“To the Point,” New Era, Jan. 2009, 34–35 To the Point Photo illustrations by David Stoker My nonmember friends have talked to me about things that go on in the temple. How do they know about them, and what should I say about them? I am being told to prepare to be a mother and wife instead of going on a mission. Which is more important? Whenever my dad and I talk about music, we get into a fight. How can I persuade him that it’s sometimes not a question of good or evil but of personal taste?