“4: My Foundation: Use Time Wisely,” Finding Strength in the Lord: Emotional Resilience (2020)
“4: My Foundation: Use Time Wisely,” Finding Strength in the Lord: Emotional Resilience
My Foundation: Use Time Wisely—Maximum Time: 20 Minutes
Ponder:
Why is time one of God’s greatest gifts?
Watch:
“The Gift of Time,” available at https://churchofjesuschrist.org/study/video/self-reliance-videos [2:27]. (No video? Read the transcript for “The Gift of Time.”)
The Gift of Time
If you are unable to watch the video, choose roles and read this script.
Kofi: Hello, Sister Benkosi. How are you?
Sister Benkosi: Are you okay, Kofi?
Kofi: Oh, Sister Benkosi. I’m so busy. I have to work and serve and help my family … and then my football too. I have no time!
Sister B.: Kofi, you have all the time there is.
Kofi: What?
Sister B.: My boy, God has given us a great gift—our time. We must do with it what matters most.
Kofi: But how, Sister Benkosi? You have always done so much. You have succeeded with your family, with your business. You have served and blessed many, like me. I don’t know how you do it.
Sister B.: Do you really want to know? If you will sit still and listen, I will tell you my secret.
Every morning I rise before the sun. I dress and wash my face and hands.
I read the scriptures. Then I make a list of what I should do that day.
I think of who I might serve. I pray to know God’s will. And I listen.
Sometimes the names or faces of people come to mind. I add them to my list.
Kofi: Is that how you always know just who needs your service?
Sister B.: Yes, Kofi. And I pray for strength and wisdom. I pray that God will “consecrate [my] performance.” It says that in 2 Nephi 32.
I thank Him. I promise to do my best. I ask that He will do what I cannot.
Then I look at my list. I put a 1 by the most important thing, then a 2.
Kofi: How do you know the priorities?
Sister B.: I listen when I pray! Then I go to work. I look at number 1 and try to do it first, then number 2.
Sometimes things change. The Holy Ghost tells me to do something else. That is good.
I work very hard, but I have peace. I know God will help me.
So, with my list and the Spirit, I do what matters, Kofi.
Kofi: That sounds simple and hard at the same time.
Sister B.: You are right! When I finally prepare for bed, I pray. I report to Heavenly Father. I tell Him how the day went. I ask questions. I ask what I can do better. I listen. I often feel His love. I know He magnifies what I try to do. Then I have peace, Kofi, and I sleep.
Kofi: That is good, Mamma Benkosi. I want this peace. I want to use my time. I want to work and serve better.
Discuss:
What did you learn from Sister Benkosi in the video?
Read:
The following scripture passage and statements by Church leaders:
“For behold, this life is the time for men to prepare to meet God; yea, behold the day of this life is the day for men to perform their labors” (Alma 34:32).
“Time is all the capital stock there is on the earth. … If properly used, it brings that which will add to your comfort, convenience, and satisfaction. Let us consider this, and no longer sit with hands folded, wasting time” (Brigham Young, in Discourses of Brigham Young, sel. John A. Widtsoe [1954], 214).
“We easily can be overcome by the routine and mundane matters of mortality. Sleeping, eating, dressing, working, playing, exercising, and many other customary activities are necessary and important. But ultimately, what we become is the result of our knowledge of and willingness to learn from the Father, the Son, and the Holy Ghost; it is not merely the sum total of our daily pursuits over the course of a lifetime” (David A. Bednar, “Exceeding Great and Precious Promises,” Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2017, 93).
Commit:
I will practice these steps every day to use my time more wisely, and I will report each night to Heavenly Father in my prayers.