“Lesson 158—The Family Proclamation, Part 1: ‘Family Is Central to the Creator’s Plan,’” Doctrine and Covenants Seminary Teacher Manual (2025)
“The Family Proclamation, Part 1,” Doctrine and Covenants Seminary Teacher Manual
“The Family: A Proclamation to the World ” is a prophetic statement written to help us understand Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ’s teachings on marriage and family. This lesson is intended to help students better understand the central role of families in Heavenly Father’s plan.
Possible Learning Activities
Before class, ensure that students will each have access to “The Family: A Proclamation to the World ” either in digital format or as a hard copy. There may be a copy included in students’ study journals.
“The family is central to the Creator’s plan for the eternal destiny of His children”
Consider displaying the words from the preceding heading on the board in random order. Give students one minute to try to unscramble them in their minds. Then invite them to find and mark these words at the end of the first paragraph of “The Family: A Proclamation to the World.”
Then invite a discussion using questions such as the following:
Why is the family central to God’s plan for the eternal destiny of His children?
Knowing that every family faces trials and that we are all imperfect, what would you share about Heavenly Father, Jesus Christ’s Atonement, and the plan of salvation that could help teenagers worried about their family situations?
Consider listing the following words and phrases on the board before class. Invite students to read through the list.
Note: As you teach today’s lesson, be aware of the sensitive nature of the topics that will be addressed. You may want to remind students to strive to have Christlike love, sensitivity, and understanding as they discuss these topics.
Which of these topics do people have questions or concerns about today?
Where do you think people often go to find answers about these issues?
Consider giving students time to ponder their understanding of these issues and what questions they might have.
Why is it important to know what God has taught about these topics?
This lesson can help students find answers to some of their questions and concerns. Invite them to seek revelation from the Holy Ghost to guide them as they study “The Family: A Proclamation to the World ” today and throughout the week.
To help students understand some reasons for the Lord inspiring the writing of the family proclamation, consider sharing the following statement made when the proclamation was introduced.
Note: The word sophistry refers to deceitful teachings.
President Gordon B. Hinckley (1910–2008) stated:
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With so much of sophistry that is passed off as truth, with so much of deception concerning standards and values, with so much of allurement and enticement to take on the slow stain of the world, we have felt to warn and forewarn. In furtherance of this we of the First Presidency and the Council of the Twelve Apostles now issue a proclamation to the Church and to the world as a declaration and reaffirmation of standards, doctrines, and practices relative to the family which the prophets, seers, and revelators of this church have repeatedly stated throughout its history. (Gordon B. Hinckley, “Stand Strong against the Wiles of the World ,” Ensign , Nov. 1995, 100)
Read paragraphs 1–3 of the family proclamation, looking for what God taught about some of the topics on the board.
Focus on truths that lead to conversion and build faith in Jesus Christ: The activity below suggests one way for students to state principles of conversion that they identify. For help in teaching this, see the training titled “Focus on truths that lead to conversion and build faith in Jesus Christ ” in Teacher Development Skills: Teach the Doctrine . Consider practicing the skill “Ask questions that help students identify and state converting principles.”
Consider inviting students to write truths they find next to the related topic on the board. They could also share how the truth they wrote could help address the related topic.
The following are some truths students might mention:
Family is central to Heavenly Father’s plan for His children.
Gender is an essential characteristic of individual identity and purpose.
God’s plan enables family relationships to continue after death .
This could be a good opportunity for students to share insights or bring up questions they might have.
The following three sections of the lesson explore each of the above truths. Depending on available time and the needs of your students, choose one or more of these truths to focus on. Or you could study other truths that better address students’ questions and needs.
1. Family is central to Heavenly Father’s plan for His children.
Consider dividing students into pairs. Invite partners to take turns sharing everything they can about Heavenly Father’s plan of salvation in one minute. Encourage students to consider premortal, mortal, and postmortal parts of the plan.
How is family central to Heavenly Father’s plan in premortal existence? In mortality? In our postmortal lives?
If Satan knows this about the family, how do you think he might respond to truths about the family?
To help students further understand why family is central to God’s plan, consider inviting them to search for scriptures under “Family” in the Guide to the Scriptures. Additionally, you could distribute the following statement for students to read individually. Consider encouraging students to mark parts of the statement that stand out to them.
Elder D. Todd Christofferson of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles taught:
Knowing why we left the presence of our Heavenly Father and what it takes to return and be exalted with Him, it becomes very clear that nothing relative to our time on earth can be more important than physical birth and spiritual rebirth, the two prerequisites of eternal life. …
A family built on the marriage of a man and woman supplies the best setting for God’s plan to thrive—the setting for the birth of children, who come in purity and innocence from God, and the environment for the learning and preparation they will need for a successful mortal life and eternal life in the world to come. (D. Todd Christofferson, “Why Marriage, Why Family ,” Ensign or Liahona , May 2015, 51–52)
After they have had time to search the scriptures and the statement, students could discuss the following questions in pairs or small groups.
What did you learn about why family is central to Heavenly Father’s plan?
How have you seen families help individuals prepare “for a successful mortal life and eternal life in the world to come”?
How might these teachings help you answer questions and concerns about marriage and family?
2. Gender is an essential characteristic of individual identity and purpose.
Consider giving students time to individually study some of the sources below. The following questions can guide them as they study:
“The Eternal Nature and Purpose of Gender ” (The Eternal Family Class Preparation Material [2022], 29–33) (Note the three sections of this resource that begin with questions.)
“Transgender: Understanding Yourself ” in the “Life Help section” of Gospel Library
“Transgender: Supporting Others ” in the “Life Help” section of Gospel Library
If students don’t have access to these resources, consider making copies of lesson 7 of the institute manual The Eternal Family Class Preparation Material for students to study in class.
Once students have had sufficient study time, volunteers could share insights they gained.
As part of this discussion, consider sharing the statement by President Russell M. Nelson in “Additional Resources” and inviting students to share what it means to them.
Consider sharing how your life has been blessed by having an eternal perspective about your identity and purpose.
3. God’s plan enables family relationships to continue after death.
Before students read the following passages, you might tell them about someone you know who has struggled through the death of a family member. Or you could invite students to think of someone they know who has endured the death of a family member.
Read 1 Corinthians 15:22 and Doctrine and Covenants 130:2 , looking for what hope can be found in Jesus Christ when a loved one dies.
How might the truths of God’s plan in these verses give strength to someone suffering such a loss?
How could the teachings in the third paragraph of the family proclamation impact a person suffering the loss of a loved one?
To help students better understand the eternal nature of families in God’s plan, you might show the video “Plan of Salvation—We’re Still a Family ” (4:47), available at ChurchofJesusChrist.org . Consider inviting students to think about how the Savior’s teachings about family impacted this young man.
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To conclude the lesson, you could invite students to quietly reflect on and record their responses to the following questions. Volunteers could share what they wrote.
See the sections under “President Oaks on LGBTQ Issues” and “Elder Gilbert on LGBTQ Issues” in Dallin H. Oaks and Clark C. Gilbert, “Stand Fast with Love in Proclaiming Truth ” (Ensign College devotional, May 17, 2022), ensign.edu .
Watch Dallin H. Oaks and Kristen M. Oaks, “Stand for Truth ” (worldwide devotional for young adults, May 21, 2023), ChurchofJesusChrist.org , from time code 36:02 to 38:34.
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President Dallin H. Oaks of the First Presidency shared:
Some who are listening to this message are probably saying, “But what about me?” We know that many worthy and wonderful Latter-day Saints currently lack the ideal opportunities and essential requirements for their progress. Singleness, childlessness, death, and divorce frustrate ideals and postpone the fulfillment of promised blessings. … But these frustrations are only temporary. The Lord has promised that in the eternities no blessing will be denied his sons and daughters who keep the commandments, are true to their covenants, and desire what is right. (Dallin H. Oaks, “The Great Plan of Happiness ,” Ensign , Nov. 1993, 75)
Elder Robert D. Hales (1932–2017) of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles shared:
The Father’s plan provides us the way to inherit eternal life, the life our heavenly parents lead. In the plan, “neither is the man without the woman, [nor] the woman without the man, in the Lord” [1 Corinthians 11:11 ]. The very essence of eternal life includes the eternal marriage of man and woman, which is an essential part of becoming like our heavenly parents. (Robert D. Hales, “The Plan of Salvation: A Sacred Treasure of Knowledge to Guide Us ,” Ensign , Oct. 2015, 29)
President Dallin H. Oaks of the First Presidency taught:
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Satan’s most strenuous opposition is directed at whatever is most important to [God’s] plan. Consequently, he seeks to oppose progress toward exaltation by distorting marriage, discouraging childbearing, or confusing gender. However, we know that in the long run, the divine purpose and plan of our loving Heavenly Father will not be changed. Personal circumstances may change, and God’s plan assures that in the long run, the faithful who keep their covenants will have the opportunity to qualify for every promised blessing. (Dallin H. Oaks, “Divine Love in the Father’s Plan ,” Liahona , May 2022, 103)
Elder Robert D. Hales (1932–2017) of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles said:
Marriage and family are under attack because Satan knows that they are essential to obtaining eternal life—as essential as the Creation, the Fall, and the Atonement and Resurrection of Jesus Christ. Having failed to destroy any of those pillars of the plan, Satan seeks to destroy our understanding and practice of marriage and family. (Robert D. Hales, “The Plan of Salvation: A Sacred Treasure of Knowledge to Guide Us ,” Ensign , Oct. 2015, 29)
See General Handbook: Serving in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints , 38.6.23 , ChurchofJesusChrist.org .
President Russell M. Nelson explained:
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Who are you?
First and foremost, you are a child of God.
Second, as a member of the Church, you are a child of the covenant. And third, you are a disciple of Jesus Christ.
Tonight, I plead with you not to replace these three paramount and unchanging identifiers with any others, because doing so could stymie your progress or pigeonhole you in a stereotype that could potentially thwart your eternal progression. …
There are various labels that may be very important to you, of course. Please do not misunderstand me. I am not saying that other designations and identifiers are not significant. I am simply saying that no identifier should displace , replace , or take priority over these three enduring designations: “child of God,” “child of the covenant,” and “disciple of Jesus Christ.” (Russell M. Nelson, “Choices for Eternity ” [worldwide devotional for young adults, May 15, 2022], broadcasts.ChurchofJesusChrist.org )
Sister Joy D. Jones, former Primary General President, taught:
The Spirit will confirm to each of us individually our divine worth. Truly knowing that you are a [child] of God will affect every aspect of your life and guide you in the service you render each day. President Spencer W. Kimball (1895–1985) explained in these glorious words:
“God is your Father. He loves you. He and your mother in heaven value you beyond any measure. … You are unique. One of a kind, made of the eternal intelligence which gives you claim upon eternal life.
“Let there be no question in your mind about your value as an individual. The whole intent of the gospel plan is to provide an opportunity for each of you to reach your fullest potential, which is eternal progression and the possibility of godhood” [“Privileges and Responsibilities of Sisters ,” Ensign , Nov. 1978, 105]. …
… As the Savior lifts us to higher ground, we can see more clearly not only who we are but also that we are closer to Him than we ever imagined. (Joy D. Jones, “Value beyond Measure ,”Ensign or Liahona , Nov. 2017, 14, 15)
Consider beginning class by sharing the following scenario:
While researching online for a class assignment, Lydia found some articles arguing that the traditional family (a married man and woman with children) was no longer needed in society. During class a few days later, Lydia realized she was alone in trying to defend the importance of the traditional family. Many of her classmates placed little or no priority on marriage or having children. To them, marriage and children get in the way of a person’s individual fulfillment. This experience left Lydia with some unsettling questions and feelings.
You could invite students to analyze the scenario using questions like the following:
Students could look for truths about these topics as they study “The Family: A Proclamation to the World ” throughout the week.
To further discuss this idea from the family proclamation, you might invite students to assess how they feel about their identity as a child of heavenly parents. Consider sharing the statements by President Russell M. Nelson and Sister Joy D. Jones from the “Additional Resources” section. You could ask students questions like the following:
What stands out to you from these statements?
What has helped you appreciate your identity as a son or daughter of heavenly parents?
How might focusing on our place in God’s family be helpful for someone struggling with difficult family circumstances on earth?
You might refer to lesson 176, “Our Divine Identity and Purpose ,” as an additional resource.
To further develop any of the sections in this lesson, you could invite students to divide into groups of three. Each student could read one of the principles of acquiring spiritual knowledge (paragraphs 5–12 in the Doctrinal Mastery Core Document [2023]). Students could look for insights that help them better understand one of the sections in today’s lesson.