Ghar pe Shiksha—ek Khushaal aur Pavitra Zimmedaari

Devin G. Durrant dwara

Sahayak Sanstha Jenral Adhyakshta ke Pehla Salaahkaar

Hum swarg ke sahayta ke nivedan karta hai jaise humlog Masih ke rakam shikshak banta hai apan gharon me.

Hamaar paari patni, Julie, aur hum che keemti ladkan ke paala hai, aur haal hi hum akele ho gaye. Hum apan ladkan ke kami mehsoos karta hai jabki ab u long pura-waqt ghare nahi rahe. Hum u log se sikhe aur u long ke sikhaae ke kami mehsoos karta hai.

Aaj hum apan vichaar deta hai un sab maata pitah log ke aur jon maange maata -pita bane.Tum me se kaiabhi ladkan paalta hai. Dusro ke liye, u taaim shayad jaldi hi aayi.Aur baaki sab ke liye, maata pitah bane ke ashirvaad shayad aage ke bhavish me aayi. Hum praathna karta hai ki hum sab pahachanega ki ek bachcha ke shiksha dewe ke zimmedaari kitna khushaal aur pavitra hai.¹

Maata-pita ban ke, hum log apan bachcho ke parichay Swarg ke Pita aur Uske Putra, Ishu Masih se karta hai. Hum log apan bachcho ke pehla praathna bole me madad karta hai. Hum log maargdarshan aur sahayta deta hai jab u log vaade ke rasta pe jaawe² baptisma ke dwara. Hum unko sikhaata hai Parmeshwar ke niyam ke paalan kare ke. Hum unko Unke bachcho ke liye Unke yojna ke baare me shiksha deta, aur hum log u log ke madad karta hai Pavitra Aatma ke dhire se bola hua baat sune ke. Hum unko puraana profat log ke kahani batata hai aur protsaahan deta hai ki woh log jiwit profaton ka paalan kare. Hum long u long ke safalta ke kostin praathna karta aur u long ke sange dukhit hota u long ke mushkilon ke samay. Hum log apan ladkan ke mandir ke arshirvaad ke gawaahi deta hai, aur hum log sangharsh se u log ke taiyaar karta hai pure samay ka mission sewa kare ke liye. Hum log apan ladkan ke pyaar bhara salah deta hai jab u log khud hi maata-pita bante hai. Lekin—to bhi—hum long unke maata-pita bane se kabhi nahi chukta hai. Hum kabhi u log ke shikshak bane laa nahi chodta hai. Hum log kabhi is anant niyukti se mukt nahi hota hai.

Aaj chalo vichaar karenge thora niraala maukon par jon hum log ke paas hai apan ladkan ke apan ghar me shiksha dewe ke liye.

Parivaarik Gharelu Sabha ke Shikshan

Shuruat kari jaaye parivaarik gharelu sabha se, jiske bahut mahatvapurn darja diya jaata raha hamaar vishvaas-bhara ghar me jahaan hum bada bheya. Hamein parivaarik gharelu sabha log me konchi padaya ge raha u to yaad nahi hai, lekin hamein yaad hai ki hum log kabhi ekko miss nahi kara.³ Hum janta raha huma maata-pita ke liye konchi zaroori raha.⁴

Hamein yaad ayis huma sabse pasandeeda parivaarik gharelu sabha ke ektiviti. Hamaar pita apan ek baccha ke hamesha bulai “ek pariksha” lewe ke liye. U baccha ke fir dedh cheez batawa jaata raha jaise, “Pehle, kichan me jao aur fridge kholo aur band karo. Fir hamar bedroom me dauro aur dresar me se huma moja lao. Fir hamar paas aao, upar niche teen time kudo, aur bolo, ‘Pita, hum kar diya!’”

Hamein bahut accha lagta raha jab hamaar mauka raheta raha. Hum manta raha sab cheez ekdum sahi kare, aur hamaar liye u samay anmol raha jab hum sakta raha bole, “Pita, hum kar diya!” I la ektivity hamein apan atmavishwaas banaye me madad karis aur ek bahut bechaen ladka ke dhyaan dewe ke sikhais jab Maata ya Pita susamachaar ke shiksha deta raha.

Pradhaan Gordon B. Hinckley salaah dees: “Agar tumhe parivaarik gharelu sabha ke khubi pe koi sandeh hai, to kar ke dekh lo. Ladkan ke apan paas ikhatta karo, u log ke shiksha do, u log se apan gawahi bolo, sange skripcha padho aur saath me accha waqt bitao.”⁵

Parivaarik gharelu sabha rakkhe me hamesha virodh rahi.⁶ Bina parwaah kare, hum aap log ke nimantran deta hai ki aap baadha se dur waqt khojo aur parivaarik gharelu sabha ke praathmikta do—aur usme khel-kud ko mukhye darja do.

Parivaarik Praathna ke Shiksha

Parivaarik praathna bhi ek mukhye mauka hai shiksha dewe ke.

Hamein accha laga ki kaise Pradhaan N. Eldon Tanner ke pita uske shiksha dees parivaarik praathna ke samay. Pradhaan Tanner i bolis:

“Hamein ek sanjhaa yaad hai jab hum log ghutna par parivaarik praathna karta raha, hamaar pita Prabhu se bolis, ‘Eldon aaj kuch karis jon uske nahi kare ke raha; u sharminda hai, aur agar aap uske maaf kar dega, u fir se waise nahi kari.’

“U sun ke hum nirnaye liya waise kabhi nahi kare ke—jon cheez hum maar se nahi seekhta.”⁷

Jab hum chota ladka raha, kabhi kabhi hum log bahut zyaada parivaarik praathna log se gussa hoyi jaat raha, apan man me sochte ki, “Kya abhi hum log thora deri pehle praathna nahi kara?” Ab, khud maata-pita ban ke, hum janta ki jitna bhi praathna hamaar paarivaar kari u jasti nahi rahi.⁸

Hum hamesha prabhaawit hai ki kaise Swarg ke Pita apan Priye Putra Ishu Masih ke parichay kare hai.⁹ Hume khushi hoye jab hum apan ladkan ke naam le ke praathna karta aur u log jab sune kaise hum Swarg ke Pita ke batata ki u log huma liye kitna priye hai. Aise lage hai ki apan ladkan se pyaar baate ke sabse sahi waqt hai jab hum log sange praathna karta ya jab u log ke arshirvaad deta. Jab parivaar ke log vinamrata se praathna me ikhatta hoye hai, shaktishaali aur jeewan bhar ke shikshan mile hai.

Sab-Waqt Shiksha Dene Ko Tayyaar Rehna

Mataa-pita ka shiksha dena jaise u la daktar jon sab waqt kaam pe jaaye ke tayyaar rahe hai. Hum log ke sab taaim apan ladkan ke padhaye ke liye maango tayyaar raho kyunki hum log nahi janta kab hum log ke mauka mil jayi kareke.

Hum log Uddhaarkarta ke rakam hai, jiske shiksha bahut baar “girjaghar me nahi lekin maamuli jagha log pe hoyis raha—jab apan chela log ke sange khaana khaate, kuwa se paani nikaalte, ya to fig pedh ke paas se jab u chalte jaat raha.”¹⁰

Saalon pahele hamaar maata apan dui sabse accha susamachaar laa baat huma bada bhaiya Matt se batais, ek baar jab u kapda lapetta raha aur ek aur baar jab uske dentist ke paas le ke jaata raha. Bahut cheezon me se ek cheez jon hum apan maata ke baare me pasand karta raha, hai ki u hamesha taiyaar raheta raha apan ladkan ke shiksha dewe ke liye.

Uske maata-pita laa shiksha dena kabhi khatam nahi bhe. Jab hum bishop raha, hamaar maata, jon u waqt 78 saal ke raha, hamein batais ki hamein apan baar kataye ke hai. U janta raha ki hamein udhaaran bane ke jaroori hai, aur u hamein bataye me hichkichais nahi. Hum aapse prem karta hai, Maa!

Ek pita ho kar, hum vyaktigat roop se mangta hai skripchas padhe aur uske baare me soche taaki hum sakta har-waqt taiyaar rahe apan ladkan aur unke ladkan ke shiksha dewe ke liye.¹¹ “Shiksha baate ke kuch sabse accha pal, ek [parivaar] sadasye ke dil me utha sawaal ya chinta se shuru howe hai.”¹² Kya hum log u pal ke dauraan sunta hai?¹³

Hamein prem hai Devdut Peter ke nimantran se: “Hamesha tayyaar raho har aadmi ke jawaab dewe ke liye [aur hum jodta hai, bachcha] jon tumhare andar maujood aasha ke kaaran puche hai.”¹⁴

Jab hum yuva raha, hamaar pita aur hum ek dusre ke chalenj kare ke pasand karta raha dekhe ke liye ki kiske pakad sabse mazboot raha. Hum log ek dusre ke haath ek dum zhor se dabaata raha taaki dusra insaan ke zyaada peera mehsoos hoye. Abhi to u la zyaada mazhedaar nahi lage, lekin u taaim pe mazhedaar lagta raha. Ek aisan laa ladai ke baad, hamar pitah hamar aankhee me dekh ke bolis,“Tuma paas mazboot haath hai, Beta. Hum ummeed karta hai ki tuma haath me hamesha utna taagat rahi ki tum kabhi bhi koi jawaan stri ke buri tarha se nahi chuwega.” U fir hamein nimantran dees ki hum naitik roop se saaf rahi aur dusron ke bhi waisa karne me madad kari.

Elder Douglas L. Callister apan pitah ke baare me baat karis:“Ek din kaam pe se ghar laute ke waqt Pita achanak hi bolis, ‘Hum aaj apan tithing bharaa. Hum tithing chek pe “dhanyevaad” likha. Hum bahut abhaari hai Prabhu ke ki u hum log ke parivaar ke aashirvaad dis hai.’”

Elder Callister tab apan pita-shikshak ke sammaan dis: “U agyakaarita ke dono karyakarta aur vyavahaar sikhais hai.”¹⁵

Hum sochta ki bhudhimaani hai ki hum log apan aap se kabhi kabhi i pucho,“Hum konchi padhayega, ki hum konchi padhaata hai, apan ladkan ke apan agyakaari ke karyakarta aur vyavahaar se?”

Parivaarik Skripcha ke Padhe se Shiksha

Parivaarik skripcha ke padhai ek adarsh manch hai ghar me dharamsiddhant ke shiksha dewe ke liye.

Pradhaan Russell M. Nelson bolis,“ Naaki sirf maata-pita ke chaahi Prabhu ke shabd ke pakre raho, balki u log ke pavitra aadesh hai ki u log apan ladkan ke bhi wahi sikhaye.”¹⁶

Jaise hum aur Julie apan ladkan ke paala aur bada kara, hum log koshish kara sab waqt ekke rakam se cheez kare ke aur dilchasp banawe ke. Ek saal hum log tay kara ki hum log ke parivaar Mormon ki Pustak Spanish me padhi. Kya yahi kaaran raha ki hum log ke jitna ladkan pura samay ke mission sewa dis, u log ke Prabhu Spanish bole laa mishan pe bulais.? Es posible. (I mumkin hai.)

Hamaar uppar ghera asar pada jab Bhaai Brian K. Ashton humse batais ki u aur uske pita Mormon ki Pustak ke har ek panna saath me padhis raha jab u apan haeskul ke akhri saal me raha. Bhaai Ashton ke skripcha se bahut prem hai. U uske dimaag me aur dil pe likhaan hai. Uske pita u biya bois raha jab Bhaai Ashton ek yuva raha, aur u biya¹⁷ badh ke sachai ke ek bahut ghera se jamaa pedh bange hai. Bhaai Ashton apan bada ladkan ke sange bhi wahi cheez karis hai.¹⁸ Uske aath saal ke ladka uske jaldi me poochis, “Pita, kab hamein tuma sange Mormon ki Pustak padhe ke mili?”

Udhaaran se Shikhana

Aakhri me, hum log maata-pita ban ke sabse asardaar shiksha udhaaran se sikhana.Hum log ke salah mila hai aise rahewe ke “vishwaas kare waalon ke liye udhaaran bano, shabd me, baat cheet me, dayaluta me, aatma me, vishwaas me, suddhtta me.”¹⁹

Ek jaldi hoye laa safar ke dauraan, Julie and hum girjaghar geya and i la verse ke hote huye dekha. Ek jawaan admi, jon jaldi apan mishan pe jaye laa raha, prabhubhoj sabha me baat karis.

U bolis,“Aap sab log sochta hai ki huma pitah bahut accha aadmi hai girjaghar me, lekin…” U rukh ge, aur hum bechaini se soche laga ki fir u konchi boli. U aage badis aur bolis,“ U ghar pe aur bhi accha aadmi hai.”

Baad me hum i jawaan ladka ke shukriya kara uske liye jon u apan pita ke baare me itna accha vichaar dis. Hamein tab pata laga ki uske pitah u ward ke bishop raha. Bhale i bishop apan ward ke imaandaari se sewa deta raha, uske ladka mehsoos karis ki u sabse accha kaam ghar pe karta raha.²⁰

Elder D.Todd Christofferson salah dis:“ Hum log ke paas bahut raasta hai shiksha dewe ke … aage aye waala peedhi ke, aur hum log ke chahi apan sabse accha soch aur prayaas lagao uske pura fayeda uthaye ke. Sabse upar, hum log ke chahi maata-pita log ke badhaawa do aur madad karo accha shikshak bane ke … jyaada kar ke udhaaran se.²¹

Waise hi Uddhaarkarta shiksha sikhata hai.²²

Pichle saal, jan hum long apan dwi chota ladkan ke sange ghume giya raha, Julie bolis ki hum log ke chahi prox baptisma karo dono St. George aur San Diego mandir me. Hum chota badbadaya—apan mann me—soch ke,“Hum log ghar pe raheta hai to mandir jaata hai, aur abhi hum log chutti pe hai. Kaye nahi kuch chutti-pe kare laa karo?” Baptisma log ke baad, Julie manta raha mandir ke bhaare chaapa lewe. Hum aaste se phir badbadaya. Tum sakta jaan le fir konchi bhe: hum log chaapa liya.

Julie maange humlog ladkan ke yaadein raho ki kaise hum log apan purwaj log ke madad kara, aur hum bhi wahi mangta hai. Hum log ke mandir ke mahatva ke baare me seekhe ke zarurat nahi raha. Hum log u seekh jeeta raha—shukriya us maata ka jon mandir se prem kare hai aur maange ki uske ladkan bhi u-la prem mehsoos karo.

Jaise maata-pita ek dusre ke prerna de aur accha udhaaran dei, ladkan ke anant aashirvaad mili.

Samaapti

Tum log sab ke liye jon bhi apan ghar me shikhsha dewe ke koshish sabse accha se kare hai, tumhe u koshish me sukh aur shaanti mile. Aur agar tumme lage ki tum sakta hai aur accha kare yaa tumme zarurat hai aur taiyaari ke, kripya vinamrata se jawaab do jab Aatma tumhe bataye aur apne aap ko use karne do.²³

Elder L.Tom Perry bolis, “Koi samaaj ke sehat, waha ke log ke khushi, u log ke safalta, aur u log ke shaanti sab ke jadh ek hi jagha se aaye aur u hai shiksha jon ladkan ke ghar pe mile hai.”

Haan, ab hum log ke ghar ke ghosla khaali hoye ge hai, lekin hum abhi bhi sab waqt bulaawa pe hai, taiyaar aur utsuk hai mauka khoje ke jab hum apan jawaan ladkan ke, aur u log ke ladkan ke, aur koi din, hum ummeed karta, u log ke bhi ladkan ke hum sakta shiksha dewe.

Hum swarg ke sahayta ke nivedan karta hai jaise hum log Masih ke rakam shikshak banta hai apan ghare. Ishu Masih ke naam se, amen.

Not

1. Dekhiye Doctrine and Covenants 68:25; 93:40.

   Elder L. Tom Perry shiksha dees:“Virodhi ke asar itna faila hua hai aur u-waar kare hai,koshish kare hai ujaadhe ke aur vinaash kare ke samaaj ke neev ke, parivaar ke bhi. Maata- pita log ke chahi samajh jao ki ghar pe shiksha dena sabse jyaada pavitra aur zaroori zimmedaari hai”(“Mothers Teaching Children in the Home,” Liahona, May 2010, 30).

   Pratham Adhyakshta aur Bhaarah ke parishad ne sikhaya hai:“Pati aur Patni ke paas pavitra zimmedaari hay pyaar karne ki, ek dusre ki dekhbhaal ki aur unke bachchon ke liye. ‘Bachchen Ishwar ke viraasat hain’Psalm 127:3) Maata-pita ke paas pavitra kartavye hay apne bachchon ki parvarish karein pyaar aur imaandaari se, unke shaaririk aur aatmik zarooraton ke liye pradaan karna, unhein sikhlaaye ek dusre se pyaar karein aur ek dusre ki sewa karein, Parmeshwar ke adeshon ka aadar karein, desh ke kaanoonon ka adar karne waale naagrik banein chahe jahan bhi woh rahein. Pati aur patniyaan—maata aur pita—Parmeshwar ke samaksh uttardayi rahenge in zimmedaariyon ki purti karne me”(“Parivaaar: Duniya ke liye Ek Aupchaarik Ghoshna,” Liahona, May 2017, 145).

2. Dekhiye Russell M. Nelson, “Jab Hum Long ek Sange Aage BadhegaAs We Go Forward Together,” Liahona, Apr. 2018, 7.

3. Elder David A. Bednar bolis: “ Aaj agar tum sakta hum log ke badha ladka log se puche ki u-log konchi yaad hai parivaarik prathna ke baare me, skripja ke padhai ke baare me, aur paarivaarik gharelu sabha ke baare me, humme vishwaas hai hum janta u-log kaise jawaab dei u sawaal ke. U log shayad ek chuna hua prathna yaa ek waqt laa skripja ke padhai ke yaa ek chuna hua parivaarik gharelu sabha ke seekh ke nahi bol pai ki u log ke dhaarmik badhanti ke kaaran hai.U log boli ki u log ke yaad hai ki ek parivaar ban ke humlog sab cheez bina mehsoos kare kara”(“More Diligent and Concerned at Home,” Liahona, Nov. 2009, 19).

4. Dekhiye “Home Can Be a Heaven on Earth,” Hymns, no. 298.

5. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Gordon B. Hinckley (2016), 171.

6. Dekhiye 2 Nephi 2:11.

7. N. Eldon Tanner, “Never Be Ashamed of the Gospel of Christ,” Ensign, Feb. 1980, 4.

8. Dekhiye 3 Nephi 18:21.

9. Dekhiye Matthew 3:16–17; 3 Nephi 11:6–8; Doctrine and Covenants 18:34–36; Joseph Smith—History 1:17.

10. “Take Advantage of Spontaneous Teaching Moments,” Teaching in the Savior’s Way (2016), 16. Teaching in the Savior’s Way me shaamil hai tips aur upharan ghar pe shiksha baatne ke liye.

11. Dekhiye Doctrine and Covenants 11:21; 84:85.

12. Teaching in the Savior’s Way, 16.

13. Dekhiye “Listen,” Preach My Gospel: A Guide to Missionary Service (2004), 185–86.

14. 1 Peter 3:15.

15. Douglas L. Callister, “Most Influential Teacher—Emeritus Seventy Pays Tribute to Father,” Church News section of LDS.org, Aug. 29, 2016, LDS.org/news.

16. Russell M. Nelson, “Set in Order Thy House,” Liahona, Jan. 2002, 81.

17. Dekhiye Alma 32:28–43.

18. Bahan Melinda Ashton apne pati, Bhaai Ashton ke jagha lewe hai jab woh shaher se bahar rahe hai.

19. 1 Timothy 4:12;Alma 17:11bhi dekhiye.

20. Bishop Jeffery L. Stewart Southgate Second Ward, St. George Utah me sewa kare hai. Samuel, uske ladka, abhi Colombia Medellin Mission me sewa kare hai.

21. D. Todd Christofferson, “Strengthening the Faith and Long-Term Conversion of the Rising Generation,” general conference leadership meeting, Sept. 2017 me.

22. Dekhiye 3 Nephi 27:21, 27.

23. Dekhiye Doctrine and Covenants 43:8–9.

24. L. Tom Perry, “Mothers Teaching Children in the Home,” 30.