Dekhrekh Ke Niyam, February 2020

Dekhrekh Karna Parivaar Itihaas ke Madad Se

Joshua Dennis ne chitra banaya; background chitra aur photograph Getty Images ka

Kisi vyakti ke uh log ke parivaar itihaas me madad karna dekhrekh kare ke shaktishaali tarika hai. Jab aap dusron ke sampark uh log ke purwajo se badhaega parivaar ke kahaniyon aur jaankaari ke dwara, aap uh log ke dilon me us khaalipan ko bhar paaenge apne parivaaron ke kareeb aake jise woh khud nahi kar paa rahe the (dekhiye Malachi 4:5–6).

Chaahe uh vyakti shuru se Girjaghar ke sadasye hai ya aysa koi hai jisne Ishu Masih ke susamachaar ke baare me kabhi nahi seekha, Parmeshwar ke ladkan ke ek chaah rehwe hai jaane ke ki uh log kahan se aais.

Aksar bahut deri nahi lage hai ek gehra aur lambe samay ka prabhaao utpann kare ke, jaise niche diya gaya kahaniyon se dekhawe hai.

30,000 Feet (9145 meters) pe Parivaar ko Paana

Abhi haal me hawaijahaj ke flight se ghare aate huwe, hum Steve ke bagal me baitha raha, jon humse apan khud ke thoda kahani baatais. Uh high school se graduate howe ke baad, U.S. Army me sampark visheshagye la kaam shuru karis 18-saal ke umar me, aur White House me kaam kare laga raha, sandeshon ko pahunchaane me United States ke Pradhaan ko madad karta tha. 18 se 26 tak ke umar me, uh dui U.S. Pradhaan ke nichche kaam kar lees raha. Uske kahaniyaan bahut dilchasp raha!

Hum bola, “Steve,” “aapke toh chaahi ih sab kahani log apan aage ke peedhi ke liye likho! Uh log maango aapke nazariya se khud aapse ih kahani jaano.” Woh maan gaya.

Uske baad Aatma hamme prerna dees usse pucho uh apan purwajo ke baare me konchi jaane hai. Steve apan maa ke parivaar ke baare me dher janta raha, jaise ek samay uh log Abraham Lincoln ke sange raat la bhojan karis raha jab uh gaaon la jagah chunao prachaar karta raha 1860 ke U.S. rashtrapati ke chunao ke samay.

Uh apan pita ke parivaar ke baare me bahut kam janta raha. Uh bahut mangta raha aur jaane. Hum apan phone on kara aur FamilySearch app khola. “Steve, hum log sakta abhi aap ke parivaar ke khoje!”

Hum flight me jon Wi-Fi raha usse connect hoya. Hum apan phone aage la tray table pe rakha taaki duno jan dekhe sakta raha. Hum log Family Tree me khoja. Thode deri me hum log duno uske par-aaja aur par-aaji ke shaadi la cerificate ke dekhta raha.

“Yahi hai uh log!” uh bolis. “Humme yaad aaige uske akhri naam ab!”

Ek josh se bhara ehsaas hum dono ke aas-paas cha gaya. Hum log agle 45-minaton tak uske uh purwajo ke profile likhe me bitaya jiske uh achcha se nahi janta raha. Uh humse vaada karwaais ki hum long ih khoj Colorado me bhi jaari rakhega. Hum log ek dusre ke sampark kare la jaankaari likha jab hawaijahaaj utar raha tha.

Yahan pe hum log, 30,000 feet (9,145 m) upar hawa me udhta raha, ek device ke saathe jon hamaar haath ke barabar chota raha, ek admi aur ek aurat ke khojta raha jon 100 saal pehle shaadi karis raha jon apan parivaar ke liye khoe ge raha. Badhiya! Par humne unhe dhoondh liya. Parivaar ek dusre se jude the. Kahaniyaan yaad aai thi. Abhaar ke ehsaas mehsoos kiye gaye the technology aur usme diye aozaaron ke liye. Yeh toh ek chamatkaar tha.

Jonathan Petty, Colorado, USA

Naye Parivaar se Ghire Huwe

Maria kam-sakriye thi 20 saal se zyaada samay se. Kuch mahine pehle, hum ne kuch ghante uske ghar me bitaya, uske parivaar ki khoj me census aur anye records ke madad se. Ek pal woh rone lagi yeh kehte huwe, “Hum apan parivaar ke baare me dui ghanta me zyaada seekha hai apan pura zindagi ke milaan me!”

Saathe samay bitaawe ke baad, hum long uske Relatives Around Me waala jon feature hai Family Tree app me se parichit kara. Yeh maaloom hua ki hamaar pati aur hum duno Maria ke door ke rishtedaar hai. Uh phir se rowe lagis, ih bol ke ki uh sochis uh akeli thi. Uh jaanti thi ki uske parivaar log ih ilaaka me hai. Kuch hafta baad Maria hum log ke bishop se milis. Ab uh mandir jaawe ke taeyaari kare hai, aur uh hum log ke ward me “nawa” cousins se milis hai.

Carol Riner Everett, North Carolina, USA

Dekhrekh kare ke Tarika

Ashley, ek bahan hai jiske hum dekhrekh karta hai, aur hum log duno ke paas hum log ke nani ke dewal khana banawe la kitaab(cookbook) hai. Uske kitaab uske par-nani dees raha, aur hamaar la hum apne banaya jab hamaar Aaji Greenwood ke recipe box hamme mila raha virasat me uske mare ke baad.

Ashley aur hum duno jan apan recipe apan cookbooks se chuna, aur hum log ek roj raat ke kaam ke baad sange mila uske pakawe ke liye. Uh ek bhojan ke baad ka mitha(dessert) chunis raha, isliye hum log uske pehle banaya aur oven me rakkha. Hum ek chips budaae ke khaawe la dip (chip dip) chuna—jonchi Greenwood parivaar ke har ek party me rehwe. Ashley ke choti beti Alice hum log ke madad karis pakwaan chakhe me. Tab, kaae ki Ashley nahi mangta raha uske ladkan sab mitha pakwaan khaae lo, uh thoda uh bahano tak pahunchaais jiske uh dekhrekh karti thi.

Hum log ke recipe night me hamme pasand raha ki pakawe la samay hum log apan dekhrekh ke baare me baat kara—uske aur hamaar mushkilo ke baare me. Lekin hum log apan nani/aaji aur maaon ke baare me bhi baat kara, jon hum duno ke liye ek naazuk pal tha.

Jenifer Greenwood, Utah, USA

Madad Kare ke Khaas Tarike

Parivaar itihaas ke dwara hum log ke maoka mile hai dekhrekh kare ke jab aise lage kuch aur nahi sake howe. Yahan pe thoda sujhaao hai aapke aazmaawe ke liye.

Uh log ke madad karo parivaar itihaas ke kahani log ke record kare ke aur uske upload karo, khaas kar ke jiske tasveeron se taallukh hai.
Ek fan chart ya aur koi rakam ke chaape la parivaar itihaas kaagzaat banao jon aap ek gift ke rakam dewe sakta hai.
Uh log ke apan khud ke itihaas record kare ke sikhaao uh rakam se ek journal rakho jon uh long ke pasand hai. Sune la(Audio) journal? Tasveer la(Photo) journal? Video logs? Kayi aur tarike hai uh log ke liye jon maanak journal rakhne ke tarikon ko nahi pasand karte hai.
Saathe mil ke mandir jaao purwajo ke liye dharamvidhiyon ke pura kare ke liye. Ya unke parivaar ke liye dharamvidhi pura karne ki aagya lo agar unke paas bahut zyaada naam hai pura karne ke liye.
Saathe mil ke parivaar ke paramparaaon pe baat karo.
Saathe mil ke ek parivaar itihaas class me bhaag lo.