Dekhrekh Ke Niyam, September 2018

U Long ke Jarurat Pe Salaah Do

Ye aap ko akele nahi karna padega. Salaah dewe se aapke madad mile dusra long ke madad kare ke liye.

Prabhu ne aap ko amantrit kiya hai ki kisi ek ya parivaar jo tumhare ward me ya shaakha me hai ko unke jaruraton ke anusaar dekhrekh karo. Aap kaise janega ki u jarurat long konchi hai? Salaah dewe la siddhaant, jispe Girjaghar jasti fokas kare hai, u hai chaabi.

Hamein kya kaunselin karna chahiye ke vichaar ke baad, hum jaanjh karenge:

1. Swarg ke Pita ke saath Salaah Karna.

2. Ek ek jan aur parivaar ke saath salaah karna.

3. Apan saathi ke saath salaah karna.

4. Aur dusre ke saath salaah karna jon wahi insaan ya parivaar ke dekhrekh kare hai.

Hum long ke leaderon ke saath salaah karna bhi zaroori hai. Bhavish me Dekhrekh ke Niyam ke ek Liahona la article me humlog leadaron ke saath salaah kare ke aur wahi kaarwaahi me dekhrekh ke intarviu ke bhumika ke bhi dekhega.

Kis Baat Par hum Salaah Karenge

Zarooraton ko samjhna zaroori hai ek dusre ki dekhrekh karne ke liye Par u zarooraton long kon rup sake lewe, aur waha koi aur bhi zarooratein hai jiske hum long ke chaahi pata lagao?

Zaroorat dher rakam ke sake rehwe. Hum long jiske sewa karta u long sake ehsaas, paese, sharirik, padhaai se sambandhit, aur anye kayi tarah ke chunaotiyon ke saamna kare. Kuch zarooratein dusra se bhi turant karna padh sakta hai. Kuch zaroorat me madad kare ke hum long kaafi rahega; auron me hum long ke koi aur ke madad maange ke padi. Har din ki zarooraton ko pura karne me madad karane ke hamaare prayaason me, yah na bhoolen ki dekhrekh ke liye humare kol me dusro ko vachan-badh hone ke saath, pristhud ke dharamvidhiyon ke liye tayyaari karna aur paana zaroori hai unnati ke liye

Ek vyakti ya pariwaar ke zarooraton ke baare me salaah karne ke saath, hamein unke taaqat ke baare me bhi seekhna chahiye. Kaisan madad hai jon u log nahi maange hai? Kaun si gun aur uphaar hai u log ke paas jo dusro ke madad de sake hai? Woh kaise alag se Parmeshwar ki raajye ko banane me madad kare sake hai? Ek jan ke shakti utana zaroori hai samajhna jitna uske zaroorat ke samajhna.

Swarg ke Pita ke Saath Salaah Karna

Ek sabse khass baat jon hai hamare vishwaas ka ki Swarg ke Pita baat kare apan ladkan se (dekhiye Articles of Faith 1:9). Jab hume ek neya kaarye milta hai dekhrekh ke niyam ke prati, hume salaah karna chahiye Swarg ke Pita ke saath praathna me, dhoondha aur samajhna chahiye unke zaroorat aur taaqat ke baare mein. Praathna ke dwara salaah karna jaari rakhna chahiye hamein apne dekhrekh ke kaam me.

Ek Ek Jan aur Parivaar ke saath Salaah Karna

Hum kaise aur kab un vyaktiyon aur parivaar se sampark karate hai jinhe ham seva kartehai, haalaat ke anusaar alag ho sakta hai , lekin rishton ke nirmaan aur unki jarooraton ko samajhane ke liye seedhe vyakti ya parivaar ke saath salaah karna avashyak hai, jis me ve kaise madad paana chaahate hai bhi hai. Kuch sawaal puchne se hum ruk sakte hai jab tak ek arthpurn rishta na kaayam ho jaaye. Jabki wahan koi ek sahi tarika nahi hai aisa karne ke liye, is me se kuch sochiye:

• Pata lagae ki u long kab aur kaise sampark karna pasand karte hai.

• Unke dilchaspi aur pichle varsho ke baare me sikhe.

• Sujhavo ke saath aao ki aap kaise madad kar sakte hoaur unke sujhaao maang sakte hai.

Vishwaas banaae ke sange, vyaktigat ya parivaarik zaroorat par charcha kare. Pavitra Aatma ke prerna se paaye sawaal puchiye.¹ Uddharan ke liye:

• Woh kaon se chunaotiyon ka saamna karte hai?

• Uske parivaar ya vyaktigat lakshye kya hai? Udhahran ke liye, kya ve behtarparivaarik gharelu shaam sabha karna chahate hai, ya adhik atma-nirbhar hona?

• Kaise hum unke lakshyon aur chunautiyon me madad kare sakta hai?

• Kaun si susamachaar ke dharamvidhiyaan unke jiwan me aane waali hai? Hum kon rakam se sakta u long ke taiyaar kare?

Kuch khaas madad kare ke yaad rakhna, jaise ki, “Kon la raat ke hum log sakta khana laawe i hafta?” Ek aspasht prastaav, jaise, “Hum long ke batana agar hum long ke kare laaik kuch madad rahi,” utna madad nahi kare.

Apan Saathi ke Saath Salaah Karna

Kyonki aap aur aapka saathi hamesha saath nahi honge jab aap us vyakti ya parivaar se milenge, yeh zaroori hai aapas me baat-cheet aur salaah kar lein apne saathi ke saath prerna paane ke khaatir. Yeh hai kuch sawaal gaor karne ke liye:

• Ek dusre ke saath aap kaise aur kitni baar aapas me baat cheet karenge saathi ke rup me?

• Aap parivaar ya vyakti ke zaroorat ke dekhrekh ke liye apni vyaktigat shaktiyon ka upyog kaise kar sakte hai?

• Aapne kya sikha hai, apko kya anubhav hua, aur pichli baar jab aap vyakti ya parivaar ke baare me baat karte the, to aap ko kiya prabhaao mile hai?

Dusron ke Saath Salaah Karna Jinhe Wohi Kaarye Mila hai

Samay-samay par un logon ke saath baat karne ke liye acha ho sakta hai jinhe aapke dwara kiye gae vyakti ya parivaar ke dekhrekh ko saumpa gaya hai.

Chunaotiyon ko Hal Karne ke Liye Baat Karo

Elder Chi Hong (Sam) Wong jo Sattar ke hai Mark 2 ke khate se hamare samay ki tulna karte haitaaki yah dikhaaya ja sake ki chaar logon ke liye kaise mumkin hua ek lakwa waale aadmi ko Ishu ke paas laane me.

“I sake ayese hoye,” Elder Wong bolis. “Chaar log apne bishop ke diye aadesh ko pura karne gaye, ek aadmi ko jise lakwa ka bimaari tha, uske ghar pe. … Haal hi ke ward kaunsel me, ward ke jarurat par saath me salaah karne ke baad, bishop ne “bachaao waale” kaam ko baata. I chaar admi ke niyukt karis raha madad kare ke i admi ke. …

“[Jab ve us imaarat mein pahunche jahaan Ishu raha,] kamra me bahut bheed raha. Weh darwaaze se andar nahi ja sakey. Mai jaanta hoon ki unhonne wah sab kuch kiya hoga jo weh jaantey the, parantu weh andar nahi ja sakey. … Unhonne ne saath salaah kiya ki aage kiya karna hai—kaise u log us admi ko Ishu Masih ke kareeb laawe sake thik karawe ke liye. … Unhone yojna banaya,—jo saral nahi tha, magar unhone uspar amal kiya.

“… ‘To unhonne us chat ko jiske niche wah tha, khol diya: aur jab weh use udhedh chuke, to us khaat ko jispar lakwe ka rogi pada tha, latka diya’ (Mark 2:4). …

“… ‘Ishu ne unka vishwaas dekhkar us lakwe ke rogi se kaha” he Putra, tere paap chama hue’ (Mark 2:5).”²

Kuch Kare ke Neuta

Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf jo Barah Devduton ke Korum ke hai ne kaha “Saath me salaah karna, sab saadhan ko istemaal karna, Pavitra Aatma ki prerna ko dhoondhna, Prabhu se Unki pushti puchna, aur phir kaam par lag jaana.

“Mai aapse vaada karta hoon: “Agar aap is tarike ko apnaaoge, aap ko khaas nirdeshan milega kaun, kiya, kab, aur kahan ke baare mein taaki Prabhu ke tarike se pradaan kar sako.”³

© 2018 Intellectual Reserve, Inc dwara. Pure adhikaar surakshit. USA mein chaapa gaya. Angrezi swikriti: 6/17. Anuwaad swikriti: 6/17. Ministering Principles, September 2018 ka anuwaad.Hindi, Fiji. 15052 298

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1. Dekhiye Preach My Gospel: A Guide to Missionary Service (2004), 183.

2. Chi Hong (Sam) Wong, “Saath Milkar Bachaao,” Liahona, Nov. 2014, 14–15.

3. Dieter F. Uchtdorf, “Prabhu ke Tarike Se Pradaan Karna,” Liahona, Nov. 2011, 55.

“Dekhrekh ke Niyam” hum long ke sikhaawe ke kostin hai kaise ek dusre ke dekhbhaal karo—iske sandesh ke rakam nahi batawa jaai. Jab hum long jaan jaaega kiske sewa karta, Pavitra Aatma hum long ke prerna dei jaane ke kostin ki u long ke kon sandesh ke zaroorat hai hum long ke dekhbhaal aur daya ke alaawa.

Salaah Karne ki Shakti

“Agar aap kuch sudhaarna chaahate hai, to aapko iske baare mein salaah kare ke chaahi,”Pradhaan M. Russell Ballard jo Barah Devduton ke Korum ke hai ne bataya. “Jab hum [karte hain], hum aatmik sahakriya paida karte hain jo kaarye ya safalta ko behtar banata hai, jiske parinaamvyaktigat bhaagon ke yog se adhik hai” (R. Scott Lloyd, “Counseling with Councils Is Lord’s System, Elder Ballard Declares,” Jan. 11, 2017 me, news.lds.org; “Strength in Counsel,” Ensign, Nov. 1993, 77).

Rishte banana bhi saath salaah karne ka avashyak bhaag hai. Dekhrekh ke Niyam ka article “Arthpurn Rishte Banana,” in the August 2018 issue of the Liahona, page 6 par bhi dekhiye.