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Te u Lava ʻo Lotu Fakataha mo Hoku Fāmilí
Talateu maʻá e Faiakó
Ke ke mateuteu fakalaumālie ke akoʻi e lēsoni ko ʻení, kātaki ʻo lau mo fakalaulauloto ki he ngaahi meʻá ni:
Naʻe folofola ʻa e Fakamoʻuí ʻo pehē, “Mou lotu ʻi homou ngaahi fāmilí ki he Tamaí, maʻu ai pē ʻi hoku hingoá, koeʻuhí ke tāpuakiʻi ʻa homou [ngaahi fāmilí]” (3 Nīfai 18:21). ʻE lava ai ke toe vāofi ange ʻa e ngaahi fāmilí ki he Tamai Hēvaní pea ʻiate kinautolu foki ʻi heʻenau lotu fakatahá pea fakaafeʻi ʻa e Laumālie Māʻoniʻoní ki he ʻapí (T&F 19:38).
Teuteú
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Fakaʻilongaʻi ʻa e peesi 106 ʻi he tohi lēsoni ko ʻení ke faingofua hoʻo huke ki aí.
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ʻOmai ha tatau ʻo e Tohi ʻa Molomoná. Fakaʻilongaʻi ʻa e 3 Nīfai 18:21 ke faingofua hoʻo huke ki aí.
Ngaahi ʻEkitivitī ke ako mei aí
Kamataʻaki ha ʻekitivitī fakatahataha. Ki ha ngaahi fakakaukau, vakai ki he peesi 3.
Lotu
Fakaafeʻi ha taha ʻo e fānaú ke ne fai ʻa e fua lotú.
Hiva
Fakaafeʻi ʻa e fānaú ke nau toutou leaʻaki ʻa e foʻi lea ko e “lotu fakafāmili”. Talaange kiate kinautolu te mou ako ha foʻi hiva fekauʻaki mo e lotu fakafāmilí. Faʻu mo e fānaú ha foʻi siakale pea ʻai ke nau pikinima. Hivaʻi pe lau ʻa e ngaahi lea ki he “Lotu Fakafāmili” (Tohi Hiva ʻa e Fānaú, 101) pea tokoniʻi ʻa e fānaú ke fakatātaaʻi fakataha mo koe:
Tau tūʻulutui takatakai (lue takai ʻi ha siakale)
Lotu e fāmilí (tuʻu pea tūʻulutui; ʻai ʻa e fānaú ke nau angimui atu “lotu fakafāmili”)
Fakamālō ki he Tamai [Hēvaní] (kūnima)
He ngaahi tāpuaki [ʻoku tau ʻinasi aí].
Fakatātā
Fakaʻaliʻali ʻa e fakatātā ʻo ha fāmili ʻoku lotu (peesi 54). Tokoniʻi ʻa e fānaú ke nau ʻilo ʻa e ngaahi mēmipa kehekehe ʻo e fāmilí pea talaange ʻoku nau tūʻulutui pea ʻoku nau kūnima, pūnou honau ʻulú pea kuikui honau matá. Talaange kiate kinautolu ʻoku fai ʻa e lotu fakafāmili ʻa e kiʻi fāmili ko ʻení. Fakaafeʻi ʻa e fānaú ke lau ʻa e foʻi lea “lotu fakafāmili.” Fakaafeʻi kinautolu ke nau tūʻulutui, peluki honau nimá ʻo kūnima pea punou honau ʻulú. Fakamatalaʻi ange ko e taimi ko ia ʻoku tau lotu fakafāmili aí, ʻoku tau talanoa ki he Tamai Hēvaní. ʻOku tau fakamālō kiate Ia ko e ngaahi tāpuakí pea ʻoku tau kole kiate Ia ke tokoni mo tāpuakiʻi hotau fāmilí.
ʻEkitivitī Lau Māú
Toe lau ʻa e ʻekitivitī lau maau ko ʻení pea fakaafeʻi ʻa e fānaú ke kau fakataha mo koe:
Ko ʻeku faʻeé ʻeni, ʻokú ma vaʻingá. (ʻai ki ʻolunga e foʻi tuhu fōlahí)
Ko ʻeku tamai ʻeni, ngāue he ʻaho kotoá. (ʻai ki ʻolunga e foʻi tuhu fika uá)
Ko hoku tuongaʻané ʻeni, fuʻu kaukauá. (ʻai ki ʻolunga e foʻi tuhu fika tolú)
Ko hoku tokouá ʻeni, mo e foʻipulu ke vaʻingá. (ʻai ki ʻolunga e foʻi tuhu fika faá)
Pea ko au ʻeni; ʻoku ou fiefia ke leá (ʻai ki ʻolunga e foʻi tuhu fika nimá)
Tūʻulutui hoku fāmilí ke lotu fakatahá. (tāpuni e ʻulutuhú)
Folofolá
Fakaʻaliʻali ʻa e fakatātā ʻo Sīsū Kalaisi ʻi he peesi 106. Fakaava ʻa e Tohi ʻa Molomoná ki he 3 Nīfai 18:21 pea lau, “Naʻe folofola ʻa Sīsū, ʻMou lotu ʻi homou ngaahi fāmilí.’” Fakaafeʻi ʻa e fānaú ke nau toe lau tahataha ʻa e ngaahi foʻi lea he kupuʻi lea ko ʻení mo koe.
Fakaʻosí
Fakaafeʻi ʻa e fānaú ke nau toutou lau tahataha ʻa e ngaahi foʻi lea ʻo e, “Te u lava ʻo lotu fakataha mo hoku fāmilí”.
Lotu
Fakaafeʻi ha taha ʻo e fānaú ke ne fai ʻa e lotu tukú.
Ngaahi ʻEkitivitī ke fili mei aí
Teuteú
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Ki he talanoa tamapua-louhiʻinimá: ʻAi ha tatau pe kosi ʻa e tamapua louhiʻinima ʻi he peesi 59. Valivali kinautolu kapau ʻe fie maʻu.
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Ki he kato vaʻingá: ʻI he fanga kiʻi kato iiki ʻe fā tohiʻi ai ʻa e “ʻOku Mau Fakamālō ko e Ngaahi Tāpuaki.” ʻI he kato takitaha faʻo ai ha fakatātā ʻo ha meʻa ʻoku tau fakamālōʻia ai (hangē ko e meʻakai, vala, ha fale, fāmili mo e alā meʻa pehē). Kapau te ke fie maʻu, ʻe lava ke ke ngāueʻaki ʻa e ngaahi tatau ʻo e ngaahi fakatātā ʻi he peesi 55 pe faʻahinga feituʻu ʻi he tohi lēsoni ko ʻení.
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Ki he ʻekitivitī valivalí: ʻAi ha tatau ʻo e fakatātā ʻi he peesi 55 ke valivali ʻe he fānaú kotoa. ʻOmai ha helekosi mo ha tepi.
Talanoa Tamapua-Louhiʻinimá
Ngāueʻaki ʻa e ngaahi tamapua louhiʻinimá ke fai ʻaki ʻa e talanoa ko ʻení ki ha lotu fakafāmili:
Ko ha kiʻi fāmili ʻeni. Ko e tamaí ʻeni pea ko e faʻē ʻeni. Ko e tokouá mo e tuongaʻané ʻeni. Ko Pita ʻeni ko e kiʻi tuongaʻane siʻisiʻí (tuhu ki he tamapua ʻo e kiʻi pēpē). ʻI he ʻaho ʻe taha naʻe vaʻinga ai ʻa Pita pea lavea hono matá (fakaafeʻi ʻa e fānaú ke fakapuliki honau matá ʻaki honau nimá). Naʻe ʻave ia ʻe heʻene Tamaí mo e Faʻeé ki he toketaá (toʻo ʻa e tamapuá mei ho nimá pea fakatokoto ʻi he falikí). Naʻe tūʻulutui ʻa e fāmili ʻo Pitá ʻi he lotu fakafāmili (fakaafeʻi ʻa e fānaú ke nau tūʻulutui). Naʻa nau kole ki he Tamai Hēvaní ke tāpuakiʻi ʻa Pita. Naʻe fanongo ʻa e Tamai Hēvaní ki heʻenau lotú. Naʻá Ne tokoniʻi ke toe sai ʻa Pita (toe tui fakafoki ʻa e tamapuá ki he louhiʻinimá). Pea naʻe toe fai ʻe Pita mo hono fāmilí ʻa e lotu fakafāmili ke fakamālō ki he Tamai Hēvaní ʻi he tāpuakiʻi ʻo Pitá.
Kato Vaʻinga
Tuku ʻa e ʻū kató ʻi he falikí. ʻAi ʻa e tokotaha kotoa pē ke nau pikinima ʻi ha siakale ʻo tuʻu takai ʻi he ngaahi kató pea lue takai he siakalé lolotonga hoʻomou hivaʻi ʻa e “Lotu Fakafāmilí.” Taʻofi e lué pea ʻai ha taha ʻo e fānaú ke ne fili ha kato pea fakaʻaliʻali ʻa e fakatātā ʻi lotó. Lau, “ʻOku mau fakamālō koeʻuhí ko e [hingoa ʻo e meʻa ʻoku ʻi he fakatātaá].” Fakamālō ki he fānaú ʻi heʻenau kau atú. Toutou fai pē kae ʻoua kuo kau ʻa e taha kotoa ʻoku fie maʻu ke kaú.
Valivalí
ʻAi ke valivali ʻe he fānaú ha tatau ʻo e peesi 55. ʻI he ʻosi ʻenau valivalí, kosi ʻa e fanga kiʻi kongo-kongá pea fakapipiki kinautolu ʻaki ha seloteipi ke faʻu ha seini maʻá e fānaú kotoa ke nau ʻave ki ʻapi.