During a trip from Missouri to Ohio, Joseph Smith and others experienced contention and bad feelings toward one another. In Doctrine and Covenants 64, Jesus Christ instructed them about their need to forgive. This lesson can help students follow Jesus Christ’s example and become more forgiving.
Possible Learning Activities
Reflecting on forgiveness
Do you consider yourself to be a forgiving person? Why or why not?
Why do you think Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ want you to forgive others?
Who is someone you need to forgive?
Jesus Christ is forgiving
In August 1831, after dedicating Zion in Missouri, Joseph Smith, Oliver Cowdery, Isaac Morley, Ezra Booth, and others were returning home to Ohio. Extreme heat, dangerous traveling conditions, and disagreements with leadership led the group to criticize and quarrel with one another. After they arrived home, tension still lingered between them (see Saints: The Story of the Church of Jesus Christ in the Latter Days, vol. 1, The Standard of Truth, 1815–1846 [2018], 133–34, 136–37). In response to their experience, the Lord gave the revelation now known as Doctrine and Covenants 64.
What stands out to you about what the Savior taught Joseph and the others?
Why do you think Jesus Christ requires us to forgive everyone?
Why do you think we have “the greater sin” (verse 9) when we choose not to forgive others?
How do you think saying in our hearts “let God judge between me and thee” (verse 11) can help us forgive others?
What Christlike attributes will forgiving others help you develop?
Learning how to forgive others
What questions might people have as they seek to forgive others?
What challenges might people face as they try to follow the Savior’s example to forgive?
Elder Gerrit W. Gong of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles taught how Jesus Christ can help us forgive others:
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Sometimes our willingness to forgive someone else enables both them and us to believe we can repent and be forgiven. Sometimes a willingness to repent and an ability to forgive come at different times. Our Savior is our Mediator with God, but He also helps bring us to ourselves and each other as we come to Him. Especially when hurt and pain are deep, repairing our relationships and healing our hearts is hard, perhaps impossible for us on our own. But heaven can give us strength and wisdom beyond our own to know when to hold on and how to let go. (Gerrit W. Gong, “Happy and Forever,” Liahona, Nov. 2022, 85)
Elder Jeffrey R. Holland of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles taught:
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“Forgive, and ye shall be forgiven” [Luke 6:37], Christ taught in New Testament times. And in our day: “I, the Lord, will forgive whom I will forgive, but of you it is required to forgive all men” [Doctrine and Covenants 64:10]. It is, however, important for some of you living in real anguish to note what He did not say. He did not say, “You are not allowed to feel true pain or real sorrow from the shattering experiences you have had at the hand of another.” Nor did He say, “In order to forgive fully, you have to reenter a toxic relationship or return to an abusive, destructive circumstance.” But notwithstanding even the most terrible offenses that might come to us, we can rise above our pain only when we put our feet onto the path of true healing. That path is the forgiving one walked by Jesus of Nazareth, who calls out to each of us, “Come, follow me” [Luke 18:22]. (Jeffrey R. Holland, “The Ministry of Reconciliation,” Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2018, 78–79)
What specific actions can we take that will help us forgive others?
Personal application
Ponder the following questions and consider writing your thoughts or feelings in your study journal.
What can you do to rely on the Savior to forgive?
What efforts will you make to follow Jesus Christ’s example and become more forgiving?