Prabhu Chahata hai ki Hum Unke Haath Bane
Aatmatyagi hona aur dusre par gaor karna sachcha Isai sewa hai.
“Ek dusre se pyaar karna; jaise ki Main aapko pyaar karta hoon.”1 Unke mahaan praeshchit balidaan se kuch ghante pahale ye Ishu ke shabd the—ek balidaan jo Elder R. Holland ne samjhaya jaise ki “ek mahan vishwarup sachcha pyaar ka jo is duniya ki ithihaas mein pramanit kiya gaya hai.”2
Ishu ne sirf hume pyaar karna nahi sikhlaya, magar Usne jo sikhlaya Usne jiya. Unke prachaar ke daoraan, Ishu “achche kaarye karte gaye” 3 aur “vinnti kiya ki sab Unki uddharan ka paalan karein.” 4 Usne sikhlaya, “Kyunki jo koi apna praan bachana chahega wah use khoega: parantu jo koi mere liye apna praan khoega, wahi use bachaega.”5
Pradhaan Thomas S. Monson, jisne pyaar ka aagya ko samjha aur jiya, ne kaha: “Main vishwaas karta hoon ki Uddhaarkarta ne humko batlaya hai ki jab tak hum apne aap ko dusro ki sewa karne mein kho na de, humare jiwan ka koi mol nahi hoga. Jo log apne liye jite anth mei murjha jaate hai … apne jiwan ko kho dete hai, aur weh jo apne aap ko dusro ki sewa mei kho dete hain badhte aur tarakki karte hai—aur apne jiwan ko bacha lete hain.”6
Aatmatyagi hona aur dusre par gaor karna sachcha Isai sewa hai. Ek mahila jo apne beemar pati ka dekhbhaal karti thi ne samjhaya, “Ye mat sochna ki tumhara kaarye ek bojh hai; ye sochiye ki wah ek mauka hai sachcha pyaar sikhne ke liye.” 7
BYU ki dhaarmik sabha mein bhaashan dete hue, Bahan Sondra D. Heaston ne pucha: “Kaisa hota agar hum dusre ki hirday mei dekh sakte? Kya hum ek dusre ko achche se samajh payenge? Dusre ki bhavna ko mehsoos kar sakte, dekh sakte jo dusre dekhte hai, aur sun sakte jo dusre sun sakte hai, kya hum bana sakte, aur le sakte, jo mauke dusre ko sewa karne mein, aur kya hum unko alag se pesh ate? Kya hum unse aur dhaerye se, aur dayalu se, aur sahanshilta se pesh ate?”
Bahan Heaston ne ek anubhav batlaya jab unhonne ek Jawan Mahilaaon ke camp mein sewa ki. Usne kaha:
“Hamare ek … dhaarmik sabha ke bhaashankarta…ne humko ‘kaise banna hai’ sikhlaya. Unki yeh kehna … tha, ‘Waisa bano jo dusro ke paas pahuchta hai aur dusro ko sewa karta hai—aaine ko fenk kar khidki se dekho.’
“Isko pradarshan karne mein, usne ek jawaan mahilaa ko aage bulaya aur usse kaha ki woh uski oar dekh ke kadha rahe. [Usne] tab ek aaina liya aur jawaan mahilaa aur apne beech mein rakha taaki woh, [bhashankarta], aaina par dekhti rahi jab ki woh koshish karein jawaan mahilaa se baate karne mein. Ashchaaryejanaak rup se nahi, woh namumkin se ek prabhavak ya imaandaar baatchit hue. Yeh ek zordaar shikshan hai jo samjhate hai ki kitna mushkil hai dusre se baate karna aur sewa karna agar hum sirf apne aap ko chintat karte aur khudh apne aap ko dekhte hai aur hamare zaroorato ko. [Usne] phir shishe ko dur rakha, ek khidki ki banawaat ko nikala, aur apne chehre aur jawaan mahilaa ke chehre ke beech mein rakha. … Hum ne yeh dekh paaya ki jawaan mahilaa ne usme dhyaan lagaaya dekhne mein aur yeh hai ki sachcha sewa chahate ki hum dusre ki zarooraton aur bhaavnaaon par dhyaan lagaaye. Zyaada samay hum apne baare mein aur apni khudh jeevan ki vyastata par chintit rehte—jaise ki hum aaine mein dekhte hai mauka ke liye sewa karne mein—jo hum achche se nahi dekh paaye sewa ki khidki mein.”8
Pradhaan Monson ne humko kai baar yaad dilaaya ki hamare “aas paas woh log hai jinhe hamare dhyaan, hamare protsaahan, hamare sahayta, hamare sahanubhuti, hamare daya ki zaroorat hai—chaahe woh parivaar ki sadasye, dost, jaan pehchaan waale, ya ajnabi.” Usne kaha, “Hum yaha dharti par Prabhu ke haath hai, aur humko aadesh diya hai ki humko sewa karna hai aur Unke bachcho ko madad karna. Woh hum sab ka sahara chahata hai.”9
Pichle saal January mein, Friend aur Liahonake meqazin ne nimantran diya duniya bhar ke bachcho ko ki weh Pradhaan Monson ke updesh ka paalan kare—ki Prabhu ka haath bano. Bachcho ko nimantran diya gaya hai ki weh sewa ki kaarye ko karein—bade aur chote. Unko protsaahit kiya gaya hai ki woh apne haathon ko ek pepar par treis karein, kaatein, waha likhe jo sewa usne kiya, aur megazin par bheje. Bahut se log jo aaj raat sunn rahe hai shayaad un hazaaro bachcho mein se hai jinhonne dayalu sewa kiya tha aur bheja tha. 10
Jab bachche chote se pyaar aur dusre ko sewa karna sikhte hai, woh ek sewa ki aabhyas ko shuru karte hai apne jiwanon mein. Aksar bachche hum sab ko sikhate hai ki pyaar ko dikhane mein aur sewa karne mein utna badha nahi hona chahiye aur prabhaoshaali bhi matlab aur fark laane ke liye.
Ek praathmik adhyapika ne yeh uddhaaran ko batlaya. “Aaj,” usne kaha, “hamare paanch-aur che-saal ke bachcho ne pyaar ka maala banaya. Har ek bachche ne pepar mein tazveer banayi: apne liye, ek Ishu ke liye, aur kai apne parivaar ke sadasye ke liye aur priyejan ke liye. Humne pepar ke strip ko gola mein glu kiya jo dusre par dekh sakte chain ko banane mein taaki hum pyaar ka maala bana sakein. Jaise ki weh bana rahe the, bachche apne parivaaron ke baare mein bata rahe the.
“Heather ne kaha, “Mujhe lagta hai ki meri bahan mujhse pyaar nahi karti hai. Hum hamesha ladhte rahate hain. … Main apne aap se nafrat karti hoon. Mera jiwan bura hai.’ Aur usne apne sir ko apne haathon mein rakha.
“Mainne uski parivaar ki paristhiti ko socha aur mehsoos kiya ki shaayad uska jeevan sachmuch kathin hai. Baad mein jab Heather ne yeh batlaya, Anna, jo table ke dusri taraf baethi thi, ne kaha, ‘Heather, main apko apne maale mei rakhungi mere aur Ishu ke beech mein kyunki Woh tumko pyaar karta hai aur main bhi tumko pyaar karti hoon.’
“Jab Anna ne aisa kaha, Heather ne table ke niche se jaa kar Anna ko gale laga diya.
“Kaksha ke baad, jab uski nani usko lene aayi, Heather ne kaha, ‘Jaanti ho, Nani? Ishu mujhe pyaar karta hai.’”
Jab hum chote se chote tarike ke pyaar aur sewa se dusro ki or badhte hai, hirday badalte hai aur komal ho jaate hai jab log Prabhu ke pyaar ko mehsoos karte hain.
Kabhi-kabhi, kyunki hamare aas paas itne saare zarooratmand hai jinhe madad aur sahayta ki chahiye bojh se, bahut kathin ho sakta hai un kayi zarooraton ko pura karna.
Bahanon, tum mein se kai jo sunte hai mehsoos karoge ki aap sab kuch kar rahe hai jo aap mumkin kar sakte tumhari parivaar sadasyon ki dekh rekh mein jo zarooratmand hai. Yaad rakhiye, un aam aur aksar saadharan kaaryon mein, tum “apne Parmeshwaar ki sewa mein hote ho.”11
Aap me se kai ek khaalipan mehsoos kar rahe honge jo aapke padosi ya samaaj mei dusro ke dukh ko hatane ke mauke dhoondhne se bharega.
Hum sab kuch sewa kar sakte hai hamare roz ki jeevan mein. Hum ek vivaadpurn duniya mein rehte hai. Hum sewa karte hai jab hum dosh nahi nikalte hai, jab hum buraai ko inkaar karte, jab hum anumaan lagana band karte hai, jab hum muskuraate, jab hum dhanyevaad kahate, aur jab hum dhaerye aur dayalu hote hai.
Dusre tarike ki sewa samay leti hai, pure taur se tayyaari karna, aur adhik shakti. Magar woh hamare har koshish ke layaak hai. Shayaad hum shuruaat se apne aap se yeh sawaal puch sakte hai:
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Mere nazdeeki taur par kaun hai jise mai aaj madad kar sakta hoon?
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Mere paas kitna samay aur saadhan hai?
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Mai dusro ke ashis ke liye apni yogyta aur kaabiliyat kis tarah istemaal kar sakti hoon?
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Ek parivaar ki tarah hum kya kar sakte hai?
Pradhaan Dieter F. Uchtdorf ne sikhlaya:
“Aap woh kijiye…jo Maseeh ke chelo ne kiya hai har yug mein: saath mein salaah karna, sab saadhan ko istemaal karna jo moujood tha, Pavitra Aatma ki prerna ko dhoondhna, Prabhu se Unki pushti puchna, aur phir kaam par lag jaana.
“Main aapko vaada karta hoon,” usne kaha. “Agar aap is tarike ko apnaaoge, aap ko khaas nirdeshan milega kaun, kya, kab, aur kahake baare mein taaki Prabhu ke tarike se pradaan kar sako.”12
Jab kabhi main sochta hoon ki kaisa hoga jab Uddharkarta phir se aayenga, main Unka bhent Nephites par sochta hoon jab Usne pucha:
“Tum mein kya koi aisa bhi hai jo beemaar hai? Use yaha laao. Tumhare paas koi langda, andha, ya pangu jo nirbaal ho chuka ho, ya behra, ya kisi bhi prakaar ke kasht mein hai? Unhe yaha laao aur main unhe theek karunga, kyunki tum par main daya karta hoon; mera pyaala daya se bhar chuka hai. …
“ … [Uddhaarkarta ne] sab ko theek kiya.” 13
Ab ke liye Weh hume unka haath banne ke liye adesh karte hain.
Mai ab jaan paayi hoon ki Parmeshwar aur padosi ka pyaar humare jiwan ko arth deta hai. Hum Udhaarkarta ke misaal aur agya par chale ki hum sabhi ki or pyaar se bade.
Main Pradhaan Henry B.Eyring ke vaade ki sachchai ki gawahi deti hoon “agar [hum] istemaal karein[apni] taufe ko dusre ke liye sewa karne mein, [hum] Prabhu ka pyaar mehsoos karenge us vyakti ke liye. [Hum] uski pyaar ko bhi mehssos karenge [hamare] liye.” 14 Ishu Maseeh ke naam se, amen.
Vivran: April 2, 2016 ko, Bahan Esplin ko Praathmik maha adhyakshta ke pehli salaahkaar ki niyukt se mukt kiya gaya tha.