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“Ko Hono Fakatupulaki ha Ngaahi Vā Fetuʻutaki ʻOku Leleí,” Tokāteline mo e Ngaahi Fuakava – Tohi Lēsoni ʻa e Faiako Seminelí
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Ko Hono Fakatupulaki ha Ngaahi Vā Fetuʻutaki ʻOku Leleí
Ko Hono Fokotuʻu ha Ngaahi Fehokotaki Mālohi mo e Fāmilí mo e Ngaahi Kaungāmeʻá
ʻOku finangalo ʻa e Tamai Hēvaní ke tau ʻofa ʻiate Ia mo e niʻihi ʻoku tau feohí. ʻI heʻetau fakatupulaki ha fehokotaki vāofi mo e fāmilí mo e ngaahi kaungāmeʻá, ʻe lava ke tāpuekina kitautolu ʻaki ʻa e fiemālie, mālohi, mo e poupou ʻoku fiemaʻú lolotonga e taimi nongá mo e faingataʻá fakatouʻosi. ʻE lava ke tokoni ʻa e lēsoni ko ʻení ki he kau akó ke nau fekumi ki he tokoni ʻa e ʻEikí ke fokotuʻu ha ngaahi vā fetuʻutaki ʻoku tokoni ki heʻenau moʻui lelei fakalūkufuá mo e tuʻunga leleí.
Ngaahi ʻEkitivitī Ako ʻOku Ala Fakahokó
Ko e hā ʻa e meʻa ʻoku mahuʻinga tahá?
Fakakaukau ke fakaafeʻi e kau akó ke nau hiki ʻi he palakipoé ʻa e ngaahi meʻa ʻoku nau ongoʻi ʻoku mahuʻinga taha ʻi he moʻuí.
Fakaʻaliʻali ʻa e fakamatala ko ʻení pea fakaafeʻi ha tokotaha ako ke ne lau ia.
Naʻe akonaki ʻa Palesiteni Tieta F. ʻUkitofa, ʻi heʻene kei ʻi he Kau Palesitenisī ʻUluakí, fekauʻaki mo e meʻa ʻoku mahuʻinga tahá:
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ʻI heʻetau tafoki ki he Tamai Hēvaní mo fekumi ki Hono potó ʻi he ngaahi meʻa mahuʻinga tahá, ʻoku tau toutou ako ai hono mahuʻinga ʻo e tefitoʻi vā fetuʻutaki ʻe faá: mo hotau ʻOtuá, mo hotau ngaahi fāmilí, mo hotau kāingá, pea mo kitautolu pē. (Dieter F. Uchtdorf, “ʻO e Meʻa Mahuʻinga Tahá ,” Liahona , Nōvema 2010, 21)
Fakaafeʻi ʻa e kau akó ke siakaleʻi ʻa e ngaahi kupuʻi lea naʻa nau tohi ʻi he palakipoé ʻokú ne fakahaaʻi ko hotau vā fetuʻutaki mo e ʻOtuá mo e niʻihi kehé ʻoku kau ia ʻi he ngaahi meʻa ʻoku mahuʻinga taha ʻi he moʻuí. Kapau ʻe fiemaʻu, tānaki atu “ko hotau vā fetuʻutaki mo e ʻOtuá mo e niʻihi kehé” ki he lisi ʻi he palakipoé.
Fakamatalaʻi ange ʻe nofotaha ʻa e lēsoni ko ʻení ʻi hotau ngaahi vā fetuʻutaki mo e niʻihi kehé. Fakaafeʻi e kau akó ke nau fakakaukau ki ha niʻihi ʻo honau ngaahi vā fetuʻutaki lolotongá pea fakakaukau pe ʻoku ʻomi nai kinautolu ʻe he ngaahi vā fetuʻutaki ko ʻení ke nau ofi ange ki he ʻOtuá mo ʻoange kiate kinautolu ʻa e mālohi mo e poupou ʻoku nau fiemaʻu ʻi heʻenau moʻuí. Te nau lava foki ʻo fakalaulauloto ki he founga ʻe ala finangalo ai e ʻEikí ke nau fakamālohia ʻa e ngaahi vā fetuʻutaki lolotongá pe fakatupulaki ha ngaahi vā fetuʻutaki foʻou.
Tufa ʻa e laʻipepa tufa ko e “Ngaahi Sīpinga ʻo e Ngaahi Vā Fetuʻutaki Mahuʻingamālie ʻi he Hisitōlia ʻo e Siasí mo e Tokāteline mo e Ngaahi Fuakavá,” pea fakaafeʻie kau akó ke nau kumi ha fakamoʻoni ʻo e moʻoni ko ʻení: Ko e founga ʻe taha ʻe lava ke tāpuekina ai ʻe he ʻOtuá ʻetau moʻuí mo fakamālohia ʻetau tuí ʻoku fakafou ia ʻi ha ngaahi vā fetuʻutaki mahuʻingamālie mo e niʻihi kehé. (Mahalo te ke fiemaʻu ke hiki ʻa e moʻoni ko ʻení ʻi he palakipoé.)
Fakakaukau ki ha ngaahi founga ke tokoniʻi ai ʻa e kau akó ke nau fakaʻaongaʻi ʻa e laʻipepa tufá. Ko e founga ʻe taha ko hono fokotuʻutuʻu kinautolu ki ha ngaahi kulupu tautau toko tolu pea vahe ki he mēmipa takitaha ʻo e kulupú ke nau ako ha taha ʻo e ngaahi sīpinga ʻi he laʻipepa tufá. ʻI he ʻosi hono ako ʻe he kau akó ʻenau sīpingá, poupouʻi kinautolu ke nau taufetongi ʻi hono vahevahe mo ʻenau kulupú ʻa e meʻa ne nau ako fekauʻaki mo e founga ʻe lava ke tāpuekina ai kitautolu ʻe he ʻOtuá ʻo fakafou ʻi hotau ngaahi vā fetuʻutaki mo e niʻihi kehé.
Hili ʻa e ʻaʻahi ʻa Siosefa Sāmita ki he Moʻunga ko Komolá ʻi Sepitema 1823, naʻá ne vahevahe ha ngaahi fakaikiiki fekauʻaki mo ʻene aʻusiá pea mo e ʻaʻahi ʻa e ʻāngelo ko Molonaí ki hono fāmilí. Naʻe hokohoko atu hono vahevahe ʻe Siosefa ʻene ngaahi aʻusiá mo e mata meʻa-hā-maí mo kinautolu naʻe ofi taha kiate iá. ʻI he manatu ʻa e faʻē ʻa e Palōfitá ko Lusi Meki Sāmita ki he ngaahi aʻusia toputapú ni, naʻá ne hiki ai ʻa e ngaahi meʻá ni:
Naʻá ma fakatahatahaʻi ʻema fānaú ʻi he efiafi kotoa pē. Te u pehē na‘a mau hoko ko ha fāmili mātu‘aki makehe ‘i ha toe fāmili kuo faifaiangé pea mo‘ui ‘i māmaní, ‘o tangutu fuopotopoto kotoa, ‘a e tangata‘eikí, fine‘eikí, ngaahi foha, mo e ngaahi ‘ofefiné kotoa ‘o fanongo fakalongolongo mo tokanga ki he ngaahi akonaki fakalotu ‘a ha tamasi‘i. …
… Na‘e nofo‘ia ‘e he feohi‘anga lelei mo fakafiefia tahá ‘a homau ‘apí. Na‘e ‘ikai ha fefūsiaki pe feta‘emahino‘aki te ne uesia ‘emau nofo nongá, pea na‘e toka ‘a e melinó ‘i homau lotolotongá. (Lucy Mack Smith, ʻi he Ngaahi Akonaki ʻa e Kau Palesiteni ʻo e Siasí: Siosefa Sāmita [2007], 563 )
Ko e hā ʻoku makehe kiate koe fekauʻaki mo e fāmili Sāmitá mei he fakamatala ko ʻení?
Naʻe tokoniʻi fēfē nai ʻa Siosefa Sāmita ʻe he ʻofa naʻá ne ongoʻi ʻi hono ʻapí ke ne fakahoko hono uiuiʻi mahuʻingá?
Ko e hā ʻokú ke ako mei he sīpinga ko ʻení fekauʻaki mo e founga ʻe lava ke tāpuekina ai koe ʻe he ʻOtuá, pe ko e founga te ke lava ai ʻo tokoniʻi ʻa e niʻihi kehé ke tāpuekina kinautolu, ʻo fakafou ʻi ha ngaahi vā fetuʻutaki ʻoku mahuʻingamālié?
Lolotonga ʻene nofo ʻi Nāvū, ʻIlinoí, naʻe fakakaukauloto ʻa Siosefa Sāmita ki he ngaahi lelei ʻo e ngaahi vā fetuʻutaki ʻoku mahuʻingamālié:
Te u lau ia ko e taha ʻo e ngaahi tāpuaki maʻongoʻonga tahá, kapau ʻe fakamamahiʻi au ʻi māmani, ‘o kapau ko hoku tufakangá ke ‘i ha feitu‘u ‘e lava ke takatakai‘i kotoa ai au ‘e hoku ngaahi tokouá mo e ngaahi kaungāme‘á. (Ngaahi Akonakí: Siosefa Sāmita , 539 )
ʻE lava fēfē ke tokoniʻi kitautolu ʻe he fāmilí mo e ngaahi kaungāmeʻá ʻi he taimi ʻoku tau aʻusia ai ha ngaahi pole faingataʻá?
Ko e hā ha ngaahi founga kehe ʻe lava ke tāpuekina ai ʻe he fāmilí mo e ngaahi kaungāmeʻá ʻetau moʻuí?
Fakaafeʻi ʻa e kau akó ke nau vahevahe mo e kalasí ʻa e meʻa ne nau akó mo e founga ʻe lava ke tāpuekina ai kitautolu ʻe he ʻOtuá ʻi hotau ngaahi vā fetuʻutakí.
Ko e hā kuó ke ako fekauʻaki mo e mahuʻinga ʻo hono fakatupulaki ha ngaahi vā fetuʻutaki mahuʻingamālie mo e niʻihi kehe ʻi hoʻo moʻuí?
ʻE uesia fēfē ʻe hono fakatupulaki mo fakamālohia ʻa e ngaahi vā fetuʻutaki mo e niʻihi kehé hotau vā fetuʻutaki mo e ʻOtuá pea pehē ki heʻetau moʻui lelei fakalūkufuá mo e tuʻunga leleí?
Ko hono fakatupulaki ʻo e vā fetuʻutakí
Mahalo te ke fie fakaʻaongaʻi ha taimi ke aleaʻi ai ʻa e ngaahi taukei ki hono fakatupulaki ʻo e vā fetuʻutakí. Fakakaukau ke ʻoange ha laʻipepa ʻoku teʻeki tohi ai ha meʻa maʻá e tokotaha ako kotoa pē. Poupouʻi kinautolu ke nau tohi ha meʻa ʻe taha pe lahi ange ʻe lava ʻo tokoni ki ha taha ke ne fakatupulaki pe fakamālohia ha vā fetuʻutaki mo ha taha kehe. Tānaki ʻa e ngaahi laʻipepá pea lau leʻolahi ia ki he kalasí. Kapau ʻe fiemaʻu, vahevahe ha niʻihi pe kotoa ʻo e ngaahi fakakaukau ko ʻení mo e kau akó.
Kumi ha faitatau ʻi he ngaahi meʻa ʻokú mo saiʻia taha aí.
Ako mo fakaʻaongaʻi ʻa e hingoa ʻo e kakaí.
Malimali.
Fakafanongo fakalelei kae lea ʻa e niʻihi kehé.
Fakalāngilangiʻi mo fakahīkihikiʻi moʻoni ʻa e kakaí.
Fakaʻehiʻehi mei hono fakamāuʻi pe kumi ha fehalaākí.
Fakahaaʻi ha tokanga moʻoni.
Lotua ʻa e kakaí ʻaki honau hingoá.
Fekumi ki he ʻofa faka-Kalaisí.
Faʻa kātaki.
Kumi ha ngaahi faingamālie ngāue tokoni.
Fakakaukau ke ʻoange ki he kau akó ha taimi ʻi he kalasí ke nau akoako fakahoko ai ha niʻihi ʻo e ngaahi taukei ko ʻeni ki hono fakatupulaki ʻo e vā fetuʻutakí. ʻE lava ke tokoni ʻa e sīpinga ko ʻení kapau ʻoku ʻikai ke feʻiloʻaki lelei ʻe he kau akó honau ngaahi hingoá. Kapau kuo ʻosi feʻilongaki hoʻo kau akó, fakakaukau ke fili ha taukei kehe ke akoako fakahoko.
Fakaʻuhingaʻí: Fakamatalaʻi ange ko hono fakaʻaongaʻi ʻa e hingoa ʻo e kakaí ko ha taukei ʻaonga ia ki hono fakatupulaki ha ngaahi vā fetuʻutaki ʻoku leleí. Fakamatalaʻi ange ʻoku ui kitautolu ʻe he ʻEikí ʻaki hotau hingoá (vakai, Sēnesi 35:10 ; Luke 19:5 ; ʻĪnosi 1:5 ; Siosefa Sāmita—Hisitōlia 1:17 ). Fakakaukau ke fehuʻi ki he kau akó pe ʻoku fēfē ʻenau ongoʻi ʻi he taimi ʻoku ʻilo mo ui ʻaki ai kinautolu ʻe he niʻihi kehé honau hingoá.
Sīpingá: Talaange ki he kau akó ʻe fakatukupaaʻi kinautolu ke nau feakoʻaki honau hingoá mo feuiʻaki honau hingoá. Fakamatalaʻi ange ko e founga ʻe taha ke manatuʻi ai ʻa e hingoa ʻo e kakaí ko hono hiki kinautolu pea toe fakamanatu kinautolu. ʻI hoʻo fakahingoa ʻa e mēmipa takitaha ʻo e kalasí, fakaafeʻi ʻa e kau akó ke hiki ha faʻahinga hingoa ne ʻikai ke nau ʻilo.
ʻE lava foki ke tokoni ke fehuʻi ki he kau akó pe ko e hā ʻa e meʻa ʻokú ne taʻofi kinautolu mei hono manatuʻi ʻo e hingoa ʻo e kakaí pea mo e founga te nau lava ai ʻo ikunaʻi ʻa e ngaahi faingataʻa ko ʻení.
Akoako Fakahoko: ʻOange ki he kau akó ha ngaahi miniti siʻi ke nau toe vakaiʻi ai ʻa e ngaahi hingoa kuo nau hikí. Tuku leva ke nau akoako fakahoko ia. ʻE lava ke ke fakatauhoa kinautolu ʻo vakai pe te nau lava ʻo ngāue fakataha ke fakahingoa ʻa e tokotaha kotoa ʻi he kalasí. Fehuʻi ange pe ko hai te ne lava ʻo fakahingoa ʻa e tokotaha kotoa pē ʻi he kalasí ʻiate kinautolu pē, pea kapau ʻe lava ʻe ha taha, fakaafeʻi kinautolu ke nau fai ia. Kapau ʻoku ʻi ai ha faingataʻa kehe ʻoku feʻunga, fakaafeʻi ʻa e kau akó ke nau liliu ʻa e feituʻu ʻoku nau tangutu aí, pea vakai pe ʻe kei lava pē ʻe he kau akó ʻo fakahingoa ʻa e tokotaha kotoa pē.
Kapau ʻoku ʻi ai ha taimi feʻunga, fili ha taukei kehe. Hangē ko ʻení, fakaafeʻi ʻa e kau akó ke nau kumi ʻa e ngaahi meʻa ʻoku nau faitatau ai mo e niʻihi kehé. Te nau lava ʻo ngāue mo ha taha ʻi he lokí ʻoku ʻikai ke nau faʻa ngāue mo ia pea feʻekeʻaki ha ngaahi fehuʻi ke ʻiloʻi ʻa e ngaahi saiʻia ʻoku nau faitatau aí. Te nau lava leva ʻo hiki ki ha tokotaha ako kehe ke toe fai ʻa e meʻa tatau. (Ke fakatahaʻi ʻa e ongo taukeí fakatouʻosi, poupouʻi ʻa e kau akó ke nau feuiʻaki honau hingoá ʻi he lolotonga ʻenau fehuʻiʻakí.)
Fakakaukau ke fakamoʻoni ki he ʻofa ʻoku maʻu ʻe he Tamai Hēvaní mo Sīsū Kalaisi ki he tokotaha ako takitaha. Fakamoʻoniʻi ange ʻe lava ʻe he ʻOtuá ʻo tāpuakiʻi mo fakamālohia ʻenau moʻuí ʻo fakafou ʻi he ngaahi vā fetuʻutaki mahuʻingamālie ʻoku nau feinga ke fakatupulaki mo tanumakí. Te ke lava foki ʻo vahevahe ha sīpinga ʻo hono tāpuekina mo fakamālohia koe ʻe ha vā fetuʻutaki ʻi hoʻo moʻuí.
Fakaafeʻi ʻa e kau akó ke nau fekumi ki he fakahinohino ʻa e Laumālie Māʻoniʻoní ke fai ʻa e ngaahi meʻá ni:
Fakakaukau ki he founga ʻe ala fie tokoniʻi ai koe ʻe he ʻEikí ke fakamālohia ha vā fetuʻutaki lolotonga pe fakatupulaki ha vā fetuʻutaki foʻou. Fakaʻaongaʻi ʻa e meʻa naʻá ke ako ʻi he ʻaho ní, faʻu ha palani ke fakaloloto hoʻo fehokotaki mo e tokotaha ko ʻení. Fakakau ʻa e founga te ke tafoki ai ki he ʻEikí ke maʻu ha tokoni ʻi he founga ko ʻení.
ʻOku ʻomi ʻe he konga ʻo e “Akó ” ʻi he vahe 8 ʻi he tohi lēsoni Ko Hono Maʻu ha Mālohi ʻi he ʻEikí: Ivi Matuʻuaki Fakaelotó (2021) ha ngaahi fakakaukau mo ha ngaahi fokotuʻu ki hono fakamālohia ʻo e ngaahi vā fetuʻutakí.
ʻOku fakatātaaʻi ʻe he foʻi vitiō “Ko e ʻOfa Tuʻuloá ” (4:16) ʻa e mahuʻinga ʻo e ʻofá mo e faʻa kātakí ʻi hotau ngaahi vā fetuʻutaki fakafāmilí.
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ʻOku fakamamafaʻi ʻe he fakamatala “Ko Hono Fakatupulaki ʻo ha Vā Fetuʻutaki ʻOku Mahuʻingamālié ” mei he Ensign (peesi 6–9) ʻo ʻAokosi 2018, ha ngaahi founga ke fokotuʻu ai ha fehokotaki ʻoku mālohi angé mo e kakai ʻi hoʻo moʻuí.
ʻOku ʻomi ʻe he ongo fakamatala “Ko e Sīpinga ʻa e Fakamoʻuí ki he Fakakaungāmeʻá ” mo e “Why We Should Stop Trying to Avoid Each Other ” mei he Liahona ʻo Tīsema 2019 (peesi 74–79) ha tokoni ki hono fakamālohia ʻo e ngaahi vā fetuʻutaki mo e niʻihi kehé mo ikunaʻi ʻa e ongoʻi tuenoá.
Naʻe fakamatala ʻa Palesiteni Tieta F. ʻUkitofa, ʻi heʻene hoko ko ha mēmipa ʻo e Kau Palesitenisī ʻUluakí, ʻo pehē:
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ʻOku tau faʻufaʻu ʻeni mo e [niʻihi kehé] ʻaki ʻa e toko taha ʻi he taimi pē ʻe taha—ʻaki ʻetau ongoʻi e ngaahi fiemaʻu ʻa e niʻihi kehé, tokoniʻi kinautolu, pea foaki hotau taimí mo e talēnití. Naʻe ongo moʻoni kiate au siʻa fefine naʻe mafasia ʻi he ngaahi palopalema ʻo e taʻu motuʻá mo e mahakí ka naʻá ne fakakaukau neongo ʻoku ʻikai ke ne lava ʻo fai ha meʻa fēfē, ʻe lava pē ke fanongo. Pea ko ia, ʻi he uike kotoa pē naʻá ne fakasio ai e kakai naʻe fotu faingataʻaʻia pe loto-foʻí, peá ne tuku hano taimi mo kinautolu, ʻo fakafanongo. Naʻá ne hoko ia ko ha tāpuaki lahi ki he moʻui ʻa ha kakai tokolahi. (Dieter F. Uchtdorf, “ʻO e Meʻa Mahuʻinga Tahá ,” Liahona , Nōvema 2010, 22)
Naʻe akoʻi ʻe Palesiteni Henelī B. ʻAealingi ʻo e Kau Palesitenisī ʻUluakí ʻo pehē:
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ʻI he ngaahi taʻu lahi kuohilí, naʻá ku tokoni ʻuluaki ai ki ha palesiteni fakavahefonua ʻi he fakahahake ʻo e ʻIunaiteti Siteití. Naʻe tuʻo lahi haʻane pehē mai kiate au ʻi heʻemau fononga meʻalele ki homau fanga kiʻi koló, “Hale, ko ʻetau fetaulaki pē mo ha taha, ʻai hoʻo fakafōtungá ke hangē pē ʻoku nau fuʻu faingataʻaʻia lahi, ʻe meimei ke tau tonu ʻi ha konga lahi.” Naʻe ʻikai ngata pē ʻi heʻene tonú, ka naʻá ku ako ʻi he fakalau ʻa e ngaahi taʻú naʻe fuʻu tō lalo ʻa ʻene fakafuofuá. (Henry B. Eyring, “Feinga, Feinga, Feinga ,” Liahona , Nōvema 2018, 90).
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ʻI hono aleaʻi ʻe he kau akó ʻa e ngaahi fakakaukau mo e taukei ke tokoniʻi kinautolu ke fakatupulaki ha ngaahi vā fetuʻutaki mahuʻingamālie mo e niʻihi kehé, fakakaukau ke huluʻi ʻa e vitiō “Improve Family Relationships by Being More Pleasant, Urged President Nelson ” (2:45). Hili ʻa e vitioó, fakaafeʻi ʻa e kau akó ke nau vahevahe ʻa e meʻa ne nau ako meia Palesiteni Lāsolo M. Nalesoni mo e toʻu tupu ʻi Palemaila, Niu ʻIoké, ʻi he senitā takimamatá.
Ko e founga ʻe taha ke fakatupu ai ha fehokotaki ʻoku mālohi angé ko e fakaʻehiʻehi mei he loto-fakamāú. Kapau ʻe ʻaonga ki he kau akó hono akoako ʻa e ngaahi taukeí ke tokoniʻi kinautolu ke nau fakaʻehiʻehi mei he fakamāú, fakakaukau ki he ʻekitivitī ko ʻení:
Fokotuʻutuʻu ʻa e kau akó ki ha fanga kiʻi kulupu iiki pea poupouʻi kinautolu ke nau fakakaukau ki ha ngaahi maʻuhala pe fakamaau ʻe ala fai ʻe he toʻu tupú fekauʻaki mo e niʻihi kehé. Fakatokanga ki he kau akó ke ʻoua te nau vakai ki ha kakai pau ʻoku nau ʻiloʻi pe ngaahi tūkunga te nau ala ʻilo ki ai. Fakaʻaliʻali ʻa e ngaahi fakamatala ko ʻení pea fakaafeʻi ʻa e kulupu takitaha ke aleaʻi ʻa e founga ʻe lava ke tokoni ai ha taha pe lahi ange ʻo e ngaahi fakamatala ko ʻení ki he toʻu tupú ke nau ikunaʻi ʻa e ʻahiʻahi ke fakamāuʻi ʻa e niʻihi kehé.
“Ko ha foha pe ʻofefine foki mo ia ʻo e Tamai Hēvaní.”
“Mahalo pē ʻoku nau fai honau lelei taha ʻoku nau lavá.”
“Mahalo pē ʻoku nau foua ha ngaahi meʻa ʻoku ʻikai ke u ʻilo ki ai.”
“ʻOku lahi ange ʻa e meʻa ʻoku tau faitatau aí ʻi heʻetau faikehekehé.”
“ʻOku ʻi ai ha ngaahi mālohinga mo e vaivaiʻanga ʻo e tokotaha kotoa pē.”
“ʻOku ʻofa ʻa e Fakamoʻuí ʻiate kinautolu pea ʻokú Ne finangalo ʻa e lelei tahá maʻanautolu.”
Hili hono aleaʻi ʻe he kau akó ʻa e ngaahi fakamatalá, fakakaukau ke fai ange ha ngaahi fehuʻi hangē ko ʻení:
ʻE tokoniʻi fēfē kitautolu ʻe he fakaʻehiʻehi mei he ʻahiʻahi ke fakamāuʻi ʻa e niʻihi kehé ke tau hoko ʻo hangē ange ko Sīsū Kalaisí?
ʻE fakamālohia fēfē hotau vā fetuʻutakí ʻi he fakakaukau lelei ki he niʻihi kehé mo fakaʻehiʻehi mei he fakamāú?
Kapau ʻe lava ke ʻaonga ki he kau akó ʻa e ako fekauʻaki mo e fakaleleiʻi ʻo e fepakipakí ʻi he founga ʻoku leleí, fakakaukau ke fakaʻaliʻali pe fakamatalaʻi fakanounou ʻa e fakamatala ko ʻení:
Ko e fetaʻemahinoʻakí mo e fetōkehekeheʻaki mo e niʻihi kehé ko ha konga fakanatula pē ia ʻo e ngaahi vā fetuʻutakí. ʻE lava ke hoko ʻeni koeʻuhí ko e ngaahi faikehekehe ʻi he tuʻunga ʻulungāngá, fakakaukaú, anga ʻo e vakaí, ngaahi fakaʻaiʻaí, mo e holí. ʻE lava ke fakamālohia ho ngaahi vā fetuʻutaki mo e niʻihi kehé ʻi hoʻo ako ke fakamatalaʻi ʻa e ngaahi faikehekehe ko ʻení ʻi ha founga lelei. …
ʻI he taimi ʻoku hoko ai ha ngaahi faikehekehe fakatāutahá, mahalo ʻe faingataʻa ke mahino ʻa e tafaʻaki ʻokú ke kau ki aí ʻo fakalalahi ai ʻa e fepakipakí. ʻE lava ke tokoni hono fakaʻaongaʻi ʻo e ngaahi pōpoaki “ʻoku oú” ke ke fakahaaʻi ai hoʻo loto-hohaʻá, ngaahi ongó, mo e fiemaʻú ʻi ha founga ʻoku faingofua ange ki he tokotaha fanongó ke fakafanongo mo maʻu ha mahinó. Ko e pōpoaki “ʻoku oú” ʻoku nofotaha ia ʻi hoʻo ngaahi ongó mo e ngaahi aʻusiá kae ʻikai ko hoʻo fakakaukau ki he meʻa kuo fai pe ʻikai lava ke fai ʻe he tokotaha ko eé.
ʻOku fakahaaʻi mai ʻe he konga ʻuluaki ʻo e pōpoaki “ʻoku oú” ʻa e ngaahi ongo pē ʻaʻaú, ʻa ia ʻoku mahuʻinga ki hono fakaleleiʻi ha fekeʻikeʻi pe taʻefemahinoʻakí. ʻOku tokoni ia ke fakasiʻisiʻi ai ʻa e ngaahi ongoʻi tulitonuhiá pea faingofua ange ai ke fakafanongo ki he niʻihi kehé. (Ko Hono Maʻu ha Mālohi ʻi he ʻEikí: Ivi Matuʻuaki Fakaelotó [2021], 136 )
Ke fakatātaaʻi ʻa e tefitoʻi moʻoni ko ʻení, fakakaukau ke vahevahe ʻa e ngaahi sīpinga ko ʻení pe fakaafeʻi ʻa e kau akó ke nau fakakaukau ki haʻanau sīpinga pē ʻanautolu:
Ngaahi Sīpinga ʻo e Ngaahi Pōpoaki “ʻOkú ké”
Ngaahi Sīpinga ʻo e Ngaahi Pōpoaki “ʻOku oú”
“ʻOku ʻikai ʻaupito te ke teitei fanongo pe feinga ke maʻu ha mahino fekauʻaki mo au.”
“ʻOku ou ongoʻi hangē ʻoku ʻikai fanongo mai ha taha pe maʻu ha mahino fekauʻaki mo au.”
“ʻOku ʻikai ke ke teitei fakaʻaongaʻi ha faʻahinga fakakaukau pe ongo ki hoʻo ngaahi meʻaʻofá pe ngāue ʻofá.”
“ʻOku ou ongoʻi taʻe-mahuʻinga mo liʻekina.”
Fokotuʻutuʻu tautau toko ua ʻa e kau akó pea fakaʻaliʻali ʻa e ʻekitivitī ko ʻení:
Sitepu 1: Fakapapauʻi pe ko hai ʻe hoa fika 1 pea ko hai ʻe hoa fika 2. ʻE kamata ʻa e hoa fika 1 ʻaki haʻane fakakaukau ki ha ngaahi pōpoaki “ʻokú ke” angamaheni kuó ne fanongo ai. ʻE tali ʻe he hoa fika 2 ʻaki haʻane liliu ʻa e ngaahi pōpoaki “ʻokú ke” ko iá ki ha ngaahi pōpoaki “ʻoku ou.”
Sitepu 2: Fetongi ʻa e hoa fika 1 mo e fika 2, pea toe fakahoko ʻa e sitepu 1.
Sitepu 3: Fakakaukau fakataha ki ha ngaahi tōʻonga ʻofa ke fakahoko ʻi he taimi ʻoku ʻikai maʻu ai ha pōpoaki “ʻoku ou” ʻo hangē ko e ʻamanakí.
Ke fakaʻosí, fakaafeʻi ʻa e kau akó ke vahevahe ʻa e meʻa ne nau ako mei he ʻekitivitií mo e founga te nau ala fakaʻaongaʻi ai ha niʻihi ʻo e ngaahi taukei ko ʻení mo honau kaungāmeʻá mo e kau mēmipa honau fāmilí.