“Contents,” New Era, Nov. 1989 New Era November 1989 Volume 19, Number 11 Contents FeedbackLetters to the editor. The Message: The Power of CommitmentElder M. Russell BallardSacrifice for your beliefs is worthwhile. Mormonad: Show Your Thanks through Your Giving First Person: Please Bless KathyTrina HazlewoodThey’d been so mean to me. How could I forgive them? Everyday Heroes: The Fix-it BoysRoger W. NielsenIt was more than a ward service project. Caught in the StormDavid G. LerdahlThe lives of hundreds of men were in my hands. Mormonisms Q&A: Questions and AnswersI’ve been counseled to choose friends carefully,but I’ve also been counseled not to judge.What should I do? Past Present, Future PerfectRichard M. RomneyRich in history, French youth look to a fabulous future. The DanceDebbie PayneHow I got myself out of the wallflower mode. Same DifferenceAnn LaemmlenWays to delight in cultural differences. Eighth-String QuarterbackSteve YoungGoing from the bottom of BYU’s roster to the finest of 49ers. Scripture Lifeline: Something in ReturnKirsten AndersenIt bothered me that she hadn’t ever said thank you. FYI: For Your InformationGood guesting, new testing, peace festing, and more. Fiction: The WindmakersDonald SmurthwaiteThere was a mystery in the mountains where we fished. Photo of the MonthJohn Ramuno Poetry: Love’s VoicesPat Diane Buckner Cover: Find out how much you have in common with Violet and other Nigerian LDS youth. See p. 30. (Photography by Ann Laemmlen [front], John Luke [back].)