Wah Apne Pankhon mein Changai Ke Saath Jee Utha Hai:

Ham Vijayeta Se Adhik Ban sakte Hain

Elder Patrick Kearon dwaara

Sattar ke Presidency ka

Ishu ne is duniya ki gaaliyon par vijay praapt ki hai taaki aapko na keval jeevit rahane ki shakti pradaan ki ja sake balki ek din, uske maadhyam se, vijay praapt karne aur yahaan tak​ki vijay praapt karne ki bhi shakti pradaan ki ja sake.

Marin, main Elder holland hoon, aur cheezen dhalaan par jaane wali hai.

Ham Vijayeta Se Adhik Ban sakte Hain

Ham vijayetao ke kahani se hairaan hai. Ham kahaniyaan sunte hai bahadur khoj karne waalo(explorers) ki aur aam logon ki jo sabhi baadhaon aur apekshaon ke khilaaf khud ko jeevit rakhne ka prabandhan karte hain, aur ham madad nahin kar sakte lekin khud se poochh sakte hain, “Kya main aisa kar sakta tha?”

Mujhe turant lagta hai ki British khojkarta Ernest Shackleton aur unke jahaaj sabhi crew HMS Endurance, chaalak dal ne Antarctic barph mein jahaaj ko barbaad kar diya aur phir lagbhag do varshon tak ek banjar dveep par fase rahe. Shackleton ka badhiya leader hona aur na-haarne waala samadhaan se kayi aadmiyon ki jaan bach gayi, itne kathor paristhiti me bhi.

Tabh hum Apollo 13 ke crew ke baare me sochta jon chandrama par utarne ke liye ge raha! Lekin aapada tab ai jab ek oxygen tank mein dhamaaka hua, aur mishan ko rokna pada. Oxygen ki kami ke kaaran, crew aur mishan niyantran saralta se sudhaar kiya aur teenon antariksh yaatriyon ko surakshit roop se prthvee par vaapas laaya.

Phir main yuddh se peedit vyaktiyon aur parivaaron ke aashcharyajanak astitv ke baare mein sochta hoon, camp mein kaid, aur woh jo refugees ban jaate hain jo veertaapoorvak aur saahaspoorvak saathi peediton ke liye aasha ki aag ko jeevit rakhte hain, jo kroorta ke saamne achchhaee pradaan karte hain, aur jo kisi tarah doosron ko sirf ek aur din sahane mein madad karne ka prabandhan karthe hain.

Kya aap aur ham in sab paristhityon mein se kisi ek mein jeevit rah sakte hain?

Haalanki, shaayad aap mein se kuchh bache logon ke baare mein vichaar karte hain aur aapki aatma rothi hai ki aap abhi jeevit rahane ki kahani jee rahe hain, durvyavahaar(abuse), upeksha, dhamkaane, ghareloo hinsa, ya is tarah ki kisi bhi peeda ke shikaar ke roop mein. Aap khud aise sthiti mein hai jaha aapko jeevit rahane ke liye betaab prayaas karna hoga aur aisi paristhiti main lagta hai vinaashakaaree jahaaz ki tabaahi ya ek aashaajanak mishan achaanak band ho gaya. Kya tumhe koi bachaa payega; kya aap ise apne astitv ki kahani ke maadhyam se banaenge?

Jawaab hai haan. Aap bach sakte hai. Aap pahele se hi bachae ja chuke hain; aap pahale hi bach chuke hain—uske dwaara jisne wahi peeda jheli hai jise aap jhel rahe hain aur usi peeda ko saha hai jise aap sahan kar rahe hain.¹ Ishu ne is duniya ki gaaliyon par vijay praapt karne ke liye ² aapko na keval jeevit rahane ki shakti di hai, balki ek din, uske maadhyam se,Us par vijay paane aur yahaa tak ki jeet haasil karne ke liye—pooree tarah se dard, dukh, peeda se upar uthne aur unhe shanti dwara parithaapit(replaced) dekhe.

Apostle Paul puchtha hain:

“Kaun hamen Masih ke prem se alag kar saktha kai? kya klesh(tribulation), ya sankat, ya utpeedan, ya akaal, ya nangaapan, ya sankat, ya talvaar? …

“Nahin, in sab cheezon mein ham vijetaon se adhik uske dwaara jo humme pyar karta hai.”³

Vaada Covenant Israel ke liye

Apko yaad hoga jab adh‍President Russell M. Nelson ne maha sammelan mein nimanaalikhit aamantran jaaree kiya tha. Usne kaha “Jaise aap apan dharamshaastro ko padhega, … , mai aapke protsaahan deta uh sab likho jon Prabhu waada karis hai Uh kari vachanbadh Israel ke liye. Mujhe lagta hai ki aap chakit ho jayege!”⁴

Yaha par mere paas kuch shaktishaali aur aaram dene waali waade hai jo hummare pariwaar ne dhoonda hai. Kalpana kijiye ki Prabhu aapse ye shabd kah rahe hain—jo aap se bache hue hain—kyonki ve aapke liye hain:

Daro math.⁵

Mein tumhara dukh jaanta hu, aur mein tujhe chudaane aaya hu.⁶

Mein tumhe choduga nahi.⁷

Mera naam tum mein hai aur mere swargyedoot tumhare madat karenge.⁸

Mein tumhare beech mein adbut kaam karunga.⁹

Mere saath chalo; mere baare mein sikho; Mein tumhe vishraam dunga.¹⁰

Mein tumhare beech mein hu.¹¹

Tum mere ho.¹²

Un Logon Ke Liye Jo Jee Rahe Hai

Dhyaan mein us aashvaasanon ko rakhte hue, main seedhe un logon se baat karna chaahata hoon jo mahasoos karte hain ki doosron ke kroor kaaryon ke kaaran apne svayan ke jeevit rahane ki kahanni ka koi raasta nahin hai. Agar yah aapke jiwit rahane ki kahani hain, to ham aapke saath rote hain. Ham chahate hain ki aap bhram, lajja aur bhay ko door karen, aur Ishu Masih ke dwaara aap par vijaypaane ki laalsa karen.

Peedit Se Bachne Waala Se Vijeta Tak

Yadi aapne kisi bhi prakaar ke durvyavahaar, aaghaat(trauma), hinsa, ya utpeedan ka anubhav kiya hai, to aapko is vichaar ke saath chhod diya ja sakta hai ki ye ghatanaen kisi tarah aapki galti thi aur aap sharm aur apraadhoh ko mahasoos karne ke yogy hain. Aapke vichaar aisa ho sakte hai:

• Mein isse rok sakta tha.

• Bhagwaan mujhse pyar nahi karte.

• Koi bhi mujhe kabhi pyaar nahi karega.

• Mein kasht mein hu aur koi marammat nahi kar sakta.

• Uddharakaratha ki Paschyataap dusro par lagoo hota hai, par mujhmein nahi.

Ye galat soch aur bhaavanaen parivaar, doston, leaders ya professionals se madad lene mein baadhae laathi hai, aur isliye aapne akele sangharsh kiya hai. Agar aapne maddat maangi hai jin pe aap bharosa karte hai, to aap abhi bhi sharm aur aatm-ghrna ke soch se joojh rahe ho. In ghatnaon ka prabhaav kai saalo tak rah sakta hai. Aap ummeed karte hain ki ek din aap behatar mahasoos karenge, lekin kisi tarah wah din abhi tak nahin aaya hai.

Durvyavahaar na thi, na hi hai, aur kabhi bhi aapki galti nahin hog, is se koi phark nahin padta ki durvyavahaar karne vaale ya kisi aur ne iske vipreet(contrary) kya kaha ho. Jap aap kroortha, anaachaar, ya kai anye vikrti ke shikaar hue hain, to aapko pashchaataap karne ki aavashyakta nahin hai; aap jimmedaar nahin hain.

Kisi aur ne jo aapke saath kiya hai, uske kaaran aap ek insaan ke roop mein, ya Bhagvaan ki beti ya bete ke roop mein kam yogy ya kam moolyavaan ya kam priy nahin hain.

Parmeshwar na toh jaanta hai, na hi kabhi dekha , aapko tiraskrt/nafrat(despised) hone vaale vyakti ke roop mein dekthe hai. Joh kuch bhi tumhare saath hua hai, Woh tum par lajjit nahi hai. Weh aapko us tarah pyar karte hai jis tarah aapko abhi bhi khojna hai. Aap dhoond loge jab aap uske vaadoh par bharosa karenge aur jab aap vishwaas karne ko seekh jaoge jab woh kahe tum ho “priye [unke] dristhi mein.”¹³

Aap in bhayaanak cheezon se paribhaashit(defined) nahin hain jo aapke saath ki gai hain. Aap, gauravashaalee sach mein, Parmeshwar ke putr ya putri ke roop mein aapki shaashvat(existing) roop se vidyamaan pahachaan, aur aapke Nirmaata ke sampoorn, anant prem aur sampoorn aur poorn upchaar ke nimantran dwaara paribhaashit hain.

Phir bhi dikhne mein na mumkin lagta ho, mahasoos hota ho, changai Ishu Masih ke praayashchit ki chutkaari ki shakti ke chamatkaar ke maadhyam se aa sakti hai, jo “apne pankhon mein changaee ke saath” jee utha hai.¹⁴

Hammare dayalu Uddhartakarta, andhkaar aur bhrashtata par vijayi, sabhi galatiyon ko theek karne ki shakti rakhte hain, doosron ke dwaara galat kiye gae logon ke liye ek jeevan dene vaala saty hai.¹⁵

Krpya jaane ki Uddharkaratha neeche uthar aye hai sabhi ke aage aur uske kaaran, yahaan tak ki tumko kya ho gaya hai. Uske kaaran, vah vaastav mein jaanta hai ki sacha dar aur sharm kaisa lagta hai aur ise chhod diya aur toota hua kaisa lagata hai.¹⁶ Apne praayashchit peeda ki gaharai se Rakshak, vah aasha pradaan karta hai ki aapne socha tha ki hamesha ke liye kho gaya tha, vah shakti jise aap maante the ki aap kabhi bhi praapt nahin kar sakte, aur upachaar jo aap kalpana nahin kar sakte the.

Durvyavahaary ki Prabhu aur Uske Prophets dwaara Spasht Roop se Ninda ki jaati hai.

Kisi bhi ghar, kisi bhi desh ya kisi bhi sanskrti mein kisi bhi tarah ke durvyavahaar—shaareerik, yaun(sexual), bhaawuk ya maukhik(verbal)—ke liye koi jagah nahin hai. Kuch bhi jo ek pathni ya bachcha kahete ya karte hain vah peeta jaane ke liye “yogy” nahi hai. Koi bhi, kisi bhi desh ya sanskrti mein, kisi aur se ya kisi bade aur majboot vyakti se kabhi bhi aakraamakta ya hinsa ki “maang” nahin karta hai.

Jo log durvyavahaar karte hain aur jo apne ghor paapon ko chipaane ki koshish karte hain, ve kuchh samay ke liye is se bach sakte hai. Lekin Bhagwaan, jo sab dekhta hai janta hai sabhi karmo ko aur vichaaro ko aur dil ke iraado ko.¹⁷ Wah nyaay ka Parmeshwar hai, aur uska divy nyaay poora hoga.¹⁸

Chamatkaari roop se, Prabhu vaastav mein pashchaataap karne vaalon ke liye daya ke devta bhi hain. Durvyavahaar karne vaale—jinmen ve log bhi shaamil hain, jinhen kabhi khud ke saath durvyavahaar kiya gaya tha—jo sweekar karte hain, apne paapon ko tyaag dete hain, aur pratipoorti aur kshatipoorti karne ke liye apni shakti mein sab kuchh karte hain, Masih ke praayashchit ke chamatkaar ke maadhyam se kshama ki pahunch rakhte hain.

Jhoote aaropiyon ke liye, in aaropon ki na kahi gai gambheerta apne aap mein shuddhikaran laati hai. Balki ve bhi unke liye Uddhaarakarta ke pratikaraatmak kasht aur is gyaan se aasheeshit hain ki anth mein saty ki jeet hogi.

Lekin jo paschyaataap nahi karte durvyavahaar ke liye wah Bhagwaan ke aage apne aphraadoh ka hisaab karwaane ke liye khada hoga.

Prabhu khud kisi bhi prakaar ke durvyavahaar ki ninda mein spasht nahi hain: “parantu jo bhi in chotoh ko kasht pahuchayega … ,uske liye bahetar hoga ki uske gale mein chakkee(millstone) ka paat latkaaya jaae, aur vah gaharaee mein doob jaata samudr mein.”¹⁹

Samaapti

Priye doston jo ghambeer tarah se ghayal hai, aap ek nai shuruaat kar sakte hain—aur us baat ke liye, jisne bhi jeevan ke anyaay ko saha hai—aap ek nai shuruaat aur ek nai shuruaat kar sakte hain. Gethsemane aur Kalvary mein, Ishu ne “apne upar le liya … saare peeda aur dukh kabhi bhi anubhav kiya gaya aap aur mere dwara,”²⁰ aur usne in sab par vijay praapt ki hain! Baahon ko phailaakar, Uddhaarakarta aapko teek hone ka upahaar deta hain. Saahas ke saath, dhairye aur us par vishvaasayogy dhyaan ke saath, bahut der hone se pahele is upahaar ko puri tarah se sveekaar karne ke liye aa sakte hain. Aap apne dard ko jaane do aur Unke charno mein chod doh.

Aapke mahaan Uddharakartha ne goshna ki hai, “chor nahin, parantu chori karne, aur maarne aur nasht karne ke liye aata hai: main isliye aaya hoon ki [tum] jeevan pao, aur [tum] ise aur adhik pao.”²¹ Aap jeene waalo mein se, aap changa kar sakte hain, aur aap bharosa kar sakte hain ki Ishu Masih ki shakti aur anugrah ke saath, aap vijay payenge aur jeetenge.

Ishu asambhav dikhaane mein maahir hai. Wah yaha asambhav ko sambhav karne aaya hai, aparivartaneey(irredeemable) ko chhudaane yogy banaane ke liye, asaadhy ko theek karane ke liye, anuchit ko sahee karne ke liye, apraapy ka vaada karne ke liye aaya tha.²² Aur Woh is mein bahut achcha hai. Vaastav mein, Woh is mein perfect hai. Ishu Masih, hamare Muktidaata ke naam se, amen.

Adhik jaankaari aur sansaadhanon ke liye, dekhiye “Abuse” Life Help section at ChurchofJesusChrist.org and in the Gospel Library app mein.

Notes

1. Dekhiye Alma 7:11–12. President Russell M. Nelson ne sikhaya hai: “[Ishu Masih] kroorataapoorvak ninda kii gai, baate boli gai, us par thooka gaya, aur kode maare gae. Gethsemane ke Bagiche me, hamare Uddhaarkarta ne Apne upar sab peeda, sab paap, aur sab dukh aur kasht liya jo kabhi aap aur hum me se kisi ne na anubhav ki thi aur na woh jo kabhi dharti pe jiya hai ya jiyenge. Is behad peeda sehte huwe, Uske shareer se maano pasina jaisa khoon tapka tha.(Dekhiye Doctrine and Covenants 19:18 Yeh sab peeda aur badhta gaya jab Woh Calvary ke krus par nirday purwak chadaya gaya” (“The Correct Name of the Church,” Liahona, Nov. 2018, 88).

2. Dekhiye John 16:33; Philippians 4:13.

3. Romans 8:35, 37; par zor diya gaya.

4. Russell M. Nelson, “Let God Prevail,” Liahona, Nov. 2020, 95.

5. Dekhiye Isaiah 41:10; 2 Nephi 8:7.

6. Dekhiye Exodus 3:7–8.

7. Dekhiye Deuteronomy 31:6.

8. Dekhiye Doctrine and Covenants 109:22.

9. Dekhiye Joshua 3:5.

10. Dekhiye Matthew 11:28; Doctrine and Covenants 19:23; Moses 6:34.

11. Dekhiye Doctrine and Covenants 39:7

12. Dekhiye Isaiah 43:1.

13. Isaiah 43:4; par zor diya gaya.

14. Malachi 4:2.

15. Elder Dale G. Renlund gawahi deta hai ki “jiwan ke baare mein jo kuch bhi anuchit hai use Ishu Masih ke Praeshchit ke dwara theek kiya ja sakta hai” (“Infuriating Unfairness,” Liahona, May 2021, 43); see also Preach My Gospel: A Guide to Missionary Service [2019], 52; Isaiah 61:1–3; Revelation 21:4) bhi dekhiye.

16. Dekhiye Doctrine and Covenants 88:6; 122:5–8.

17. Dekhiye Alma 18:32; 39:8.

18. Dekhiye 2 Nephi 9:17; Doctrine and Covenants 1:1–3.

19. Matthew 18:6. “Yeh Bhayanak, yaon soshan ki bura abhyaas … hamari samaj se bahaar hai. … Yah uska ullanghan hai jo pavitr aur divy hai. … Yah nindaneey(reprehensible) hai aur sabse kathor ninda ke yogy hai. Kisi bhi purush ya mahila par sharm ati hai jo ek bachche ka yaun shoshan karega. Ya karte hue, durvyavahaar karne vaala na keval sabse gambheer prakaar ki chot karta hai. Vah Bhagwan ke saamne dandit bhi khada hai” (Gordon B. Hinckley, “Save the Children,” Ensign, Nov. 1994, 54).

20. Russell M. Nelson, “Girjaghar ka sahi naam,” 88.

21. John 10:10.

22. Dekhiye Luke 4:16–19