Abuse
Introduction

“Introduction,” Help for Victims (2018).

“Introduction,” Help for Victims.

Help for Victims

Abuse is the neglect or mistreatment of others in such a way that causes physical, emotional, or sexual harm. It goes against the teachings of the Savior. The Lord condemns abusive behavior in any form.

“The Church’s position is that abuse cannot be tolerated in any form” (Handbook 1: Stake Presidents and Bishops [2010], 17.3.2). Abuse violates the laws of God and may also be a violation of the laws of society. The Lord expects us to be vigilant in preventing abuse and to protect and help those who have been victims of abuse. No one is expected to endure abusive behavior.

If you are being abused or have been abused in the past, you do not have to face this alone. You may feel confused, powerless, frightened, isolated, ashamed, or as if you have lost your worth. “Remember the worth of [your soul] is great in the sight of God” (Doctrine and Covenants 18:10), and you are “as precious in his sight as [any] other” (Jacob 2:21). Friends, family, Church leaders, and others can connect you to resources that will help you feel safe so that you can heal and remember your worth. You are loved, and you can find hope and healing through the Savior Jesus Christ because of His atoning sacrifice.

This content has been created to help those who have been victims of abuse and to help leaders and others minister to individuals and their families impacted by abuse. There are many different terms that are used to describe people who have experienced abuse. For this site, the word victim is used to describe any person who has experienced or is experiencing abuse.

This information provides guidance and resources to:

  • Help victims of abuse find hope, help, and healing.

  • Help family members, friends, or others recognize abuse and know what to do to get help for victims.

  • Help parents talk to their children about abuse.

Counseling resources and information for ward council members on the topic of abuse can be found at CounselingResources.org.

Leaders should consider ways to ensure that members are aware of these resources. Members and leaders are encouraged to learn about and use trusted local resources for crisis help as well as long-term support.