Welcome to This Issue

Transforming Contention into Love

Joseph of Egypt, by Michael T. Malm

We sometimes experience conflict in our relationships. Knowing how to transform destructive conflict into constructive conflict is critical to our well-being. Yet we really struggle with it.

Destructive conflict feels so overwhelming. Contention runs rampant. Our options feel limited. We feel weak and anxious. Broken relationships and divided communities are left behind in the rubble.

But we can also engage in constructive conflict, where we can find freedom from the negativity of contention. We can cultivate justice and mercy, strengthen our relationships, and solve deep-rooted problems. Peace is possible—in our relationships and our communities.

As a conflict mediator, husband, and father, I have found that the gospel of Jesus Christ can bring us the light and strength needed to transform contention into love.

In this issue you’ll read about how Jacob, Esau, and Joseph were able to reconcile the conflicts in their families and how we can do the same in our homes and communities (see page 26). You’ll also get to read Elder D. Todd Christofferson’s poignant article regarding how adversity can refine us if we turn to the Lord for help (see page 6).

So many of us are carrying so much pain about broken relationships at home and in the world. I hope this issue gives hope to those who feel like reconciliation is hopeless, that it inspires faith that we aren’t alone, and most importantly, that we feel the love of Jesus Christ in a way that changes not only our hearts but the hearts of those we are struggling with as well.

Warmly,

Chad Ford

Professor in Intercultural Peacebuilding, Brigham Young University–Hawaii