2020
Prabhubhoj Sabha ke Dwara Dekhrekh Karna
June 2020


“Prabhubhoj Sabha ke Dwara Dekhrekh Karna,” Liahona, June 2020

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Tasveerein Edward McGowan dwara

Dekhrekh Ke Niyam, June 2020

Prabhubhoj Sabha ke Dwara Dekhrekh Karna

Prabhubhoj sabha maoka deta hai dusron ke saath judne ka aur unki dekhrekh karne ka.

Prabhubhoj sabha aatmik poshan aur niji rup se Uddhaarkarta aur Unke Praeshchit pe dhyaan dene ka ek samay hai. Jab hum sab hafta prabhubhoj ko lete hai, hum ek saath seekh paate hai (dekhiye Doctrine and Covenants 84:110). Lekin hum long kuch jan apan saathe wards aur shaakhaaon me bhaari chintaaen laate hai ya phir wahan aate hi nahi hai.

Yahan par kuch maoka bataya ge hai jisse ki hum us pavitra samay ko dusron ki dekhrekh me istemaal kar sakte hai aur unke jiwanon me badlaao laa sakte hai.

Aap Jinki Dekhrekh Karte hai Unke Liye Prabhubhoj Sabha ko Behtar Banaiye

Dekhrekh karna seekhne me sabse pehle un logon ya parivaaron aur unke zarooraton ko jaanna hota hai. Shaayad koi tarika hoi jisse aap sakta uh log ke prabhubhoj lewe la anubhav ke behtar banawe khali uh log ke baare me aur jaane se.

Mindy ke liye, jon judwa choti ladki long ke jawaan maa hai, uske dekhrekh kare la bahan ke sadhaaran koshishon ne bahut bada badlaao laaya uske prabhubhoj sabha ke anubhav me sab hafta.

“Hamaar admi ke kaam la taaim ke kaaran, hum hum-long ke judwa betiyon ke girja apne se le ke jaata raha sab hafta,” Mindy batais. “Bahut mushkil rehwe pura prabhubhoj sabha me raho dui chilbil ladki long ke saathe, lekin hamaar dekhrekh kare la bahan apne aaye ke hamaar madad kare hai.

“Woh hum logon ke saathe baethe hai aur sab hafta hamaar ladki long ke khyaal kare me haath batawe hai. Khali uske hamaar paas baithe se hamme ketna sahara mile aur sach me hamaar chinta kam karde jon samay ladki long halla kare ya jidh kare lage. Hum nahi sochta uh kabhi jaane paai uske ih harkat hamaar jiwan me is samay pe ketna prabhaaoshaali raha. Uh toh khali hamaar zaroorat dekhis ek jawaan, chintit maa ke, aur uh madad kare taaki girja aana hum long ke liye ek shaant aur khushaal jagah bane hum sab ke liye.”

Kis Tarah Se Khaas Zaroorat Rakhne Waalon ko Madad Kar Sakte Hai

  • Jaae ke elders quorum aur Sahayak Sanstha ke leadaron ko sadasyon ke zarooraton ke baare me bataao.

  • Leadar tab prabhubhoj sabha ke bhaashan ko un sadasyon ke zarooraton ke mutaabik aayojit karenge. Agar aap jiske dekhrekh karta hai ke chaahi koi khaas sandesh padho, iske bhi apan leadaron se batao.

  • Agar aap janta hai ki koi jan ke kuch durbalta ya bhojan ke allergy hai jiske kaaran uh long nahi sake prabhubhoj ke anand lewe, uh long se pucho ki kon rakam se sake badlaao kara jaawe jisse uh long aur achcha se bhakti kare saki. Ih baat bhi apan leadaron ko batao.

  • Agar jiske aap dekhrekh karta ya janta hai uh ghar hi me rehwe paawe, chaahe hamesha ya kabhi kisi kaaran, apan bishop se pucho ki kya prabhubhoj uske ghare sake dewa jaawe. Aap sakta prabhubhoj sabha ke samay bhi note likhe aur uh long se phone pe, email se, ya khud jaa kar batlaae.

  • Agar koi jiske aap dekhrekh karta hai ke paas chota ladkan hai, aap sakta uh log ke madad kare ke koshish kare.

  • Agar aap jiske dekhrekh karta aksar prabhubhoj sabha me nahi aawe hai, aap samjhe ke koshish kare sakta aur madad kare ke rasta khoje sakta. Agar uh log ke gaadi ki zaroorat hai, aap sakta uh log ke apan saathe baethaae ke le ke jaawe. Agar uh long mehsoos kare uh log ke parivaar sahayta nahi kare, aap sakta uh log se bole aapke saathe baethe ke. Aap sakta khaas nimantran banawe uh log ke amantrit mehsoos karwaae ke prabhubhoj sabha me.

Yaad Rakhna, Sadhaaran Koshishon ka Asar Bhaari Hota Hai

Dekhrekh ke baare me baat karte huwe, Bahan Jean B. Bingham, Sahayak Sanstha Maha Pradhaan, sikhaais: “Kabhikabhi hum log sochta hum log ke bahut bada aur mashoor kare ke chaahi tab uh ‘gina’ jaai apan padosi ke sewa me. Phir bhi sewa ke sadhaaran kaarye ka bhaari asar hota hai auron par—iske saath saath hum par bhi.”1

Belgium ke ek chote ward me, Evita aksar Spanish-samajhne waale mehmaanon aur sadasyon ke liye Girjaghar ke sabhaaon ke daoraan anuwaad karti thi. Ek baar, Evita ka parichay Dominican Republic ke vyakti se hua jo Girjaghar ke baare me seekh raha tha. Woh thoda Angrezi janta raha, par Spanish uska maatra bhasha raha. Is kaaran Evita ne dhire se uske liye prabhubhoj sabha me anuwaad kiya taaki use zyaada suvidha ho.

“Anuwaad karte rehne se kabhi kabhi mera Raviwaar thoda vyast ho jaata hai,” Evita kehti hai. “Par prerna pe amal karke dusron se puchna ki kya unhe anuwaadak ki zaroorat hai se mujhe sach me khushi aur aaraam milta hai yeh jaan ke ki mere zariye unhe Aatma mehsoos hota hai aur woh apne sabha ka anand le sakte hai.”

Kuch Vichaar Sadhaaran Tarikon se Madad Karne ke Liye

  • Apne leadaron se baat karein yeh dekhne ke liye ki kise prabhubhoj sabha ke daoraan zyaada sewa ki zaroorat hai. Ya agar aap kisi ayse vyakti ko jaante hai, yeh tay karein ki aapke leadaron ko inke baare me pataa hai.

  • Shaant se baethiye jab aap sabha shuru hone ka intazaar kar rahe hai. Isse anye “dukhi hridayon aur shokart aatmaaon waalon ko madad milega jo aas paas baethe hai”2 jinhe shaanti ki sakht zaroorat hai jo sirf ek pavitra jagah pe shraddha se milta hai.

  • Upwaas waale Raviwaar ko, apne upwaas aur praathna ko kisi ayse vyakti ke liye karein jinki aap dekhrekh karte hai jise zyaada madad ki zaroorat hai.

  • Praathna karein yeh janne ke liye ki kya koi aysa hai jise aapke bagal me ya nazdeek baethne se faeda hoga ya koi aysa hai jiski aap madad kar sakte hai.

Prabhubhoj Sabha Sab ke Liye ek Amantrit Mehsoos Karne ka Jagah Hai

Pradhaan Joseph Fielding Smith (1876–1972) taught, “Prabhubhoj sabha sabse pavitra, sabse paak hai Girjaghar ke sabhi sabhaaon me se.”3 Iske kaaran, yeh zaroori hai tay karna ki jo sab log prabhubhoj sabha me bhaag le rahe hai amantrit mehsoos karte hai aur aatmik rup se sampurn hai—khaaskar naye sadasye ya sadasye jo thode dino se aaye nahi hai.

New South Wales, Australia ki Merania ne, ek mahila se dosti ki jo uske ward me Girjaghar ke baare me seekh rahi thi. “Woh ab meri priye saheli ban gayi hai,” Merania kehti hai. “Mujhe uske saath har hafte prabhubhoj sabha me baethna pasand hai, aur mai hamesha puchti hoon uska jiwan kaisa beeth raha hai aur kya kuch aysa hai jo mai uske liye kar sakti hoon.” Kuch dino baad, Merania ke dost ne baptisma liya. Ward ke sadasyon ki koshishon dwara, tatha prabhubhoj sabha ke swaagat karne waale maahol se, uske chunao pe bhaari asar pada.

Lautne Waale ya Naye Sadasyon ki Dekhrekh karne pe Vichaar

  • Jab aap prabhubhoj sabha me baat karne waale ho, aap doston, parivaar, aur anye logon ko amantrit kar sakte hai aapke sandesh ko sunne ke liye.

  • Aap un logon ko dhoondh sakte hai aur swaagat kar sakte hai jo akele ya zarooratmand hai. Puchiye kya aap unke paas baeth sakte hai ya unhe apne saath baethne ko amantrit karein.

  • Jab sabha khatm hoga, aap un logon ko amantrit kar sakte hai jinki aap dekhrekh karte hai aur auron ko jo aane waale Girjaghar gatividhiyon me, mandir pe, ya kisi anye milne ke ausar pe.

  • Agar koi jise aap dekhrekh karte hai prabhubhoj sabha me aata ho par kuch dino se na aaya ho, aap unse puch sakte hai ki kya unke paas sikhaae gaye vishay pe kuch sawaal hai. Unse kahiye ki woh kabhi bhi aapse kisi shabd, kahani, ya siddhant ke baare me pooch sakte hai jo unhonne samjha nahi. Agar zaroori ho aap saathe mill ke jawaab dhoondhe sakta hai.

Notes

  1. Jean B. Bingham, “Uddhaarkarta Ki Tarah Dekhrekh Karna,” Liahona, May 2018, 104.

  2. Jeffrey R. Holland, “Dekho Yeh Parmeshwar ka Memna Hai,” Liahona, May 2019, 46.

  3. Joseph Fielding Smith, Conference Report me, Oct. 1929, 60–61.