U dhani yuvak ke amantrit karis duniya ke cheezon se lagaao chodh de aur Uske piche ho le (dekhiye Mark 10:17–22). Hum long sakta nidarta aur pyaar se dusar long ke amantrit kare badle ke aur Uddhaarkarta ke rasta pe chale ke.
Yaad Rakhna Badalna U Long ke Apan Chunaao Hai

Jon rakam ke badlaao Uddhaarkarta amantrit kare hai u koi ke uppar jabran nahi laagu kara jaawe. Uddhaarkarta sikhaais aur amantrit karis, lekin u jabran nahi karis. Dhani yuwak “udaas hokar chala gaya” (Matthew 19:22). Capernaum me, Uske dher chela long maangis “chalaaejawe ,” aur U Barah se puchis agar u long bhi mangta raha chalae jaawe (dekhiye John 6:66–67). John Baptisma dewe la ke kuch chela long mangis Uddhaarkarta ke sange jaawe, aur baaki sab nahi maangis (dekhiye John 1:35–37; 10:40–42). Hum long sakta aur sab ke amantrit kare Unhi ke rakam bane ke, lekin hum long nahi sakta u long ke badle ke chunaao kare. Aur agar u long abhi tak badle ke nahi chunis hai, hum long ke haar nahi maane ke chaahi—na toh hum long ke chaahi socho hum asaphal hai.
Praathna Karo ki Dusar Long Badle Paai

Apan Mahaan Yaajkiye Praathna ke daoraan, Ishu Pita Parmeshwar se bolis ki Uske chela long buraai se surakshit rahe, aur zyaada Uske aur Pita ke tarah bane, aur Parmeshwar ke pyaar se bharpoor ho jaae (dekhiye John 17:11, 21–23, 26). Aur yeh jaante huwe ki Peter ko shakti ki zaroorat hogi apan jimwaari ko pura karne me, Uddhaarkarta ne uske liye praathna kiya (dekhiye Luke 22:32). Dusron ke liye praathna karne se bahut prabhaao padhta hai unpe (dekhiye James 5:16).
U Long ke Uske Shakti pe Nirbhar Howe Ke Sikhaao

Sirf Uddhaarkarta ke zariye hi hum long sakta sach me badle aur us divye sambhaaona ke paawe. Woh hi, “maarg, sachchaai, aur jiwan hai: bina [Uske] madad se, koi Pita ke paas nahin pahunch sakta” (John 14:6). Uski hi shakti se “kamzor cheeze mazboot bana deta hai” (Ether 12:27). Uske praeshchit ke shakti me vishwaas ne Alma the Younger ko badla tha (dekhiye Alma 36:16–23). Hum long sakta dusar long ke sikhaawe Uddhaarkarta pe nirbhar howe ke taaki u long ke bhi jiwan me Uske shudh kare la shakti rahe.
U Long se Waise Pesh Aao Jaise U Long Sake Bane

Pyaar aur swikaarna badlaao ke shaktishaali prabhaao bane sake hai. Kunwa pe khadi mahila ek aadmi ke saath rehti thi jo uska pati nahi tha. Ishu ke chelein “ashcharye karne lage ki woh stri se baate kar raha hai” (John 4:27), lekin Ishu ko zyaada parwaah tha ki woh kya ban sakti hai. Usne use sikhaaya aur use badalne ka maoka diya, jo usne kiya. (Dekhiye John 4:4–42.)

Jab hum long dusar ke sange waise rahega jaise u long hum long ke sange pesh aais na ki jaisa woh ban sakte hai, hum unhe rokenge. Iske bajae, hum maaf kar sakte hai aur puraane galtiyon ko bhool sakte hai. Hum maan sakte hai ki dusre log badle sake. Hum long sakta kamzori ke nazarandaaz kare aur u long ke achcha gun pe gaor karwaae. ”Hum long ke jimwari hai insaan ke jaise u long hai waise nahi par u long jo ban sakte hai u rakam dekho.”¹
U Long Ke Apan Raftaar Pe Badalne Do

Badlaao aane me samay lag sakta hai. Hum long sab ke chaahi “dhiraj se aage badhte raho jab tak [hum long] pefekt nahi hoi jaata” (Doctrine and Covenants 67:13). Ishu dusar ke saathe dhiraj se kaam leis aur u long ke bhi sikhaate rahis jo Uske virudh meh raha, Apan bhumika ke gawahi deta raha jon Uske Pita dees raha aur u long ke sawaalo ke jawaab deta raha (dekhiye Matthew 12:1–13; John 7:28–29). Hum long sakta dusar ke saath dhiraj se kaam le aur u long ke protsaahit kare apne aap me dhiraj rakkhe ke.
Niraash Mat Hona Agar Woh Apne Puraane Tariko pe Laot Jaae

Masih ke mare ke baad, Peter aur kuch anye chela long bhi apan pehle la jaana maana tariko ko karne lage the (dekhiye John 21:3). Masih Peter ke yaad karais ki uske chahata raha “[Uske] memno ko chara khilae ” (dekhiye John 21:15–17), aur Peter fir se prachaar karne nikal pada. Bahut aasaan ho sakta hai puraane tariko me fir se lautna. Hum long sakta ahiste ahiste protsaahan aur prerna bhare nimantran dete rahe Uddhaarkarta ke maarg pe chale ke aur Uske jaisa bane ke koshish kare.

Dusro ke Badhe Ke Maoka Do

Elder Jeffrey R. Holland jon Barah Devduton ke Korum ke hai i kahani batais dusro ke badhe ke maoka dewe ke baare me: “Hum ek jawaan admi ke baare me ek baar suna raha dher saal pehle jon lagbhag hamesha apan paathshaala ke har ek khilli ka kaaran rehta tha. Uske kuch kamzori raha, aur isi karan uske umar ke bachche asaani se use chidhaate rahe. Kuch saalo baad woh us jagah se chala gaya. Aur jaa kar sena me shaamil hua aur uske kuch safal anubhavein the wahan shiksha paane me aur apne pichle jiwan se woh dur ho gaya tha. Anth me, jaise ki sabhi sena me aane waale karte hai, usne bhi Girja ki sundarta aur mahaanta ko jaana aur usme vyast aur khushaal jiwan guzarne laga.

“Tab, kayi saalon baad, u apan bachpan ke shahar laotis. Uske umar ke kaafi log wahan se chale gaye the par sab nahi. Aysa hua, jab woh safal aur naye vichaaron ke saath laota, wohi puraane-yaadein ab bhi wahan the, uske laotne ka intazaar karte huwe. Uske shahar ke logon ke liye, woh ab bhi wohi puraana ‘falana-dhakana’ raha…

“Anth me aysa hua ki is aadmi ka Bible ke Paul ki tarah koshish puraane ko piche chodhne ka aur us inaam ko paana jo Parmeshwar ne uske pahunch me rakkha hai dhire dhire kam hota gaya jab tak woh mara nahi woh apne jawaani me rehta raha. … Kitna bura, kitna dukh ki baat ki woh ek baar phir … unhi logon me ghir gaya jo sochte the ki uska pichla jiwan uske bhavishye se zyaada dilchasp hai. U long safal raha uske u cheez se door kare jiske liye Masih uske paais raha. Aur u dukhi mar ge, bhale isme uske koi dosh nahi raha. …

“Insaan ke pashchataap karen do. Insaan ke aage badhen do. Vishwaas karo ki insaan sake badle aur sudhre.”²