2019
Hum Long Kaise Sakta Sab ke Girja me Shaamil Kare La Aadat Daale
July 2019
ministering

Dekhrekh Ke Niyam, July 2019

Hum Long Kaise Sakta Sab ke Girja me Shaamil Kare La Aadat Daale?

Jab hum long apan wards aur branches ke dekhta hai, hum long ke dekhawe jaiseh sab long aasaani seh mil jul ge hai. Konchi hum long nahi jaan paata hai ki chaahe aese lage u long ek dusre se mil jul ge hai phir bhi dher jan hai jon apneh ko alag mehsoos kare hai. Jaise ki, ek stady se pata laga hai ki lagbhag aadha United States ke baalig log tanha, akela, ya auron se alag mehsoos karte hai.1

Zaroori hota hai shaamil hone ke liye mehsoos karna. Yeh manushye ki ek avashyak zaroorat hai, aur jab hum alag mehsoos karte hai, dukh lagta hai. Akela rehne se udaasi ya krodh ke ehsaas aa jaate hai.2 Jab hum long ke nahi lage koi hum long ke maange hai, hum koi aur jagah dhoondhe lagta jahan zyaada aaraam mehsoos kare sakta. Hum long ke chaahi sab ke madad karo i mehsoos kare ke ki u long girja ke ek bhaag hai.

Uddhaarkarta ke Rakam Shaamil Kare ke Aadat Daalo

Uddhaarkarta sabse achcha uddharan raha sab ke anmol samjhta raha aur shaamil karta raha. Jab U Apan Chela long ke chunis, U u-long ke haesiyat, doulat, ya shaandaar pesha pe nahi gaor karis. U kunwa ke paas Samariya ki mahila ke mahatv dais , Apan ishwartav ke gawahi dees uske bhale Yahudi long Samaritans ke nicha sochta raha (dekhiye John 4). Woh dil ko dekhta hai aur woh insaan ko sammaan nahi deta (dekhiye 1 Samuel 16:7; Doctrine and Covenants 38:16, 26).

Uddhaarkarta ne kaha:

“Mai tumhe ek nayi aagya deta hoon, Ki ek dusre se prem rakkho; jaise maine tumse prem rakkha hai, waisa hi tum bhi ek dusre se prem rakkho.

“Yadi aapas mein prem rakhoge to isi se sab jaanenge, ki tum mere chele ho” (John 13:34–35).

Hum Kya Kar Sakte Hai?

Kabhikabhi i jaane ke mushkil rehwe ki koi alag se mehsoos kare hai. Zyaada karke koi i baat bole nahi hai—saait etna saaf rup se nahi. Lekin ek pyaar bhara dil se, Pavitra Aatma ke aguwaai se, aur aagaah rahe ke koshish se, hum long sakta jaane kab koi Girja ke meetings aur ektivities me shaamil nahi hoy la mehsoos kare.

Kuch Mumkin Chinh Jab Koi Akela Mehsoos Kare:

  • Bahut kam sharir ki bhaasha, jaise kas-ke haath moud ke rakhna ya aankhe nichi rakhna.

  • Adhikrat bhoomi me piche baethna ya akele baethna.

  • Girja nahi jaana ya bahut kam jaana.

  • Meeting ya ektivities se jaldi chala jaana.

  • Baat-cheet ya shikshah me nahi bhaag lena.

I sab aur saare bhaonaon ke bhi chinh hai, jaise ki, sharmilapan, chintit, ya asuvidha mehsoos karna. Sadasye long sake “alag” mehsoos kare jab u long Girja ke nawa sadasye rehwe, kisi aur desh ya sanskriti ke rehwe, ya haal hi me unke jiwan me koi maansik badlaao aaya ho, jaise talaakh, ek pariwaar ke sadasye ka maut, ya mishan pe se haali lautna.

Chaahe koi bhi vajah ho, hum long ke nahi chaahi pyaar se pesh aawe se hichkichaao. Hum jo bolte aur hum jo karte hai sake ek swaagat la aur zaroorat la ehsaas dilawe.

Kuch Tarike Jisse Sab Ke Shaamil aur Swaagat Kare sako.

  • Girja me har dam kabhi ek janeh ke saath nahi baetho.

  • Logon ke upari dikhaawa ke paar karke unke sachchaa roop dekho. (Is shishak pe aur jaankari ke liye, dekhiye “Ministering Is Seeing Others as the Savior Does,” Liahona, June 2019, 8–11.)

  • Sab ko baat-cheet me shaamil karo.

  • Sab ko apne jiwan me shaamil karo. Aap unhe aane waale ektivities me shaamil kar sakte ho.

  • Saamaanye dilchaspiyon ko dhoondho aur unpar badho.

  • Dosti badhane se mat ruko kyunki koi aapke jaisa nahi hai.

  • Jab aap kisi me kuch anokha dekhe, usme dilchaspi dikhao na ki use khaarij kare ya usse door jaaye.

  • Pyaar jataao aur dil se prashansa karo.

  • Taim le ke aur dhyaan se socho jab hum long bolta Girjaghar sab ke liye hai, ke matlab kya hai unke bhintaaon ko nazarandaaz karke. Hum kaise iske sach kar sakta?

Hamesha aasaan nahi hota hai un logon ke saath aaraamdaayak mehsoos karna jo humse alag hai. Lekin abhyaas kare se, hum long sakta bhinnata me ahmiyat praapt kareh aur har ek insaan ke niraale yogdaan ke mahatwa de. Jaise Barah Devduton ke Korum ke Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf sikhaais, hum long ke bhinnatta sake hum long ke behtar, khushaal insaan banae me madad kare: “Aao, hum Parmeshwar ke sab ladkan ke liye changaai, kripa, aur daya ka sanskrit ko banae aur use mazboot kare.”3

Sab ke Shaamil Kare Se Ashish Mila

Christl Fechter ek dusra desh geis jab yudh ke kaaran uske desh nasht hoi ge raha. U wahan ke bhaasha achcha se nahi bolti rahi aur apan nawa pados me koi ke nahi janti rahi, is ke kaaran shuru me tanha aur akele mehsoos karti thi.

Girja ke sadasye hone ke kaaran, u himmat karke apan nawa ward jaae ke shuru karis. Uske chinta raha ki uske ghadu bol ke kaaran shaayad log usse nahi baat kare ya wahi vajah diya jaaega ki woh ab tak kuwaari hai.

Par woh anye logon se mili jo uske alag hone ki parwaah nahi karte hue aur apan dosto ki biradri me uske swaagat karis. Woh pyaar se aage badhis, aur jald hi khud ko Praemri class padhane me vyast paaya. Bachche, apnaane ke achche uddhaaran the, aur pyaar paane ka ehsaas aur zaroorat ke kaaran uska biswaas mazboot hua aur Prabhu ki or jiwan bhar samarpit hone me madad mila.

© 2019 Intellectual Reserve, Inc dwara. All rights reserved. USA me chaapa gaya. Angrezi swikriti: 6/18. Anuwaad swikriti: 6/18. Ministering Principles, July 2019 ka anuwaad. Fiji Hindi. 15768 298

Not

  1. Dekhiye Alexa Lardieri, “Study: Many Americans Report Feeling Lonely, Younger Generations More So,” U.S. News, May 1, 2018, usnews.com.

  2. Dekhiye Carly K. Peterson, Laura C. Gravens, aur Eddie Harmon-Jones, “Asymmetric Frontal Cortical Activity and Negative Affective Responses to Ostracism,” Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience, vol. 6, no. 3 (June 2011), 277–85.

  3. Dieter F. Uchtdorf, “Believe Love, Do,” Liahona, Nov. 2018, 48.