Atma-nirbhar Ban ke Dekhrekh Karo

Dusar ke atma-nirbhar bane ke madad kare ke matlab hai Prabhu ke tarika se dena aur dekhrekh karna.

Hum log ke dher pariwaar, doston, aur padosi log maange atma-nirbhar bane. Girjaghar ke atma-nirbhar bane la jon pehla kadam uthaawa ge raha ke istemaal karke, Girjaghar ke sadasye sewa, khayaal, aur dekhrekh kare ke maoka khoje hai jisse dusar ke ashish pradaan kare saki “zyaada, aasha, shaanti, aur pragati”¹dewe la niyamo se.

“Hum Ghar Pe Raha”

Bahan Chrissy Kepler dwara, jo Arizona, USA ki hai

Hamme ek talaakh ke baad paisa ke bahut samasya hoi ge raha, phir se kaam kare ke koshish me laga raha aath(8) saal tak ghar-pe-rahe ke baad. Hum dhaarmik roop se bhi takleef kaatta raha, sachchaai aur vishwaas ke talaash me, bhale hum apan yuva umar ke samay se ek chapel ke bhittar kadam nahi rakkha raha.

Ek Raviwaar ke hum apan bada bhaini, Priscilla, jon Girjaghar ke ek active sadasye hai, ke ghare kapda dho rahi thi. Hum wahi pe raha, jab Priscilla hamme amantrit karis uske pariwaar ke sange girja jaawe ke—15 saal me hamaar pehla nimantran.

Pehla to hamme dil kara nahi bol do, lekin isse pehle la raat ke, hum Parmeshwar se vinti kara raha ki uh hamme raasta bataai kaise hum Uske nazdeek sakta raha jaawe. Khud ke ichcha ke kaaran, hum socha, “Kaae nahi wahan jaai aur apne se suni aur dekhi ab uh anubhav kaisan rehwe?”

Jab hum log prabhubhoj sabha me baitha raha, hamaar dhyaan ek flyer pe ge Raviwaar bulletin pe jisme likha raha atma-nirbhar bane la course ke baare me jon niji finances(vitt) pe raha. Hum abhi taeyaar nahi raha girja jaawe ke, lekin ek dilchaspi raha ih 12-week la course ke taraf. Apan bhaini aur jija se protsaahan paae ke, hum apne aap ke sign up kar diya, ih soch ke ki hum ek bajat banawe aur karja bhare ke sikhega. Aise hois, ih kaksha log se hamaar bheetar dhaarmik badlaao aais.

Hum kaksha ke pehle kuch hafton ke dhaarmik sandeshon se ashcharyechakit ho gayi, lekin teesri kaksha me, hum santushti paaya ih mehsoos karke ki hum sahi jagah pe raha aur nawa par jaana maana sachchaaiyon ke sun rahi thi. Kaksha me se nikalte hi hum jaldi se Priscilla ke paas apne gaadi chala ke pahunchi. Rote huwe, hum usse pucha, “Kaise sake hamme aisan ehsaas aur mile hamaar zindagi me?” Uh missionaries se baat karis hamme sikhaawe ke.

Hamaar atma-nirbharta kaksha ke sadasye log bhi hamaar missionary lessons me aais aur hamme sahara dees. Hamaar dhaarmikta pe uh log ke bhaari prabhaao raha aur hamme madat mila susamachaar aur aaj-ke prophets ke gawahi utpann kare me.

Jetna samay laga hamme uh course khalaas kare me, hum dher sthaai aur dhaarmik badlaao laae liya hai apne aap me. Hum ek achcha company ke sange ek nawa kaam shuru kar liya raha, aur apan dher karja bhi bhar liya raha.

Magar jo anmol, aur mazedaar ashirwaad mujhe mile the is course se woh the sundar dost, ek protsaahan dewe la bishop ke saath ek achcha rishta kaayam rakhna, daswa hissa ki gawahi paana, apna mandir sifaarish paana, endowment lena, aur apan dui bada ladkan ke baptisma dekhna.

Hamme ab bhi baaki hai atma-nirbharta haasil karna, lekin mere baaki ke safar ke liye, hamaar liye bahut anmol hai isme jon gyaan paaya aur jon dost banaya.

Amantrit karo, Shaamil ho, Mazboot Karo

Antim-din Santo ke atma-nirbhar banaae ke khaatir—dono paise ke upyog me aur dhaarmik rup se—Girjaghar 2014 me apan atma-nirbharta ke or pehla kadam uthaais raha. Ek parichit kare la devotional ke baad, bhaag lewe la log sakta raha chaar alag alag 12-hafta la course me se chune.

Kaae ki atma-nirbharta la groups ek council ke rakam kaam kare, uh log ek badhiya maoka dewe hai dusar ke paisa, padhaai, pesha, aur dharm sambandhi zaroorat se dekhrekh kare me. Group ke sadasye ek dusre se seekhe, salaah lewe, aur sahara dewe hai. Uh log apan vichaar baate hai aur ek dusre ke prati zimmedaar rehwe hai.

Praathna karo kaun pariwaar ke sadasye, dost, ya padosiyon ko aap amantrit kar sakte hai ek atma-nirbharta la course me aawe ke, aur unke saath bhaag le sakte hai. Yaad rakhna atma-nirbharta ke niyam Parmeshwar ke sabhi bachchon ko ashish de sakte hai, chaahe woh Girjaghar ke sadasye hai ya nahin.

“Hamme Har Ek Kaksha ke Baad Pyaar Mehsoos Hota Raha”

Katie Funk jab Salt Lake Shahar, Utah me Temple Square ghume geis raha apan 10-saal-ke beta, Vincent, ke saathe December 2016 me, uh sochta raha ki woh khud “kaafi naastik” thi. Woh 16 saal ke umra me Girja aana band kar dees raha, ek aviwaahit maa bani 17 saal me, godna godwaane lagi thi, aur coffee pasand aane lagi thi. Lekin Temple Square ghumne ke daoraan, Vincent ne Pawitra Aatma mehsoos kiya aur apni maa se pucha kya woh missionary lessons le sakta hai.

Apne do naokri, 80-ghante hafte waale kaam ke bawajood, Katie ne Vincent ke saath susamachaar ko padha, missionary ke aane ke baad uske sawaalo ke jawaab khojte thi. 2017 ke garmi ke chutti tak, woh Girjaghar meetings me jaane lagi thi, jahan use Girjaghar ke atma-nirbharta ke courses ke baare me pata chala.

Uh bolis, “Hamme laga isse hamme kuch madad mile saki.” “Shaayad hamme dui naokri nahi kare ke padi ya apan maata-pita pe apan baaki ke zindagi nirbhar nahi rehwe ke padi.”

Katie batais uske course uske liye “bahut himmat dewe la raha asthaayi aur dhaarmik rup se bhi,” na ki sirf jo usne seekha ke hisaab se par jon rakam se uske atma-nirbharta group uske apnaais aur dekhrekh karis.

Aap Kaise Sakta Madat Kare

Yahan pe kuch tarike hai Katie ke taraf se ki kaise hum log sakta Girjaghar ke atma-nirbharta la pehla kadam ek maoka banawe dono dhaarmik aur asthaayi rup se dekhrekh kare ke:

“Sahara aur protsaahan do. Hamaar group hamme uh rakam se sahara dees ki har ek kaksha ke baad hamme pyaar mehsoos hota raha.”
“Apan anubhav ke baato. Jon imaandaari aur nek niyati raha hum log ke beech usse hum log ke dil behtar mehsoos karis. Aap kabhi nahi jaane sakta kon ke faeda hoi aapke kahe baat ka.”
“Baat karo. Hum batata hai kaise hamaar zindagi aur behtar banis hai kaae ki hum daswa hissa bhara aur girjaghar jaata hai. Hum apan Personal Finances for Self-Reliance pustak saathe le ke jaata apan behavioral therapist(swabhaaojanak chikitsak) la naokri pe. Jab sahi lage, hum usme se kuch niyamo ke dusron ke sange baatti hoon.”
“Apan liye bhi ek atma-nirbharta la course me jaao, lekin unpar bhi dhyaan do jinhe aapki madat chaahiye hogi. Hamme lagbhag aadha se zyaada kakshaaon ko miss karna pada kyunki mere naokri ka schedule badal gaya tha, lekin mere group ke sadasye sampark banae rakkhe the aur mujhe aage badhne me sahara diya. Itna achcha laga ki wahan nahi hone par bhi mujhe laga mai wahan maojood thi.”