Humse Pehle ki Zaroorate
Kuch mahaan zaroorate jo humare paas hai humare khudh ke parivaaron, hamare doston, hamare wards, aur hamare gaaon me.
Abhi haal hi ke dinon me humne ek bade maatra me prakritik tufaan ko Mexico, the United States, Asia, the Carribean, aur Africa me jhela hai.Isse logo me acchai bahar ayi hai jab hazaaro ki sankhiya me log bhaag le rahe hai unhe bachane ke liye jo khatre me hai yah jinhe kuch khoya hai. Main Texas aur Florida ke jawaan mahilaaoun ko dekh kar khush hua, jo, kai dusron ke saath, yelo kala Helping Hands Shat pahan kar aye hua tufaan se chati paunchi gharon ko saaf karne mein madad kar rahe the. Agar ithni duri nahi hothi, kai hazaaro khusi khusi un centaro tak jaane ke liye tayaar the. Balki, tumne apne daan dwara unke takleef ko kam kiya hai.Tumhare daya aur daan prerna se bhara aur Masih ki tarah hai.
Aaj main ek tarah ki sewa ke bare me batlana chahati hoon jo main sochta hoon sab ke liye zaroori hai—bhale hum jaha kahi bhi ho.Hum me se jin logo ne haal hi ke events ke samachaar ko dekha hai aur apne aap ko kya karna chahiye ko lekar lachaar paya hai, iska jawaab shayad hamare saamne hi hai.
Uddhaarkarta ne sikhlaya hai, “Kyuki jo koi apna praan bachana chahega wah use khoyega, parantu jo koi mere liye apna praan khoyega wahi use bachayega.”1 Pradhaan Thomas S. Monson ne is dharamshaastr ke bare me bataya, “Main vishwaas karta hoon ki Uddhaarkarta ne humko batlaya hai ki jab tak hum apne aap ko dusro ki sewa karne mein kho na de, humare jiwan ka koi mol nahi hoga. Jo koi khudh ke liye hi sochta hai dhaarmik taur se kam hota chala jata hai aur apne khudh ke jiwan ko gawa deta hai, jabki weh jo dusron ki sewa karte hai weh fulte aur falte hai—aur sahi mein apne jiwan ko bachate hai.”2
Hum ek sabhyatha me rahate hai jaha hum jyaada tar apne haathon me fone yah anye sadhan ka istamaal ziyada karte hai naaki apne ird-gird ke logon se. Humne kisi ke aankh me dekh kar aur muskura kar ya, bahut hi kam, ek dusre se aamne saane me wartalaabh karne ke bajaaye texting aur tweeting se badal liya hai. Hum jyadaatar us ki chinta karte hai ki kitne humare dekhnewaale aur pasand karenewaale hai naaki ek dost ke bahon me haat daal kar aur prem, chinta, aur sachche chinta se. Bhale hi Ishu Masih ke susamachaar ke sandesh ko baatne ka ek naya aschariye teknologi ho aur hume parivaaron aur doston tak pahuchne me madad karta hai, agar hum apne khudh ke cheezon ka istamaal me chaokas nahi rahenge, hum bhi khudh ke bare me hi sochna shuru kar sakte hai aur yah bhool sakte hai ki susamachaar me jeene ka matlab sewa karna hai.
Maiunko bahut prem karta aur vishwaas karta hoon jo apne jawaan aur jawaan baalik umar me hai. Maine tumhare sewa karne ki ikcha aur duniya mein badlaao laane ki ikcha ko dekha aur mehsoos kiya hai. Main vishwaas karta hoon ki kai sadesye apne vaadon aur chelapan ka mukhye bhaag sewa ko maante hai. Parantu main yah bhi sochta hoon ki kabhikabhi dusron ki sewa ka mahaan aosar ko kho dete hai kyunki hum aschariye me hote hai kyunki hum bade tarikon se duniya ko badalne ko sochte hai aur hum yah nahi dekh paate ki humare kuch zaroori mahaan zaroorate humare khudh ke parivaaron, humare khudh ke doston, humare wards, aur humare gaaon mein hi pura ho sakta hai. Hume jhatka lagta hai jab hum duniya me apne se durko jhelte aur bade zarooraton me dekhte hai, parantu hum yah nahi dekh pate hai ki ek insaan hai jo hamare kalaas me hamare bagal me baetha hua hai ko dosti ki zaroorat hai.
Bahan Linda K. Burton ne ek Stake Sahayak Sanstha pradhaan ki kahani sunaai jo, dusron ke saath kaam karta tha, 1900 ke dauraan zarooratmand logon ke liye kuils batorne ka. “Wah aur uski beti London se Kosovo tak trak me chaadar ko bhar kar le jate. Ghar lautne ki raaste me, use ek spasht dhaarmik prerna mili jo uske hriday me bas gayi. Woh prerna yeh tha: ‘Jo tumne kiya hai woh bahut achchi baat hai. Ab ghar jaao, raaste ko paar karo, aur apne padosi ki sewa karo!’”3
Duniya ko bachane me kya hai jab hum apne bagal ke zarooratmandon ko bhool jate hai aur unko jinhe hum prem karte hai? Agar hamare aas-paas ke log gir rahe aur notis nahi hai to duniya ko tik karne me kitna mulye hai? Swarg ke Pita ne un logo ko rakha haihamare sabse karibi ki zaroorat hai, ya jante hue ki hum unki zaroorato ko pura karne ke liye sabse upyukt hai.
Sabhi Masih ki tarah sewa ke tarike ko dhoond sakte hai. Meri salahakaar, Bahan Carol F. McConkie, ne abhi haal hi mujhe apne ek 10-saal-umar ki naatin Sarah ke bare me bataya hai jisne, jab dekha ki uski maa bimaar thi, ne khudh hi madad karne ko socha. Usne apni choti bahan ko jagaya, usko taeyaar hone me madad kiya, uske daath dhoya, baal bandhe, aur sabere ka bhojan kiya taaki maa araam kar sake. Usne is sadhaaran sewa ke kaam ko kiya bina hi bole kyunki usne zaroorat ko dekha aur madad ki ikcha kiya. Sarah ne apni maa ko hi nahi ashirwaad diya, balki main jaanta hoon ki usne khushi mehsoos kiya yah jaante hue ki usne prem karne waale ki musibaton ko kam kiya tha aur, yah karte samay, apne bahan ke saath apne rishte ko mazboot kiya. Pradhaan James E. Faust ne kaha: “Dusron ki sewa karna kisi bhi umar mein shuru ho sakta hai. … Zaroori nahi ki wah bada hi ho, aur yah parivaar me bahut hi mahaan hai.”4
Kya tum bachche yah jaante ho ki tumhare amma aur pitaaur parivaaron ke sadesyon ke liye kya matlab rakhta hai jab tum ghar par sewa karne ko sochte ho? Unke liye jo tumhare jawaan umar me hai, apne parivaaron ke sadesyon ko mazboot karna aur sewa karna tumhare sabse bada kaam hona chahiye jab tum duniya ko badaalne ke tarike ko sochte ho. Apne bhaaiyon aur parivaaron ke liye daya aur chinta dikhlane se ekta ka mahol banane me madad milta hai aur humare gharon me Aatma aati hai. Duniya ko badalne ki shuruaat apne khudh ke parivaar se hota hai.
Hamare dusre sewa ka sthaan hamare ward parivaaron se ho sakta hai. Kabhikabhi humare bachche humse sawaal puch sakte hai, “Mujhe Mutual me kyo jana hai? Main isse bahut kuch nahi seekthi hoon.”
Agar mujhe achcha poshan mila hai, main jawaab dunga “Tumhe kyon lagta hai ki tum Mutual me jaao kyunki tumhe kis tarah usse faeda ho?”
Mere jawaan doston, main vishwaas dilata hoon kiwaha par humesha koi hai sabhi Girjhaghar ke sabha mein jo akela hai, jo musibaton ko jhel raha hai aur ek dost ki zaroorat hai, ya jise lagta hai ki ladka ya ladki waha ki nahi. Tumhare paas sabhi sabha ya gatividthi me karne ke liye kuch zaroor hai, aur Prabhu chahate hai ki tum apne ird-gird ke hum umar ke logon ko dekho aur phir prachaar karo jaesa Wah karta.
Elder D.Todd Christofferson ne sikhlaya, “Ek mukhye karan Prabhu ne girjaghar banaya tha ki Santon ki sangatan banaye jo ek dusron ki madad karega ‘sidhe aur patrile raaste me jo anant jiwan ki oar jata hai.’” Wah yahkahata hai ki, “Is jaati me sirf apne aap ke bare me nahi socha jata hai, balki, hum sab sewa karte hai. Hum Masih ke sharir ke aankh, haat, paer, aur dusre ang hai.”5
Yah sach hai ki hum apne saftahik Girjaghar sabha me bhaag lene jate hai siddhaanton me shaamil hone, siddhaanton ko sikhkne, aur prerna prapt karne, balki ek dusra khaas karan bhaag lene ke hai, ki ek ward parivaar ki tarah aur Uddhaarkarta Ishu Masih ki chele ki tarah, hum ek dusre ka khayaal rakhte hain, ek dusre ko mazboot karte, aur ek dsure ko sewa aur mazbooot karne ke tarikon ko dhoondhate hai. Hum sirf girjaghar se parpt karne aur lene nahi jaate hai, hume dene aur pahunchaane ki zaroorat hai. Jawaan mahilaaoun aur jawaan purush, agle baar tum Mutual me aao, apne fone ko uttha kar kya tumhare dost kar rahe hai ko dekhne ke bajaaye, ruko, ird-gird dekho, aur apne aap se pucho, “Kisko aaj meri zaroorat hai?” Tum shayad wah zariya ho sakte ho un tak pahunchne ka aur apne hum-umar ke jiwan ko prabhawit karne ka ya ek dost ko prathsaahan dene kajo jhel raha ho.
Apne Swarg kePita se maango ki tumhare ird-gird usko dikhlaaye jise tumhari madad ki zaroorat hai aur tumhe prerna de ki unki sab se achchie tarah se sewa karo. Yaad rakho ki Uddhaarkarta ek baar ek hi insaan ki dekhrekh karta tha.
Hamare naati Ethan 17 ka hai. Main is samma me bahut hi khush hua jab usne mujhe bataya ki, uske maa ki uddhaaran ke karan, wah har din prarthna karta hai taaki use ek aosar prapt ho kisi ki sewa ka. Jab hum uske parivaar ke saath samay bita rahe the, Maine Ethan ko apne bhaai, aur bahanon ke saath shaanti, prem, aur dayaluta se pesh aate dekha; Kis tarah Ethan apne mata-pita ko madad karta; aur dosron tak pahuchne me tarikon ko dhoondhata. Main yah dekh kar khush tha ki wah kis tarah apne ird-gird ke logon ke liye chintith tha aur unko uske sewa karne ki ikcha se. Wah mere liye ek uddhaaran tha. Ethan ki tarah karane se, Prabhu ko amantirith karna hamare liye sewa ke tarikon ko dhoondhane ki madad me- Aatma ki madada se hum apne ird-gird ke zarooratmandon ko dekh sakenge, yah dekhne me ki “kise” us din hamari zaroorat hai, aur yah jaanne me ki kis tarah ladka ya ladki ki dekhbhaal kare.
Apne parivaaraur apne ward ke sadesyon ki sewa ke saath, apne padosiyon aur gaaoun me sea karne ke aosar ko dekho. Jab ek bade prakritik tofaan ke baad tumhe madad karne ki niyukti mile, har-ek-din hume apne khudh ke ilaake me aosaron ko dhoondhana hai unki jinhe zaroorat hai upar utne aur madad karne ki. Mujhe abhi haal hi Area Pradhaan se aagya prapt hui hai, ek desh mein sewa karne ka jaha kai chote musibatein hai, ki duniya ke us bhaag ke logon ki sab se achchie tarah se madad karna jo zarooratmand hai ki pure upwaas- ke payese ko bhar kar, Girjaghar ke Humanitarian Aid Fund me daan karne se, aur apne khudh ke gaaounko sewa karke jaha bhi tum rahate ho. Sirf yah socho ki kis tarah puri duniya ko ashirwaad milega agar sabhi uske salaha ko manege!
Bhaaiyon aur bahanon, aur khaaskar yuva jabki tum aur ziyada Uddhaarkarta Ishu Masih ki tarah banna chahate ho aur apne aagyaoun ka paalan karna, tumhe jhelne ko madad arne ki ashirwaad prapt hoga aur unki madad karne ki jin ke paas kam ashirwaad hai. Yaad rakho ki kuch bade zaroorate tumhare saamne hi ho. Apne khudh ke gharon aur apne khudh ke parivaaron me sewa ki shuruwaat karo. Yah hi rishte jo anant tak rahenge. Bhale hi agar—khaaskar agar shayad—tumhare parivaar ke stithi me kuch hi kami ho, tum sewa ke tarike dhoond sakte ho, upar utah sakte, aur mazboot kar sakte. Wah se shuru karo jaha tun ho, unse prem karo jaese weh ho, aur anewale jiwan me jis tarah ka parivaar chahiye ko taeyaar karo.
Prarthna karo apne ward parivaaron me unko jaanne ki jinhe prem aur prothsaahan ki zaroorat ho. Girjaghar jaane ke bajae me is sawaal puchte“ Main is sabha se kya prapt kar sakta hoon? ” pucho, “Kis ko aaj meri zaroorat hai? Mujhe kya daan karna hai?”
Jab tum apne parivaaron aur ward ke sadesyon ko ashirwaad do, apne khudh hi ke gaaoun ko ashirwaad dene ke karike ko dhoondho. Chahe tumhare paas ussi samay ke sewa ho ya na ya ek mahine me kuch hi ghante de sake se tumhare madad se logon ko ashirwaad milega aur tumhe bhi ashirwaad milega jo tum soch nahi sakte.
Pradhaan Spencer Kimball ne sikhlaya: “ Parmeshwar hume chetaouni deta hai, aur wah hume dekhta. Parantu dusre insaan se wah humare zarooraton ko pura karata hai.”6 Hum sab apne Swarg ke Pita ke kaam ko karne mein shaamil hone ke saobhaagye aur asirwaad ko jaane jabki main apne prarthna Uske bachchon ke zarooraton ko pura karne ke liye karta hoon Ishu Masih ke naam se, amen.