Ko e hā ʻoku kei hoko ai ʻení?

Mahalo te ke ʻiloʻi hifo ʻokú ke fihia pea ʻikai lava ke fakamatalaʻi e ʻuhinga hoʻo toutou mamataʻi e ponokalafí. Mahalo kuó ke ʻosi ʻahiʻahiʻi ha ngaahi founga kehekehe ke solova ʻaki. Mahalo te ke aʻusia ha fakalakalaka ʻi ha kiʻi taimi, ka ʻokú ke kei foki pē ʻo mamataʻi e ponokalafí.

ʻE tokoni hoʻo faitotonu kiate koe mo e niʻihi kehé fekauʻaki mo hoʻo ngāue ʻaki e ponokalafí ke ke fakalakalaka ai ʻi hoʻo fononga ke liliú. Ko e founga ʻe taha ke fakahoko ai ʻení ko haʻo fakakaukauʻi fakalelei e ngaahi meʻa ʻokú ne fakaʻaiʻai koé. ʻOku ʻuhinga ʻeni ki ha faʻahinga meʻa ʻokú ne fakatupu koe ke ke fiemaʻu pe holi ke fekumi ki he ponokalafí. Hangē ko ʻení, ʻoku ongoʻi ʻe ha kakai ʻe niʻihi ʻoku fakaʻaiʻai ʻenau sio ponokalafí ʻi he hili haʻanau aʻusia ha ngaahi meʻa ne nau ongoʻi liʻekina, taʻemahuʻinga, pe ʻikai ʻofaʻi ai kinautolu.

Fakaʻaongaʻi ha ngaahi miniti siʻi ke ke fakakaukau ai mo hiki ha ngaahi meʻa naʻá ne ʻai ke ke fekumi ai ki he ponokalafí ʻi he kuohilí. Te ke lava ʻo tānaki atu ki hoʻo lisí ʻi he lahi ange e ngaahi fakakaukau te ke maʻú. ʻOku kau ʻa e ngaahi sīpinga ʻo e fakaʻaiʻaí ʻa e:

Ngaahi fakaʻaiʻai mei lotó:

• ʻItá

• Loto-mamahí pe loto-mafasiá

• Ongoʻi ʻoku ʻikai ʻofaʻí

• Mafasia ʻa e fakakaukaú

• Ta‘eoliʻia

• Loto-Hohaʻa

• Tuenoa

• Taʻemahuʻingaʻia ʻiate kita pe ongoʻi mavahe mei he ʻOtuá

• Mafasia e fakakaukaú ʻi ha meʻa fakamamahi kimuʻa pe manatuʻi ha ngaohikovia ʻi he kuohilí.

Ngaahi fakaʻaiʻai mei tuʻá:

• Faingataʻa ʻi ha vā fetuʻutaki

• Palopalema fakapa‘anga

• Palopalema fakafāmili

• Taimi pau ʻo e ʻahó pe poʻulí

• Ngaahi liliu taʻeʻamanekina ʻo e moʻuí

• Fakaʻaongaʻi pe ngāue kovi ʻaki ʻa e faitoʻo konatapú

• Vakai taʻeʻamanekina ki ha meʻa ʻokú ne fakaʻaiʻai e ongo fakasekisualé

• Ngaahi kaungāmeʻá pe ʻātakai fakafonuá

ʻI he taimi ʻokú ke ongoʻi mateuteu aí, toe vakaiʻi e fakaʻaiʻai takitaha kuó ke hikí. Te ke lava nai ʻo fakafehokotaki ʻa e fakaʻaiʻai ko ʻení ki ha meʻa pau ʻi he kuohilí naʻá ke tafoki ai ki he ponokalafí ke maʻu ha fakafiemālie pe ke hanganoa ai? Te ke lava nai ʻo fakatokangaʻi ha faʻahinga sīpinga ʻi hoʻo tōʻonga he kuohilí? Kapau ʻokú ke toe ʻi ha tūkunga tatau, ko e hā te ke lava ʻo fai ʻi ha founga kehe? Hangē ko ʻení, ʻoku ʻi ai nai ha kaungāmeʻa falalaʻanga, mēmipa ʻo e fāmilí, pe tokoni te ke lava ʻo fetuʻutaki ki ai, kae ʻikai fekumi ki he ponokalafí? Te ke lava ʻo talanoa kiate ia fekauʻaki mo e ongo ʻokú ke maʻú, pe ko hoʻomo pōtalanoa pē. ʻOku kau ʻi he ngaahi fakakaukau kehé ʻa e ʻekitivitī fakatuʻasinó, fanongo ki he mūsiká, tohi ʻi ha tohinoa pe lau ha tohi, pe fai ha ngāue tokoni ki ha taha kehe.

ʻE lava ke hoko ʻa e founga ko ʻení ko ha fakalakalaka ke fakatauʻatāinaʻi ai koe mei he ngaahi tōʻonga naʻá ne fakamahino ho tuʻunga he kuohilí. Mahalo naʻe ʻikai te ke fakakaukau ʻi he kuohilí ki he taimi mo e ʻuhinga naʻá ke tafoki ai ki he ponokalafí. Mahalo naʻá ke fakatonuhiaʻi hoʻo tōʻongá pe tukuakiʻi ha kakai, feituʻu, pe ngaahi meʻa kehe. Ka te ke lava he taimí ni ʻo kamata ke fatongia ʻaki hoʻo ngaahi angafaí, neongo ʻe fie maʻu ke ke tala moʻoni ha ngaahi meʻa fakamamahi, fakamā, pe faingataʻa. ʻE hanga foki ʻe hoʻo faitotonu kiate koe mo e niʻihi kehé fekauʻaki mo hoʻo ngāue ʻaki ʻo e ponokalafí, ʻo fakaava ho lotó ki hono maʻu ha tokoni mei hoʻo Tamai Hēvaní mo e Fakamoʻuí pea ʻe teuteuʻi ai koe ke ke ʻiloʻi ʻa e ngaahi fakakaukau ʻe iku ki he fakatomalá mo e fakamoʻuí.

Fai ha Ngāue

• Sivisiviʻi ha niʻihi ʻo e ngaahi fakakaukau ʻokú ke maʻu fekauʻaki mo koé. Ko e fē ʻi he ngaahi fakakaukau ko ʻení ʻoku fenāpasi mo e ngaahi moʻoni ʻo e ongoongoleleí? Ko e fē ʻi he ngaahi fakakaukau ko ʻení ʻoku ʻikai ʻaupito ke moʻoní?

• Aleaʻi mo ho malí, ongomātuʻá, pe ko ha tokotaha poupou ʻoku tāú ʻa e tōʻonga fakasekisuale ʻoku leleí. ʻE ala tokoni foki ke talanoa mo ha tokotaha ki he moʻui lelei fakaeʻatamaí pe taha fakafaitoʻo fakapalōfesinale ʻoku tatau hoʻomo ngaahi tuʻunga ʻulungaanga mahuʻingá.

• Kapau kuó ke ʻosi mali, talanoa mo ho malí fekauʻaki mo e meʻa ʻokú ne aʻusia tuʻunga ʻi hoʻo ngāue ʻaki ʻa e ponokalafí. ʻE lava ke mahuʻinga mo ʻaonga kiate koe mo ho malí ke mo fevahevaheʻaki ʻa e ongo ʻokú mo fakatou maʻú.