How do I hold a discussion about suicide in my ward or family?

Talking about suicide will not make someone more likely to attempt suicide. In fact, talking openly about suicide is an effective way to help prevent suicide. The purpose of any discussion about suicide should be to help leaders and members minister more effectively to those who have been affected by suicide.

Leaders and parents may want to hold discussions about preventing suicide, dealing with suicide loss, and ministering to those who are struggling. These discussions should be sensitive and caring, age-appropriate, and in harmony with Church teachings. Be careful when holding a discussion to avoid language that could cause someone to relive intense pain.

During discussions after a suicide loss, do not talk about how a person took their life. This may unintentionally encourage someone in the group to copy the behavior described. If someone begins to share these details in a group setting, redirect the conversation in a kind way.

Church and Community Resources

(Some of the resources listed below are not created, maintained, or controlled by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. These materials are intended to serve as additional helpful resources as you study this topic. The Church does not endorse any content that is not in keeping with its doctrines and teachings.)

• “Listen to Learn,” Russell M. Nelson, Ensign, May 1991, 22–25.

• “Taking Time to Talk and Listen,” Rosemary M. Wixom, Ensign, Apr. 2012, 10–13; Liahona, Apr. 2012, 34–37.

• “Parents and Children: Listening, Learning, and Loving,” M. Russell Ballard, New Era, Feb. 2011, 2–7.

• “Lead Inspired Discussions,” Teaching in the Savior’s Way (2015), 33.

• “How to Talk to a 9–13-Year-Old Child about a Suicide Attempt in Your Family,” U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs.

• “Preventing Suicide: How to Start a Survivors’ Group,” World Health Organization.