Maata-Pitah aur Ladkan
Hum long ke Swarg ke Pitah ke khushiyaali ke mahaan yojna se tumme pata lage tum kon hai aur tumaar jiwan ke lakshye konchi hai.
Mere pyaari bahano, kitna achcha lagta hai i nawa maha-sammelan sabha me bhaag lena jisme Girjaghar ki auratein aath saal aur usse upar ki umra ki hai. Humne prerna bhare sandesh sune hai bahan netaaon aur Pradhaan Henry B. Eyring se. Pradhaan Eyring aur mai Pradhaan Russell M. Nelson ke nirdeshan me kaam karna pasand karte hai, aur mangta jaane u apan bhavishyevaani me konchi boli.
I.
Ladkan sabse anmol uphaar hai Parmeshwar se—hum long ke anant badhanti. Phir bhi hum ek ayse samay me rehte hai jahan kayi auratein ladkan paeda karna aur paalna nahin chahati hai. Kayi young adults shaadi karna taalte hai jabtak sansaarik zarooratein puri nahi ho jaati. Hum long ke Girjaghar ke sadasye long me shaadi kare ke evraj umar dui saal se badh ge hai, aur Girjaghar ke sadasyon me ladkan paeda kare la sankhya kamti hoe laga hai. United States aur kuch anye desh me bhavishye me bahut kamti ladkan bada hoe ke ritaaya hoe la buzurg ke khyaal kare paai.1 United States me lagbhag 40 pratishat se zyaada shishu avivaahit maataaon se janam lete hai. U ladkan ke sake ketna chot pahunche. I sab abhi ke trend hum long ke Pitah ke divye uddhaar ke yojna ke virodh kare hai.
II.
Antim-din Sant auratein samjhe hai ki maa hona sabse zaroori kaam, unka antim khushi hai. Pradhaan Gordon B. Hinckley bolis raha: “Aurat long ke sabse zyaada santushti, aur khushiyaali mile hai ghar aur parivaar me. Parmeshwar aurat long me kuch divye padaarth daalis hai jon apne aap ke shaant shakti, behtareenta, shaanti, achchaai, sadgun, sach, aur pyaar me dikhta hai. Aur i sab badhiya gun sabse sachcha aur sabse santusht dikhawe hai mamta me.”
U aage bolis: “Aurat long ke sabse mahaan kaam rahi paale-pose aur sikhaawe aur jiye aur protsaahan de aur ladkan ke dhaamik aur sachchaai me bada kare. Koi aur kaam ke isse nahi sako taolo isse, bhale uske kaam pe dhyaan nahi dewa jaai.”2
Maataen, priye bahano, hum aapse pyaar karta aap jon hai ke liye aur aap jo karti ho hum sab ke liye.
Apan 2015 la zaroori bhaashan me jisme shirshak raha “A Plea to My Sisters,” Pradhaan Russell M. Nelson bolis:
“Parmeshwar ke raajye pura nahi rahi agar usme pavitra vachan rakhe la aurat, aur shakti aur Parmeshwar ke adhikaar se baat kare la aurat long nahi rahi!
“Aaj, … hum long ke u aurat long ke zaroorat hai jon jaane kaise biswaas se zaroori kaam karao aur jon motality aur paap se bhara duniya me parivaar long ke rakshak hai. Hum long ke waisan aurat ke zaroorat hai jon Parmeshwar ke ladkan ke charwaaha bane ke taeyaar hai unnati ke vachanbadh rasta me; aurat long jon jaane kaise niji praktikaran paao, jon mandir ke endowment ke shakti aur shaanti ke jaane; u aurat jon jaane kaise swarg ke shakti ke pukaaro ladkan aur parivaaron ke raksha aur mazbooti ke liye; u aurat jon jaane bina dar ke sikhawe.”3
I prerna bhara shiksha “Parivaar: Duniya ke Liye Ek Aupchaarik Goshna” pe adhaarit hai, jisme i punahsthapit Girjaghar un dharamvidhi aur kaaedo ke saabit kare ki u Creator ke yojna me mukhye sthaan pe raha Uske dharti banawe se pehle.
III.
Ab hum baat karega i sabha ke thoda chota long ke. Meri pyaari bahano, Ishu Masih ke punahsthaapit susamchaar ke tumaar gyaan ke kaaran, tum khaas ho. Aapke gyaan ke kaaran aap jhel sakogi aur badhte samay mushkilon pe vijay paaogi. Ek chote umra se, tum ne projects aur kaarikramo me bhaag liye hai jisse tumhaare telants me badhanti hui, jaise likhna, bolna, aur yojna banana. Tumne zimmedaar bartaao seekha hai aur kaise jhut bolne, chori karne, ya daaru ya nashile padaarth lene ke behkaao se bacha jaata hai.
Tumaar khaasiyat University of North Carolina me pehchaana gaya American yuvaaon aur dharm ke ek stady me. Ek Charlotte Observer ke aatikal ke shirshak raha “Mormon yuva sabse achcha se jhel lete hai: Stady pata lagais ki u long apan dost long se achcha se i samay ke jhel lewe hai.” I aatikal tay karis ki “Mormon long achcha se jokhim la bartaao ke jhel lewe hai, skool me achcha padhe aur bhavishye ke baare me aasha se bhara rehwe.” Us stady ka ek khoj-karta, jon hum long ke dher yuva ke intarviu lees raha, bolis, “Hum long jon bhi ketegory me dekhta, Mormon long sab me pehla rehwe.”4
Kaae tum bada howe la kathinaai ke etna achcha se jhel leta? Jawaan mahilaaen, aysa hai kyunki aap hamare Swarg ke Pitah ke khushiyaali ke mahaan yojna ko samajhte ho. Isse tumme pata lage tum kon hai aur tumaar jiwan ke lakshye konchi hai. Jon yuva ke i samajhdaari rehwe hai u long mushkil ke hal nikaale me aur sahi chune me pehla rehwe. Tum janta ki Prabhu tumme madad kari bada howe la sab mushkil long ke jhele me.
Aur aur kaaran kaae tum sabse behtar hai kyunki tum samajhte ho ki tum ek Swarg ke Pitah ke bachche ho jo tumse pyaar kare hai. Hum shua hai tum hum long ke badhiya geet se waakif hai “Dearest Children, God Is Near You(Pyaare Ladkan, Parmeshwar Paas Hai).” I hai u verse jon hum long sab gaaya hai aur biswaas kara hai:
Dearest children, God is near you,(Pyaare ladkan, Parmeshwar paas hai)
Watching o’er you day and night,(Aapke dekhe din aur raat)
And delights to own and bless you,((Aur maange tumme apnaae aur ashish de)
If you strive to do what’s right.(Agar tum koshish karega sahi kare ke)5
U verse me dui seekh mile hai: Pehla, hum long ke Swarg ke Pitah paas me hai aur hum long ke dekhe din aur raat ke. Uske baare mein socho! Parmeshwar hum long se pyaar kare, U paas me hai, aur U hum long ke dekhe hai. Dusra, U maange hum long ke ashish dewe jab hum long “sahi kare ke koshish karta.” Ketna aaraam mile isse hum long ke betaabi aur kathinaai ke samay!
Haan, jawaan mahilaaon, aapke ashish mile hai aur aap anokhi hai, par “jab aap sahi karne ki koshish karti hai” aap Swarg ke Pitah ke sabhi ladkan ke tarah hoti hai.
Yahan mai aapko kayi baaton pe salaah de sakta hoon, par maine sirf do chune hai.
Mera pehla salaah mobile phones par hai. Abhi jaldi ke ek survey me pata chala ki United States ke lagbhag aadha se zyaada yuva ne kaha woh bahut samay apne mobile phones pe bitawe hai. 40 pratishat ne kaha woh bechaen ho jaate agar unhe unke mobile phones se alag kar diya jaae.6 I zyaada comman raha ladki long me ladko ke milaan me. Mere jawaan bahano—aur badi auratein bhi—aap long ke jiwan me ashish mili agar aap mobile phones ke istemaal aur us pe aasra kare la kamti kar dega.
Hamaar dusra salaah aur bhi zaroori hai. Dusro ko daya dekhaao. Hamare kayi yuva to pehle se daya dikha rahe hai. Kuch samaajh ke yuva grups ne hum sab ke liye uddharan diya hai. Hum long apan jawaan logon ke daya ke kaam se prerit hoya hai jon u zarooratmand ke liye pyaar aur madad karis. Kayi tarah se, tum u madad deta aur u pyaar ek dusre ke dikhata. Hum long chahata ki sab koi tumaar u uddharan pe chale.
Usi ke saath, hum long janta ki shaetaan hum sab ke behkaawe hai nirdayi banne ko, aur iske kayi aur uddharan hai, ladkan aur yuva me bhi. Lagataar nirdayi rehna kayi naamo se jaana jaawe hai, jaise tang karna, grup ke sang koi ke khilaaf hona, ya koi ke saathe mil ke dusar ke thukra dena. Aisan uddharan jaan bujh ke classmate ya doston ko takleef deti hai. Mere jawaan bahano, Prabhu ke khushi nahi howe agar hum long koi se beraham ya matlabi rehta hai.
Yeh ek aur udharan hai. Hum ek jawaan admi ke janta, Utah ke ek sharnaarti(refiuji), jiske chidhaawa ge raha dusra rakam rahe ke liye, kabhi kabhi apan maatra bhaasha bole ke liye. Uske i desh ke yuva la ek grup gussa chadhaais jab tak u aisan jawaab dees ki jisse uske 70 dinon tak jel jaana pada desh ke nikaala jaae se pehle. Hum nahi janta i grup ke konchi bhe raha, isme se kuch tumaar rakam Antim-dinon ke Sant raha, lekin hum ab u long ke matlabi hoi ke natija dekh liya, ek dukhad anubhav aur Parmeshwar ke ek ladka ke takleef pahuncha. Nirdayipan ke chote kaarnaamo ke sake bahut bura natija howe.
Jab hum u kahani suna, hum uske Pradhaan Nelson, hum long ke profat, ke abhi jaldi ke vishwabhar ke yuva devoshanal ke baat se tulna kara. Aapse aur anye yuva se Israel ke ikattha kare me madad maange me, u bolis:“Alag lago; duniya se alag bano. Aap aur mai jaanta hai ki aapke chaahi duniya ke liye raushni bano. Isliye, Prabhu maange hai ki aap Ishu Masih ke ek sachcha chela ke rakam dekhaao, sunaao, kaam karo, aur kapda pehno.”7
Pradhaan Nelson aapke jon yuva sena me amantrit karis hai u ek dusre ke taraf matlabi nahi rahi. U long Uddhaarkarta ke shikshan pe chali parwaah aur pyaar karo aur dusar ke baare me socho, chaahe hum long ke apan dusra gaal dewe ke pade jab koi humse galti kare.
Lagbhag u samay ke baat hai jab aap me se kayi paeda hoya raha ke ek maha sammelan bhaashan me, Pradhaan Gordon B. Hinckley “kuch sundar jawaan mahila long ke prashansa karis jon susamachaar jiye ke koshish karta raha.” U aise u long ke baare me bolis, jaise hum mangta aapke baare me bole:
“U long ek dusre ke or daani rehwe. U long ek dusre ke mazboot kare. U apan maata-pitah aur jis ghar se woh aate hai ke liye ek uphaar rehwe. U long ab aurat bane la hai aur apan jiwan bhar wahi aadarsh le ke chali jon se abhi prabhawit hai.”8
Prabhu ke ek sewak ke naate, hum aap jawaan mahilaaon se bolta hai, hum long ke duniya aap ke achchaai aur pyaar maange. Ek dusre ko daya dikhaao. Ishu hum long ke sikhaais ek dusre ke pyaar kare ke aur dusar se waise pesh aawe ke jaisa mangta u long hum long se pesh aao. Jab hum long daya dekhawe ke koshish karta, hum long Uske aur Uske pyaar bhara prabhaao ke nazdeek jaata.
Meri pyaari bahano, agar aap koi bhi matlabi-pan ya ghatiyapan me bhaag lega—akele ya ek grup me—abhi se soch lo badle ke aur dusar long ke bhi badle ke kaho. Yahi hai hamaar salaah, aur hum tumse Prabhu Ishu Masih ke ek sewak ke naate bolta hai kyunki Uski Aatma hi se mujhe is vishay pe bolne ka prerna mila tha. Hum Ishu Masih, hum long ke Uddhaarkarta ke gawahi deta, jon hum long ke ek dusre se pyaar kare ke sikhaais jaise U hum long se pyaar karis. Mai prarthna karta hoon ki hum waisa hi karenge, Ishu Masih ke naam se, amen.