Dekhrekh Ke Niyam, December 2018

Dekhaao Ki Aap Parwaah Karta

Dher rakam se hum long apan parwaah dikhaawe sakta, zyaada karke Bada Din pe. Hum long sakta bole, text kare, likhe, dewe, baate, prarthna kare, pakawe, gaawe, gale lagae, khele, bowe, ya safai kare. Koshish to karo.

Dekhrekh me sab ke pyaar dekhana bahot hi jaruri hai. Sahayak Sanstha Maha Adhyaksh Jean B. Bingham bolis: “Sachcha dekhrekh ek ek karke pura kara jaawe pyaar se prerna le kar. … Jab pyaar se prerna lo ge, chamatkaar hoi, aur hum long apan ‘laa pata bahan aur bhaai long ke Ishu Maseeh ke sab-apnaae la susamachaar me laawe ke rasta khoj lega.”¹

Sab ke dekhana ki hum long parwaah karta hai zaroori hai apas me sambandh badhawe me Lekin alag log i sandesh ke alag rakam lewe hai. Tab kaise sakta hum long dusar ke kostin apan pyaar sahi se zaahir kare jon rakam se u long samjhe aur pasand kare? Yahan pe kuch tarika hai batawe ke kostin ki hum long parwaah karta, jiske sange kuch upaaye hai soche ke kostin.

Bol Do

Kabhi kabhi hum long nahi bol paata kaise koi aur ke kostin mehsoos karta. Jabki iske matlab sake howe koi ke batao tum uske pyaar karta, jaise tum konchi uske baare me pasand karta ya dil se taareef karo. I rakam se swikaare se hum long sakta rishta long ke mazboot kare. (Dekhiye Ephesians 4:29.)

• Maoka khojo u insaan ke janawe ke ki aap ketna uske koi taaqat ke pasand karta hai.

• Wahan jaae ke, koll karke, a email, text, ya card bhejke uske batao tum uske yaad karta hai.

Bhent karo

Taaim nikaal ke koi se baat karo uske suno ek shaktishaali tarika hai koi ke dekhaawe ke tum uske ketna sammaan deta hai. Chaahe tum ghar pe, girja pe, ya kahi aur u long se milta, dher jan hai jon maange koi raho u long se baat kare la. (Dekhiye Mosiah 4:26; D&C 20:47.)

• U insaan ke zaroorat ke anusaar, ek milan plen karo. Taaim le ke achcha se suno aur samjho uske haalaath ke baare me.

• Jahan saait mushkil hoi ghar pe mile ke duri, sanskritik kaaeda, ya koi aur haalaath ke kaaran, tab Girja ke sabha ke baad samay nikaale ke socho.

Ek Lakshye se Sewa Karo

Sab taaim khyaal karo u insaan ya parivaar ke konchi zaroori hai. Arthpurn sewa pradaan kare se dekhaawe ki aap parwaah karta hai. Isme samay aur saodhaan koshish ke anmol uphaar milein hai. “Sewa ke saral kaarye se auron par gambheer asar howe sake hai,” bolis Bahan Bingham ne.²

• Woh sewa do jisse log ya unke parivaarein mazboot ho, jaise ladkan ke dekhna taaki maata-pita mandir jaa sakein.

• Woh tarike dhoondho jisse jiwan mein uthal puthal ke samay bojh halke ho, jaise khidkiyaan saaf karna, kutte ko chalane le jaana, ya aagan mein haath batana.

Saath Milkar Kuch Karein

Wahan aise log hai jo gehre baat-cheet se nahin sambandh jodte hai. Kuch logon ke liye, sambandh judte hai saamaanye shaok aur sange samay bita kar un cheezon ko karke. Prabhu ne zor diya ki hum “saath rahe aur mazboot karein” (D&C 20:53) apne bhaaiyon aur bahano ke.

• Wok par jaaye, ek gaim naait ki yojna karein, ya har roz samay nikaale saath kasrat karne ke liye.

• Ek saath kisi samajik ya Girja ke project par kaam karein.

Koi Uphaar Dein

Kabhi kabhi milne ke samay aur maoka kamti rehwe hai. Dher kalcharon me, uphaar dena parwaah aur hamdardi ka chinh hai. Ek kabhi kabhaar ka, saral uphaar bhi ek behtar sambandh badhawe ke shaok sake batawe. (Dekhiye Proverbs 21:14.)

• Unhe koi man-pasand pakwaan le ke jaao.

• Koi quote, skripcha, ya anye sandesh sheya karo jisse tum sochta u long ke faeda hoi.

Pyaar ka Ek Kaarye

Jab aap jaan jaata apan dekhrekh la long ke aur jiske liye aap prerna dhoondhta, aap aur achcha se sikhega kaise aap apan pyaar aur parwaah har ek ke dega.

Kimberly Seyboldt jo Oregon, USA ka hai, kahani batawe hai pyaar dikhaawe ke liye kaise prerna dhoondho aur uphaar do:

“Jab hum dekhta ki jiwan humme dukhi kare, hum uthta aur zucchini(kheera jaisa sabzi) ke bread banata, lagbhag aath loaves. Hamaar khaas padaarth hai woh shaant praathna jon hum karta jab hum pakata hai i soche ke kostin ki kiske zaroorat hai u bread ke loaves ke. Hum apan aas-paas ke padosi long ke aur behtar rup se jaan giya hai jabki zucchini bread hi humme u long ke ghar aur zindagi me jaawen dewe hai.

“Ek din garmi ke mausam me, mai gaadi chalate huwe ek parivaar ke paas ruka jo blackberries bech rahe the. Mujhe aur blackberries ki zaroorat nahi thi, lekin woh chota, patla ladka jo wahan bech raha tha itna utsuk tha mujhe dekh kar, soch ke ki mai uska agla graahak tha. Maine kuch blackberries liye, par mere paas uske liye ek uphaar bhi tha. Maine us ladke ko do loaf bread diya. Usne apne pita ki or swikriti ke liye dekha, phir kaha, ‘Dekho, Pitaji, ab aaj hamein kuch khaane ko mila.’ Hamme abhaar mehsoos hois i saral tarika se pyaar dekhawe ke maoka ke liye.”

“Hum long ke praathna hai aaj,” bolis Elder Jeffrey R. Holland jon Barah Devduton ke Korum ke hai, “ki har ek aadmi aur aurat—aur hum long ke bada jawaan purush aur jawaan mahila—jaada bhakti [rakhi] … dil se ek dusre ke dekhbhaal kare me, sirf Maseeh ke pavitra pyaar se prerit ho kar ayse kari. … Hamme aasha hai ki hum Prabhu ke bagiche me saath milkar kaam karenge, hum sab ke Parmeshwar aur Pita ko praathna ka jawaab dene ke bhaari kaam me madad karenge, ashwasan denge, aansu pochenge, aur kamzor paer ko mazboot karenge.”³

Ishu Maseeh Parwaah Karte Hai

Ishu Maseeh Lazarus ke jinda kare ke baad, “Ishu roya.

“Tab Yahudiyon ne kaha, Dekho usne ise kitna pyaar kiya!” (John 11:35–36).

“Mujhe tum pe taras aata hai,” Maseeh ne Nephaition se kaha. Phir Usne unke beemaaro aur peediton, langde aur andho ko bulaya, aur “usne unhe changa kiya” (dekhiye 3 Nephi 17:7–9).

Uddhaarkarta hum long ke liye uddharan raha jon rakam U dusar long ke parwaah karis. Usne hamein sikhaya:

“Tu Parmeshwar apne Prabhu se apne saare mann, aur apne saare praan, aur apni saari buddhi ke saath, prem rakh.

“Badi aur mukhye aagya to yahi hai.

“Aur usi ke samaan yeh dusri bhi hai, Ki tu apne padosi se apne samaan prem rakh” (Matthew 22:37–39).

Kise aapki parwaah ki zaroorat hai? Kaise aap dikhaae sakta ki aap parwaah karta?

© 2018 Intellectual Reserve, Inc dwara. Pure adhikaar surakshit. USA mein chaapa gaya. Angrezi swikriti: 6/17. Anuwaad swikriti: 6/17. Ministering Principles, December 2018. ka anuwaad. Hindi, Fiji. 15056 298

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1. Jean B. Bingham, “Ministering as the Savior Does,” Liahona, May 2018, 106.

2. Jean B. Bingham, “Ministering as the Savior Does,” 104.

3. Jeffrey R. Holland, “Be With and Strengthen Them,” Liahona, May 2018, 103.

Dusar long ke sune se hum long jaan paaega kaise sako u long ke dekhaao hum long parwaah karta hai. Dekhrekh Aadarsh ka lekh dekhiye “Paanch Cheezein jo Achcha Sunne Waale Karte Hai” June 2018 ke Liahona me.

“Dekhrekh ke Niyam” hum long ke sikhaawe ke kostin hai kaise ek dusre ke dekhbhaal karo—iske sandesh ke rakam nahi batawa jaai bhent kare la samay. Jab hum long jiske sewa karta u long ke jaane lage ga, Pavitra Aatma hum long ke prerna dei jaane ke ki u long ke kon sandesh jaruri hai hum long ke dekhbhaal aur daya ke alawa.