Ngaahi Tefitoʻi Moʻoni ʻo e Ngāue Fakaetauhí
Ngāue Fakaetauhi kiate Kinautolu ʻOku Faingataʻaʻia Fakaemoʻui Leleí
Te tau lava ʻo hoko ko e toʻukupu ʻo e Fakamoʻuí ke hoko ko ha fakafiemālie mo ha tokoni.
ʻE lava ke uesia ʻe he mahamahakí, faingataʻaʻia fakaesinó, pe taʻu motuʻá ʻa e malava ʻa ha mēmipa ke moihū pe tokoní. Kapau ʻoku tokanga e kau tangata mo e kau fefine ngāue fakaetauhí ki he ngaahi fiemaʻu ko ʻení, ʻoku lahi ha ngaahi founga ke tokoni ai ki he kau mēmipa ʻoku nau maʻu ha ngaahi faingataʻaʻia fakatuʻasino, ke tupulaki ange ai ʻenau fiefia ʻi he ngaahi tāpuaki ʻo e ongoongoleleí.
Hili hano ʻilo ʻoku maʻu ʻe ha faʻē kei siʻi ʻe he kanisaá, naʻá ne ongoʻi tuenoa mo manavasiʻi ʻaupito. Ka ʻi he mafola e ongoongo ʻo ʻene puké ʻi honau uōtí, naʻe vave hano takatakai ia ʻe he ʻofa mo e tokanga ʻo ʻenau kau fineʻofá. ʻI he kamata hono ngaahi faitoʻo faingataʻá, ne ʻave ia ʻe he kau fineʻofá ki heʻene ngaahi ʻapoinimení mo tangutu mo ia lolotonga e ngaahi taimi faitoʻo kimó. Ne nau lotu fakataha mo ia, poupouʻi ia, ʻoange e fanga kiʻi meʻakai naʻá ne lava ʻo kai, mo ʻave ha ngaahi houa meʻatokoni ki hono fāmilí ʻi ha ngaahi uike lahi. Ne fakaʻaongaʻi ʻe he kau fineʻofa kehé ha taimi mei heʻenau moʻui femoʻuekiná ke fakamaʻa hono ʻapí. Ne ʻilo ʻe ha fineʻofa ʻe taha ha ngaahi faitoʻo pau ʻe faingataʻa ai ʻene mohé, ko ia naʻá ne palaniʻi leva ke ʻaʻahi ki ai ke na sio faiva ʻi he poʻulí. Makehe mei heʻene tokoto mohenga peé, ne lava ke tukunoaʻi ʻe he faʻē kei siʻi ko ʻení e manavasiʻí ʻi ha kiʻi vahaʻataimi mo ongoʻi e mālohi faifakamoʻui ʻo e kakatá mo e feohi fakakaumeʻá. Koeʻuhí ko e ngaahi ngāue fakaetauhi, ngaahi tāpuaki lakanga fakataulaʻeiki mo e ʻaukai fakauooti ko ʻení, naʻá ne makātakiʻi ai ha taimi mātuʻaki faingataʻa, pea ne tupulaki ha ngaahi haʻi mālohi ʻo e ʻofá ʻi he kotoa ʻo kinautolu ne kau ki aí.
ʻOku ʻikai faingofua maʻu pē ʻa e ngāue fakaetauhi kiate kinautolu ʻoku moʻua ha ngaahi faingataʻaʻia fakaemoʻui leleí. Ka ʻe lava ke tau muimui he sīpinga ʻa e Fakamoʻuí ʻi he alanima atu ki hotau kāingá ʻi he ʻofa ʻi he taimi ʻoku hoko ai e ngaahi faingataʻá. ʻE lava ke tau hoko ko Hono toʻukupú ke fakafiemālieʻi mo tokoniʻi ʻa kinautolu ʻoku tau feohí, kau ai ʻa kinautolu ʻoku teʻeki lava ke tau sio ki honau ngaahi faingataʻaʻiá.
Ngaahi Meʻa ke Fakakaukau ki aí
1. Fakaʻapaʻapaʻi ʻenau moʻui fakatāutahá. ʻOku ʻi ai ha kakai ʻe niʻihi ʻoku mā ʻi he ngaahi palopalema fakaemoʻui lelei mahalo he ʻikai te ke teitei tokanga koe ki aí. ʻEke maʻu pē pe ʻe SAI pē ke vahevahe honau tūkungá mo e niʻihi kehé peá ke toki fai ia.
2. Poupouʻi e tuʻunga tokangaekina fakafaitoʻo angamahení. Fakaʻehiʻehi mei hano tuʻuaki ange ha ngaahi faitoʻo pe founga fakafaitoʻo ʻoku teʻeki fakaʻatā pe ʻi tuʻa mei he founga tokangaeikina fakafaitoʻo angamahení. Vahevahe hoʻo ngaahi fakakaukaú mo e aʻusiá ʻi hano ueʻi fakalaumālie koe, kae poupouʻi e niʻihi kehé ke fakahoko ʻenau fekumi pē ʻanautolú pea ke talanoa ki ha kau palōfesinale fakafaitoʻo.
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3. Tokoniʻi mo lotua kinautolu. ʻI he taimi ʻoku fehangahangai ai e kakaí mo ha ngaahi palopalema fakataimi angamaheni pe ko ha ngaahi tūkunga mahino hangē ko e fāʻelé pe tafa fakafaitoʻó, ʻoku fakahaaʻi ʻe hoʻo tokoní, meʻatokoní, angaʻofá mo e lotú hoʻo tokangá. ʻI ha tūkunga fakavavevave, ʻe lava ke mahuʻinga hoʻo loto-fiemālie ke tokoni he taimi pē ko iá.
4. Tokoni ke fakamālohia kinautolu. Tautautefito ki he kakai ʻoku nau fehangahangai mo ha ngaahi palopalema lahi pe taimi fuoloá, ʻoku nau fie maʻu ha meʻa lahi ange ʻi hoʻo tokoní pē, ʻo hangē ko e mahuʻinga ʻo e ngaahi meʻa ko iá. Mahalo foki te nau fie maʻu tokoni hono ako ke fakahoko e ngaahi meʻa ko ʻení maʻanautolú:
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ʻIloʻi ʻenau ngaahi fiemaʻú. Ko e hā ʻoku nau ʻilo he taimí ni fekauʻaki mo honau tūkungá? Ko e hā ʻenau ongo ki aí? Ko e hā e ngaahi meʻa ʻoku nau hohaʻa mo tokanga ki ai he taimí ni mo e kahaʻú? Fakafanongo ʻi he angaʻofa pea ʻi he loto taʻe fakamaau ke tokoniʻi kinautolu ke nau fehangahangai mo e meʻa ʻoku moʻoní.
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Manatuʻi e ngaahi mālohia ko ʻení. ʻEke ange ha ngaahi faingataʻa kehe kuo nau fehangahangai mo ia pea mo e meʻa ne nau ako mei he ngaahi aʻusia ko iá. Fakamahinoʻi ange ha ngaahi ʻulungaanga lelei, ngaahi tuʻunga moʻui mo ha ngaahi pōtoʻi ngāue kuó ke fakatokangaʻi ʻoku nau maʻu. Fehuʻi ange pe ko e hā e ngaahi tuʻunga mahuʻinga fakataautaha ʻoku mahuʻinga taha kiate kinautolu ke moʻui ʻaki ʻi he tūkunga foʻou ko ʻení. Te nau moʻui fēfē ʻaki e ngaahi tuʻunga moʻui ko ʻeni?
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Faʻu ha palani. Ko e hā e ngaahi fili ʻoku fie maʻu ke fakahoko vavé, pea ko e hā ha fakamatala kehe ʻoku nau fie maʻu ke fakahoko e ngaahi fili ko iá? Ko e hā e ngaahi fiemaʻu pe maʻuʻanga tokoni ʻoku nau fie maʻu he taimi ko iá pea ko e hā te nau fie maʻu ʻi he fononga lōloá? Ko e hā e ngaahi fili ʻoku nau vakai ki aí? Ko e hā e ngaahi lelei mo e kovi ʻo e meʻa takitaha?
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Fokotuʻutuʻu ʻenau timí. Ko hai ʻe lava ʻo tokoní? ʻOku maʻu ʻe he fāmili tonú ʻa e ʻuluaki fatongia ke tokoní, ka ʻe lava ke kau e kāinga ofí, ngaahi kaungāmeʻá, kau mēmipa kehe ʻo e uōtí, kau palōfesinale fakaemoʻui leleí, ngaahi tokoni fakaetokolahi ʻoku ʻataá, ko koe mo ho hoá, pea mo e Laumālie Māʻoniʻoní ʻi heʻenau timí. ʻI heʻene leleí pea ʻi heʻenau fakangofua atú, fakakau atu e palesiteni ʻo e Fineʻofá mo e palesiteni ʻo e kōlomu ʻo e kaumātuʻá ʻi he tokoni kiate kinautolú ke nau ʻilo e founga ʻe lava ke ke tokoni ai mo e kau mēmipa kehé pea mo e ngaahi maʻuʻanga tokoni ʻa e Siasí.
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Fakaafeʻi ʻa e Laumālié. Lotu fakataha mo kinautolu pea mo lotua kinautolu, ʻo fakaafeʻi e ʻEikí ke ne fakapapauʻi mo tākiekina ʻenau ngaahi filí mo tokoniʻi kinautolu ke nau ongoʻi ʻEne ʻofá.