Founga ʻe Ono ke Tokoni ai Ki hao Kaungāmeʻa ʻOku Loto Tailiili
ʻOku faʻa ilifia e niʻihi loto tailiilí ʻi he anga e fakakaukau mai e niʻihi kehé kiate kinautolú. ʻOku ʻikai ke nau loto ke sio mai e kakaí ʻoku nau loto hohaʻa pe aʻusia e ngaahi palopalema ʻoku fekauʻaki mo e loto tailiilí. ʻOku nau faʻa feinga ke fufuuʻi ia. ʻOku nau fakaʻehiʻehi ai mei he feohi mo e niʻihi kehé pe liʻaki lotu. Ko e founga ʻeni te ke lava ai tokoniʻi kinautolú.
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Tokoni ke mahino kiate kinautolu ʻoku tatau pē. Ko e kakai ko ia ʻoku fefaʻuhi mo e loto tailiilí, ko ha kakai angamaheni pē kinautolu ʻoku nau tali ʻi ha founga mahino ki ha ngaahi tui, fakakaukau pe ongoʻi manavasiʻi.
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Feinga ke ʻoua te ke loto fakamaau. Ko e loto tailiilí ʻoku ʻikai ko ha tōnounou ia ʻi he tokotahá. ʻOku hanga ʻe hono aʻusia e loto tailiili angamahení, ʻo fakahaaʻi ʻoku tau tokanga ki he meʻa ʻoku tau hohaʻa ki aí. Ko ha founga lelei ʻo e vakai ki he kakai ʻoku fekuki mo e loto tailitilí ko e: ʻoku fuʻu tōtuʻa ʻenau tokangá.
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Ongoʻi fakaʻofaʻia ai. Talanoa mahino. Fakafanongo pea mahino kiate koe e ngaahi ongo ʻoku nau maʻú, fakahoungaʻi e ʻuhinga ʻoku nau faingataʻaʻia aí, pea fakahoko ange meʻa ʻoku mahino kiate koé. Ko e ongoʻi fakaʻofaʻia aí, ko e faleʻi lelei taha mo ʻaonga tahá ia.
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ʻOua ʻe talaange ke tuku ʻene hohaʻá. He ʻikai ke nau maʻu ha fiemālie ai. ʻOku fakahaaʻi foki ai ʻoku ʻikai mahino kiate koe e founga ʻoku hoko ai e liliú. Tokoni ke nau ʻiloʻi e meʻa te nau lava ʻo fai ki he meʻa ʻoku nau hohaʻa ki aí.
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ʻOua ʻe talaange ʻoku nau taʻemahinó. Kuo pau ke nau ʻiloʻi ʻe kinautolu e fakakaukau mo e ʻulungaanga fakatupu koví. Kapau te ke talaange ʻoku nau taʻemahino, mahalo he ʻikai toe fie vahevahe atu mo koe hono lotó pea te ne fakakaukau, “He ʻikai lava ke u talanoa mo koe. ʻOkú ke pehē ko e vale au.”
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Poupouʻi kinautolu. Fakalotolahiʻi kinautolu ke nau kumi tokoni. ʻE lava ke tokoni ʻenau pīsopé ke kumi ha taha faifaleʻi lelei. ʻI ha ʻaho palopalemaʻia pe faingataʻa, fietokoni ʻaki haʻo talaange te ke In a crisis or on a difficult day, offer to help with a difficult demand or task, such as teaching a lesson, fixing a meal, doing laundry, mowing the lawn, tending children, and so on.